Nubwo waba ukura abana mubitekerezo byo kurya neza, ntukishyure impano, wige gushima umunezero udafatika, wige gushimangira ibintu bidafatika, bitinde bitebuke, kandi nyuma abandi bafite ibikinisho bihenze kandi byiza, ibintu. Umunywa psychologue Marina Bykova yerekana uburyo bwo gusobanurira umwana ko umuryango udafite amafaranga kuri ibi byose. Kandi ntukarakare.
Guhera mu myaka 2-3, abana bigereranya nabandi. Bagerageza rero kumenya ubwabo: Ndi hejuru, t-shirt yanjye ni nziza cyane, mfite ibikinisho byinshi. Birasa nkaho umwana agerageza gutsindira umwanya kwisi: mubisanzwe abana bahora bifuza kwizera ko baruta abandi, kwandika.
I Winbergarten, ubucuruzi bushobora kugera kuri iyi ntambwe: "MOM we ni mwiza?" Cyangwa "papa we akomeye?" Gusa, umwana arabizi: ntabwo ari byose afite, ibyiza, hari imyanya aruta abandi. Birumvikana ko abana bose bakuze, ntabwo abantu bose bafite amahirwe make - bitinde bitebuke, umwana wese arabona ko adashobora gukora cyangwa kugira ibintu bimwe na bimwe biboneka kubandi.
Ntabwo itandukaniro ryumubiri gusa ni ngombwa mwishuri ryegereye ishuri, ariko nanone ibikoresho. Hano umwana ategereje kuvumbura gushya: Niba uca kandi uzamuka, ashobora kwiga, noneho imari iyobowe gusa. Kugoreka ubwenge birashobora kubaho: Niba ababyeyi batagura ibyo nshaka, ntibashaka kubigura.
Kugira ngo ashinje umwana kubi ntibishoboka: Biragaragara ko muri iki gihe adashobora kumenya igiciro cyibintu, kubera ko atigeze agira uburambe bwo gukorana namafaranga.
Niba ababyeyi bashaka gusobanurira umwana icyo nuburyo bukora mubyukuri, ugomba kwitegura ikiganiro ntigishobora kuba cyiza cyane. Witegure gusubiza ibibazo byose uvugishije ukuri, urebye ko umwana adashaka kukubabaza, ariko gato azi neza igikoresho cyisi.
Niki ukeneye gusobanura umunyeshuri ukiri muto?
- Nigute inzira yo guhaha n'impamvu kugura atari ikintu cyingenzi mubuzima. Ibyo ari byo byose, nubwo umwana akomeje kumubabaza ko adafite iphone iheruka, igihe yamaze igihe azakumva, kandi ntuzakubona neza.
- Amafaranga ava he kandi impamvu udashobora gucapa byinshi? Mu miryango imwe n'imwe, shimangira kwigisha buhoro buhoro umwana gutegura amafaranga yo kuzigama: Tanga amafaranga mu biruhuko cyangwa "kwishyura" ubufasha bwo murugo. Ntabwo aribwo buryo bwonyine, urashobora kuvuga gusa inkuru nyayo yo kugaragara kumafaranga. Nkuko abantu ba kera bahana ibicuruzwa na serivisi, kuko bamenye ko dukeneye agaciro kwose, kuko aka gaciro kacukuwe. Imitekerereze yumugabo witandukanije muri rusange irinda ibitekerezo byiterambere rya logique yabantu bose. Kandi kugirango wumve isoko ryimigabane mugihe kizaza, urashobora gutangirana ninkuru zerekeye ibishishwa na zahabu nziza.
Nigute wasubiza ibibazo byabana bitameze neza kubyerekeye amafaranga
Mbere yuko ibi bibazo bivuka, bingirakamaro hamwe numwana gutekereza kubyo amafaranga yumuryango wawe akoreshwa: ibicuruzwa, imyambaro, ubwikorezi. Ntiwibagirwe guhindukiraho amafaranga ashimishije kugirango buhoro buhoro umuntu yumve ko buri bombo angana niminota mike y'akazi. Niba umwana abajije:
- Kuki udashobora kubona byinshi?Ntukabone iki kibazo nko gutukwa, nubwo iyi ngingo ubwawe uhangayitse. Urashobora gusa gusubiza: buri gikorwa ni ngombwa kandi kigoye, kabone niyo cyaba gihembwa ukundi.
Ibiganiro nkibi ntibigomba kuganisha ku mwanzuro "udafite iPhone, kuko tutakoze." Igisubizo gikwiye: "Dukora kandi tumarana amafaranga ku kintu cy'ingenzi, bitabayemo ibyo tudashobora gukora." Umwana n'ababyeyi bombi bafite akamaro ko kwigirira icyizere mugihe cy'ejo hazaza h'umuryango wabo.
- Nta bikinisho mfite muri icyegeranyo (Gadget, imyenda yimyambarire), ntamuntu numwe uzaba inshuti nanjye!Abaterankunga ba Marquetologiste yibicuruzwa byabana barya: nintwari nibindi bisobanuro mumakarito, niko ushobora kugurisha. Ikibazo nuko abana bameze neza batera ibikinisho: imbwa nimodoka nkiyi birashobora kuba bitari ngombwa mu gice cyumwaka. Hanyuma akajya imyaka itari mike - kandi abana bakuze basaba imyenda ihenze cyangwa ibikoresho bishya buri gihembwe. Umuco ugezweho ukura inyungu gusa kubikoresha, abantu bose bashaka sneakers nka blogger mukundwa - nubwo yaba angahe. Sosiyete Societine zirasakuza: "Gura, kubera ko ubishaka nonaha." Ndetse n'abantu bakuru biragoye kurwanya igitutu nkicyo.
Imyaka hafi ya yose (kuva kuba muto kugeza impera yumwangavu) abana ni ngombwa kuba mu itsinda, kugira ikintu kimwe buri wese afite. Birakenewe kugira imbaraga zo kwerekeza kwibanda kumwana kumico yimbere. Gutangira, tekereza uko ubikora wenyine. Vugana n'umwana: Inshuti ze ninde, aho yabashima, kuki bishimishije nabo. Kuki nkeneye iPhone yanyuma: gukina hamwe cyangwa gushyira kumeza gusa?
Kuva akiri muto, yiga umwana kubona ibishimishije kuva umunsi uwo ari wo wose, kabone niyo waba waramaze igihe cyangwa mu nkambi ihanamye, ariko kuri nyirakuru mu mudugudu. Igisha umwana kwishingikiriza kuri twe ubwacu, ntukishingikirize ku bintu, umva konje udafite ibiryo bimwe na bimwe bivuye hanze. Kubwibyo, ntabwo ari ngombwa cyane kumwumvisha ko kugura bihenze ntibikenewe - ni ngombwa cyane ko hamwe nabo, kandi tutari kumwega birashimishije kandi birashimishije mubuzima.
Urashobora kumenya neza ko umwana nkuwo uhenze kandi w'ingenzi ashaka kugura mugihe kizaza, amarangamutima azabizana. Umwana amenya buhoro buhoro ko ibintu ari uburyo gusa. Kandi ko inshuti ntizihwema kuba inshuti, batitaye ko bafite gadget yimyambarire.
Nigute wasobanurira umwana ko ntamafaranga
Kenshi na kenshi, ababyeyi bahura nabo kubera ubukungu bwabo. Utitaye ku rwego rw'umushahara, umuntu ukuze wese abuza gukoresha, ku rugero runini cyangwa ruto. Rimwe na rimwe, ababyeyi ntibabishaka inzika ku mwana: amafaranga ku bana yamara cyane, kandi kubera ibyifuzo byabo ugomba kureka. Nubwo umwana uri mu gitabo adashobora kwitanga, bisaba amafaranga manini, adashyira mu gaciro. Hariho rero interuro zose zizakomereka zikomeretsa impande zombi: "Ntabwo turi abahanganye, nta mafaranga ndamara amafaranga menshi. Ntabwo mfite inkweto zisanzwe z'itumba, ariko nguhe ibikinisho, "" kwinjiza - uzirinda ikintu cyose. " Umenyereye?
Amagambo nkaya asa namarushanwa hamwe numwana: uri mububasha bwanjye, mpitamo ibizaba, igitekerezo cyawe ntabwo ari ngombwa. Umwana kandi cyane yumva atunzwe n'ababyeyi, kandi hano bigaragarira ko yongeye gutakaza uburenganzira bwo gutora.
Umwana wakuze mu kirere "Turakiza byose, ugomba kumwishimira," ntazagira imyumvire myiza ku mafaranga. Amafaranga asigaye "akomeye - arashimishije" arashobora gutorwa cyane murimwe mubaburanyi.
Niki? Urashobora guhora uvugana neza numwana. Sobanura ko abantu babona umushahara utandukanye mumirimo itandukanye - kandi nibi nibisanzwe. Kuganira, uko ingengo yimari yashushanijwe: Amafaranga ateganijwe kandi atabishaka, agura nkubwisana butunguranye cyangwa uburwayi. Niba udashobora kwishyura ikiruhuko cyawe mu nyanja, nacyo ni ibisanzwe, kandi nta cyaha.
Urashobora kuvuga kubyerekeye umunyeshuri muto kuriyi nkuru, udafite inzika kumwanya urenganya (urubyiruko rwabuze, umutware mukuru cyangwa umwana mukuru wumutware cyangwa umwana wumutware cyangwa umwana mubi. Hamwe ningimbi, urashobora kugisha inama, kubyo yari gukoresha amafaranga yinyongera, ubu ari ngombwa kumuryango.
"Nzi ko ushaka terefone nshya, ariko ubu ntidushobora kuyihagarika imodoka, kandi ntidushobora gukora tutasannye", "Urabizi ko nkorera byinshi kandi ndashaka kuguha ibyo ushaka byose, ariko umushahara wanjye uragufasha gukora bike, "Ndashaka kuruhuka byose hamwe kugirango uruhuke, ariko niba udakora, reka dutekereze uburyo bwo gukoresha igihe hano. " Ni ngombwa kudahakana ko hariho ibintu bitagerwaho - ahubwo ni ugushimangira - turagukorera byose uko dushoboye.
Imyitwarire yacu kumafaranga yakozwe igice mubana. Iyi niyo ngingo yingenzi izagira ingaruka kumyitwarire yimari mugihe kizaza. Ibuka ababyeyi kandi utekereze uburyo ukoresha cyangwa uzigame, mugihe uteganya kugura ndetse ninshuro uvuga: "Nta mafaranga."
Birumvikana ko umubiri, umuco, ibintu nibindi bintu kubantu bose biratandukanye cyane. Byongeye kandi, bahinduka mugihe - kandi barashobora guhindura vuba cyane. Ariko, kwigirira icyizere, imbaraga zabo ninzira zizaza - kuba ababyeyi bashobora kuzura mumwana wabo, batitaye ku bijyanye n'ubukungu bw'umuryango.