Gerageza guhanga udukurikira, kwemerera guhanga ikibazo icyo ari cyo cyose, usige igihembo n'imigenzo. Ikintu nyamukuru ni ugushiramo ibitekerezo ukareka ubwoba kuruhande.
Wibuke, abantu barema ntibatinya kwemera ibisubizo bidasanzwe no gutanga ibitekerezo byumwimerere. Nubwo waba ubanza kukumva kandi nzafata igitekerezo, ntuhagarare. Teza imbere imitekerereze guhanga, soma ibitabo wifuza, reba ingero zabandi.
Guhanga ni byiza bishobora gutezwa imbere. Nibyo, birakwiye ko tumenya, ibya mbere byatangiye gukora, nibyiza. Imyaka iboneye cyane ni abana, imyaka igera kuri 6. Kubwibyo, niba umwana wawe atanga ikintu cyo gukora ikintu, ntuhagarike, kora ibishoboka kugirango utezimbere ibitekerezo bye, ubufasha mugushyira mubikorwa umushinga.
Uri inzobere mu bifite agaciro, niba uretse uburezi, uburambe bwakazi, gutunga guhanga. Mwisi ya none nta guhanga ahantu hose. Ubu ni ubwoko bw'imizabibu igufasha kwihagararaho mu bandi, kwegera icyemezo cyawe cyo gukemura umurimo uwo ari wo wose, andika umuziki w'umwimerere, utangira ibicuruzwa byumwimerere. Abantu baremye barahawe ikaze ahantu hose: mubikorwa byo guhanga no gutanga umusaruro, mubucuruzi, mumashuri yisumbuye ndetse no kwishuri.
Ni izihe mico izahemba ibihanga
Ubutwari. Ntabwo ari ngombwa gutinyuka guhinduka. Iyi mico izaza kuri wewe mugihe runaka. Ariko gufata icyemezo bikwiye. Nibura kugirango utatinye gutangaza wenyine. Gutera isoni bitari ngombwa, tanga igitekerezo cyawe kuri bagenzi bawe cyangwa ba shebuja. Ntugahite utegereza isuzuma ryiza, ntugahangayike niba utasobanutse. Mumaze kwerekana ko uri umukozi utangirira. Kandi ibitekerezo hamwe nubunararibonye bizarushaho kuba byiza kandi bitanga umusaruro.
Kwigirira icyizere. Gutsinda ubwoba bwawe, wigaragaze, uzabona uburyo wabaye ufite imbaraga. Ntutangazwe nubwo impinduka zawe ziteganijwe, inyuma izagorora, nikimwe mubimenyetso uhindura kandi utera imbere muburyo bwiza. Nyuma yigihe, uzabona ko abo dukorana bazatangira kuvugana nawe kugirango bakugire inama, kandi imyifatire yabandi izahinduka ibyiza.
Ubwigenge. Guhanga ntibisobanura iterambere ryibitekerezo byo guhanga. Kugira ngo ugire icyo ugeraho mu cyerekezo cyatoranijwe, ni ngombwa kwiga, gushaka amasoko yamakuru. Kandi, ugomba gufata gahunda y'ibikorwa, ntabwo ari ngombwa gufasha bagenzi bacu muri uru rubanza, kuko umurimo wawe ugomba kwerekana ko uhanga.
Gutsimbarara. Kwiga, kwakira ubuhanga nubuhanga ni umurimo. Kugirango ugere ku ntego kugirango uhagarike ntibishoboka. Ariko wige gukingura imiryango ifunze, ushakisha inama nabantu beza ukeneye. Tumaze gutsinda urunigi rwo gushyira mu bikorwa umushinga kuva mu ntangiriro kugeza ku mperuka, urashobora kuvuga neza kuri wewe: "Yego, ndi umuntu uteye ubwoba, nshobora kugera ku ntego!"
Umusabane. Umuntu wo guhanga nta kibazo afite mu itumanaho. Byaguka byoroshye uruziga rwibintu bye, nibiba ngombwa, bizanwa kumuntu ukwiye. Muri icyo gihe, ntabwo yinjira, ashimishije mu itumanaho, mubisanzwe, hashingiwe ku kubahiriza amategeko y'ibanze y'ikirere no gushyikirana mu bucuruzi. Umuntu nkuwo ari muri konte nziza ya ba shebuja.
Gerageza guhanga udukurikira, kandi uzabona uburyo ubuzima bwawe bwabaye bwo. Noneho uramwishima: "Natekereje rwose," ntabwo ari ugusuzuma neza ibikorwa byawe? Guhanga bizaguha ubwisanzure bwo guhitamo: aho byoroshye kwiga, ninde mwiza cyane gukora. Nibyo, amaherezo ntuzahitamo, nawe ubwawe uhitamo aho ugomba kujya kukazi. N'ubundi kandi, uhinduka guhanga, urashobora gutsinda byoroshye ibibazo, uzafatanya neza nabantu, urashobora kwerekana ibitekerezo byawe neza kandi neza.