Inyenyeri y'abana: Uburyo bwo Gutaka hamwe n'Umwana

Umwana arimo kunyerera, agendera hasi na Koogoti amaboko n'amaguru hasi. Kandi urashaka gusinzira munsi yiki gihugu cyawe - ubabajwe nawe wowe ubwawe n'umwana, utishoboye, kwiheba no kwiheba n'isoni (niba abantu bareba). Mugihe nk'iki, witeguye gukora ikintu icyo ari cyo cyose: Gusezeranya ko ibyifuzo byose, guhatira, gutera ubwoba, gutera ubwoba, niba bihagaze. Nubwo mubyukuri bishoboka cyane wifuza kuryama nyuma ndetse no kuzuza.

Hysterics ni ibisanzwe

Ntabwo muburyo bumwe ko ari ngombwa kubashishikariza cyangwa kutagerageza gukumira. Kandi muri ibyo ntibikenewe kubanyadamutsa hysteries no kubatinya. Umwana ni ngombwa cyane kwerekana ibyiyumvo n'amarangamutima yacyo, ni ngombwa ko yumvise, yamwitayeho. Niba umwana atabonetse, ntazarokoka. Kandi kuva kutatera gusanira gusa, gusa ahubwo no kubona ibyiyumvo bye by'umwana bidashoboye, abugaragaza uko ashoboye. Harimo binyuze muri hysterics.

Hysteria ni ubutumwa

Akenshi impamvu nyazo za hysteria ntaho ibinyoma ntabwo ariho tubishaka. Hysteria irashobora gutera ikintu icyo aricyo cyose - kuva ku gikinisho kidafunze kugirango bidashoboka gukoraho izuba. Ariko ibiba imbarutso ya hysterical ntabwo buri gihe arimpamvu. Umwana arashobora gusonza, gukonjeshwa, kudabohora - ibitera physiologique yibihisho birasanzwe kuruta uko ubitekereza. Ibuka nawe mugihe ushonje - ibintu byose bikikije kurambagirana, ntacyo nshaka, kandi witeguye kwica abantu bose bareba ibiryo. Gusa wiha raporo mubibera, kandi urashobora kwiyobora. Kandi umwana ntabwo. Yumva ko ari mubi, ariko ntashobora kumva neza. Nkigisubizo, ibintu byose ntabwo bigenda, kutanyurwa kwegeranya no gutemba muri hysterics.

Umubavusiye Ishusho / Pixabay Kurokoka Ababyeyi mugihe cyo gushushanya biza kumarangamutima

Amarangamutima ninkwiga ibiryo bya shysical. Ushaka kumugurira ikindi gihe cyisaha? Nibyiza, tangira gutaka, kurahira, kwandikira umutimanama. Kandi uko binyuranye: Niba ushoboye gutuza, hysterics izahagarika vuba.

Nta gihe cyo Kuroba

Nibyo, soma imyitwarire ikubita uruhinja ntabwo ari igitekerezo cyiza. Iyaba gusa kubera ko atakumva kandi ntabona. Kuri we ubu, mbega imvugo yawe iyo buzz w'imibu iracyahari. Mugihe cya hysteria, umwana yitatiye kuvuga, ahubwo yitabira ibikorwa n'amarangamutima.

Kuguha kumenya ko uri hafi

Erekana umwana uri hafi kandi witeguye gufasha. Ntibikenewe guhobera ku gahato niba umwana arenze. Gusa kwegera hafi kuba kurwego rumwe numwana, kandi ntugamanitse hejuru, kandi reka nsobanukirwe ko iyo ahanganye n'amarangamutima kandi azaba yiteguye kuvugana, arashobora kwiringira. Vuga ijwi rituje, rinyerera.

Kuguha kumenya ko ibyiyumvo bye ari ngombwa

Subiramo ko usobanukiwe n'uburakari / icyaha / umwana utazita ku mwana ko afite uburenganzira ku byiyumvo bye ko utabitseho kandi nturaciraho iteka, ariko urashaka gufasha. Tanga hamwe kuzamuka igisubizo cyikibazo. Iyo urwego rwa hysteria ruragaba, umwana azashobora kugira uruhare mukiganiro, kandi birashoboka ko uzatekereza ku gukemura ikibazo hamwe.

Wizere ariko ntukomere

Igikorwa cyawe ni uguha umwana ubutaka bukomeye munsi yamaguru mugihe mugihe ibimenyetso byose bivanze. Kubwibyo, nubwo utazi neza niba nawe ubabaye kandi ufite ubwoba, niba utazi icyo gukora, ntukabyerekane. Muri rusange ubu ni shingiro ryumubyeyi, kandi mugihe cya hysterics, bigaragarira cyane cyane. Niba udashoboye guhaza ibyifuzo byumwana, vuga kuri byose, ariko utuje. Oya, ntidushobora kugura iyi nyigisho, birahenze cyane. Oya, izuba ntirizimanuka riva mwijuru kugirango ukore. Niba ubikeneye, subiramo inshuro nyinshi, hanyuma utange umwana kuzana ubundi buryo runaka.

Ibikorwa bityaye hamwe nijwi rirenga birashobora gufasha gusa byihutirwa. Kurugero, iyo umwana atera inyama kumuhanda, kandi imodoka yihuta kuri yo. Noneho bihagije kandi wiruke, ntusobanure ikintu na kimwe.

Kandi mubindi bihe byose - bituje, gusa gutuza gusa, nkuko Carlson yarabigajeho.

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