Abantu benshi kuva bavuka k'umwana bakora ibitotsi bihuriweho. Ariko imfura
Akenshi ubwoba iyo umugore agaburira umwana mu nzozi, bikaba byatumye hagira ingaruka mbi. Ariko ni byiza cyane kandi
: Ntabwo ukeneye kubyuka nijoro kugirango ugaburire igituza cyumwana, gusimbuka igihe cyose umwana yishura. Ibyo abaganga b'abana na Mama bavuga
Kuri uyu munsi, uzigira mu ngingo yacu.
Muganga avuga iki
Abakurambere bacu baryamana nabana kugirango barinde kandi ntibapfire kuva akonje. Ariko ababyeyi ba none batinya gushinga abana hafi, kuko hari ibibazo abagore mu nzozi bahagaze hamwe nuburemere bwabantu. Inzobere mu Ishuri ry'Abanyamerika ry'Abanayiniya rivuga kandi ko ibisinzira hamwe n'umwana muto bishobora gutwara akaga k'umwana w'umwana. Ariko abayoboke basinziriye hamwe bavuga ko imyanya nkiyi ikomeye ifitanye isano no kudashobora kugenzura imibereho ya buri muryango wa buri muntu, ubuzima bwabo bwa buri munsi, bityo biroroshye kubuza kuruta gushaka umusaruro.Abaganga b'Abaheda b'Abarusiya nabo bavugana no gusangira. Batera ubwoba bakiri bato inkuru ziteye ubwoba mugihe abagore basinziriye iruhande rw'umwana, bakabyuka bafite umwana udakora. Mubisanzwe, buri mubyeyi yumva iyo nama kandi azakora ibishoboka byose umuganga wa muganga azavuga.
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Ukuntu Mama no gusinzira hamwe
Abagore bavutse barimo bambara abana iruhande rwabo, bavuga ko akaga katari mu nzozi zihuriweho, ahubwo no mu mibereho y'ababyeyi. Niba umubyeyi afashe abakozi bakomeye batuje, bagwa kumugoroba, kuko ntamuntu ufasha kwita ku mwana, kandi akanakoresha inzoga cyangwa ibiyobyabwenge, mubisanzwe, ntibishoboye kugenzura uko ibintu bimeze. Ikintu cyingenzi ni urwego rworoshye rw'igitanda, kandi niba abandi bagize umuryango cyangwa amatungo basinziriye muri yo. Ibi byose bigomba gusuzumwa mugihe dufashe umwanzuro ku nzozi zihuriweho numwana.
Ariko hariho uruhande rwinyuma rwumudari. Mama numwana ni physiologique "byashyizweho" kuri buriwese. Umwana aratuza iyo impumuro yumvise hafi yumunuko numubiri wa nyina. Abagore beza mu nzozi bumva umwuka wumwana, bityo ingaruka ziterwa ni nto. Injyana yo gusinzira ifite nyina ukiri muto n'umwana ukingiwe, ku buryo umugore asubiza impinduka zose mu bihe by'umwana. Mu cyiciro kitonyanga kitoroshye, Mama arashobora kumva imiti idahwitse cyangwa kuyigaburira amabere. Ntabwo akeneye kubyuka inshuro nyinshi nijoro, kandi ibi ni ngombwa cyane kubinyabuzima binaniwe, bikenewe kuruhuka.
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Ababyeyi bato babibwira
Nina, Mama Wssusha w'imyaka ibiri:
"Igihe umukobwa wanjye yavukaga, natinyaga kumumaboko, yari nto. Ariko Ksyullha aryamye nijoro, kandi yagombaga gukuramo uruhande rumwe rw'igitanda kugirango ayishyire hafi yigitanda cyacu. Nibyiza cyane niba utinya kwangiza ikintu cyumwana. Mu mezi 4, naryamanye na Ksyusha hamwe, kandi ni byiza cyane, byiza cyane - umva umugabo muto hafi. Njye mbona kuri na kamere mu mugore washyize ku buryo aryama cyane kandi yumva umwana we. "Oksana, Umwaka wa Mama Vladika:
Ati: "Abaganga b'abacuruzi mu ivuriro ry'abana bafite ubwoba ko umugore ashobora guhonyora umwana niba amezi ya mbere bazaryamana. Ariko rero naganiriye ku huriro rya mummy, kandi benshi, hindura, shyira abana iruhande rwabo. Birumvikana ko iyo umugore ananiwe cyane, abarwaye yo kwiheba nyuma, afata ibinini byo kuryama, ntabwo bikwiye ibyago. Ariko mu bindi bihe, ntekereza ko buri mubyeyi yumva umwana we mu nzozi, kuko twumva neza umwaka wa mbere tukanguka kuri buri rusaku. "
Alexandra, Mama 6 Amezi Arina:
"Umukobwa aryamanye nanjye kuva akivuka. Amajoro ya mbere yagerageje kumushyira mu kabati, ariko yari ikuzimu. Yatakambiye, ntiyasinziriye, kandi nagombaga kwimura. Ntabwo nicuza, kuko abana bakura vuba, kandi ntibabona umwanya wo kwishimira ibyo bihe mugihe umwana asimbuye atuje. "Sofiya, Mama Arseny (imyaka 1.5):
"Mu gihe cy'amezi atatu umuvuzi masage yaje kuri twe. Noneho abwira inkuru ko yaje gukora massage mumuryango umwe. Kuri abo babyeyi b'umuhungu w'imfura, Mama yajanjaguwe mu nzozi. Kunanirwa cyane, ntibyaguye, kandi dore ibisubizo. Natangajwe cyane ninkuru nakemuye neza - nta nzozi zihuriweho. Nubwo mbere yiyi Arseny yasinziriye ukwayo, ariko rimwe na rimwe mugitondo nabisigaranye muburiri bwanjye. Kubwamahirwe, ibyago byo kugirira nabi umwana birahari, nuko tutireka kutagira ibyago. " Hirya no hino ku isi, Mama yitoza ibitotsi bihuriweho kandi akakira ibinezeza. Abana bari iruhande rwumuntu wingenzi kandi bumva bafite umutekano. Kandi nyina ukiri muto ukiri muto arashobora kuruhuka byimazeyo, mugihe atangiza ubuzima nubuzima bwumunsi wavutse. Ariko ababyeyi ubwabo bagomba gufata icyemezo, gupima "" no "gusinzira".