Muri iki gihe, ku miryango aho hari abana benshi, ariko icyarimwe ni munsi yumurongo wubukene bufitanye isano nibibi. Kenshi na kenshi, imiryango nkiyi yumva "Kuki ujuririra", "ubukene" nibindi bisobanuro bidashimishije. Ariko abantu bake bazi impamvu nyayo yibyabaye, ntibihutira guca imanza. Hamwe niki kibazo twahindukiriye ababyeyi benshi bakuze kugirango tumenye uburyo bishimye, ibyo batekereza kuriyi kandi kuki ukomeje kubyara.
Alla: "Gutakaza umuntu, dore igiciro cyabyaye umwe mubana"
Alla yarishimye, ariko amaze kugira imfura, umugabo we yajugunye umuryango we. Kandi iyi ni nyuma yimyaka 17 kubana. Impamvu - Abakobwa kuva bakivuka ni uburyo bukomeye bwo kubungabunga ubwonko.
Amaze kubonana no gutungurwa kwambere kwisuzumisha, umugore yagombaga gutsinda no kubabara umutima kubera kugenda k'umugabo we. Ariko mbere yuko ugenda, imibanire yamenetse ku buryo umugabo wanjye yatangiye kurera ukuboko kugeza igihe yamukubise mu bitaro. Abagabo batanze imyaka 3. Yabajije nyuma, ariko Alla ntiyababariye.
Imiryango imwe mubafatanyabikorwa idashobora kwihanganira ingorane, ibintu ntabwo ari gake, ariko akenshi abagabo bagenda. Umwana urwaye arasaba imbaraga nyinshi, ibitekerezo n'imbaraga, kandi umugabo wa Alla yari muri egoist, yabuze uku kwitondera.
Soma nanone: Umuryango munini udasanzwe aho albinos zose
Ariko umugore akomeza kuba umugore na Alla, yamenyereye undi mugabo wakoranye neza kandi, kubera iyo mpamvu, yongeye gutwita. Aya makuru yasanze UHOR yaratunguwe, ahita arabura nta kimenyetso. Inkunga ntabwo yari iy'ababyeyi cyangwa kumenyera. Benshi bavugaga gukuramo inda, kuko ufite imyaka 22 kandi ufite umukobwa ufite ubumuga. Ariko nyina ukiri muto yavuye umwana.
Umuryango rero wagaragaye Arseny. Mu kiruhuko kiri hagati yo kugaburira amasabusa mu biro by'iposita, ariko amaherezo, umutware wamubonye kandi afasha kurenga amasomo ya Operator. Rero, Alla yatangiye ubundi buzima numushahara uhamye hamwe nicyizere gishya. Bidatinze, yahuye n'umugabo, nyuma y'impanuka, yagumye asekeje mu kagare k'abamugaye.
Umugabo, nubwo afite ubumuga, yakoraga siporo yamugaye. Bidatinze, abashakanye barashyingiwe, kandi nyuma yimyaka 10, baratandukanye. Alla yigishije ubu bukwe, kandi umugabo wamugaye yafashaga kurera abana.
Papa mushya yagaragaye mu gihe cyo gusubiza mu buzima busanzwe mu kigo cya Sanatori, aho Alla yari kumwe n'umukobwa we. Nabonye umuntu wari kumwe numujyi we. Bahanahana terefone kandi bidatinze batangira guhura. Alla yari afite imyaka 39 kandi yari iyo gusama, ntiyagiye. Ariko bimara rero ko yongeye gutwita maze umuntu we mushya yavuze ko adashaka umwana amuhatira kujya gukuramo inda. Ariko Allah, yihanganiye igitero no kuba umugabo yagiye. Gusiga umwana. Umwana wa gatatu rero aravuka, umukobwa Alice.
Reba kandi: Umubyeyi urera abana - inama 5, uburyo bwo kubaho
Noneho Alla afite abana batatu, imwe muri zo iri mu kagare k'abamugaye. Nkuko umugore yabisobanuye, biragoye cyane, ariko Imana itanga amahirwe yo "kurera" abana, kabone niyo bigaragara ko ibintu byiringiro. Naho irungu, yamye yifuzaga umuryango, gusa ntabwo afite amahirwe n'abagabo.
Amateka ya Elena: "Nashakaga kudashaka abagabo intege nke, nibyiza kubaho
Elena Ryabova, umubyeyi munini uba mu karere ka Ivanovo. Umugore afite abana batanu kandi ntabwo yigeze atamanuka. Irakora byoroshye, kandi mugihe abagabo badahari "biruta Abiba hamwe nande." Buri gihe yavugaga ko yibarutse, abana urukundo kandi ntanumwe bahangayikishijwe nkuko nambara cyangwa ngo baburire.
Dukurikije Elena, benshi bakize, bafata umwana umwe kumukungugu no kwambara mubintu bihenze. Kandi umwana nkigisubizo ashobora kuba umusinzi wibiyobyabwenge bitewe nuko yangiritse gusa.Ibintu byose kwisi ugereranije, kimwe no gusobanukirwa uburyo bwiza. Umuntu avuga ko nakandagiye ubukene. Reka babivuge. Nkunda abana banjye, kandi niba Uwiteka Imana yanyoye abana benshi, nzemera abantu bose bashimira.
Nubuzima bwihariye, Elena ntabwo yiterambere. Mubyukuri ubuzima, umwaka umwe cyangwa bibiri nibitandukanya. Ariko abana baragumaho iteka ryose.
Ntukihute rero guciraho iteka kandi uvuge, bavuga ngo "Kuki bibyara." Ntabwo byakubyaye, ariko kubwanjye. Ikintu nyamukuru nuko abagore bumva bahuza mubuzima bwabo, nubwo badahisha ko hari byinshi kubura.