Umubyeyi umwe avuga ati: "Tumaze gutangira gutegura umukobwa ku ishuri. - Ndetse yahaye akazi umurezi we. Nyuma yimyaka ibiri, azajya mwishuri ryambere.
"Ariko umwana afite imyaka itanu gusa," ibindi bintu. - Ntabwo ari kare?
- Noneho abana bagomba kujya mwishuri biteguye. Ushobora gusoma, kwandika no kubara.
Igitangaje ni uko muri ibi biganiro, intera zombi ni nziza. Nta gushidikanya ko abana ba kijyambere bakeneye kwitegura kwishuri, ariko bagatangira gukora neza gukora ibi hafi umwaka mbere yo kwinjira mubyiciro byambere. Ariko, gushyiraho ubumenyi bwingirakamaro bwo kwiga butangira mbere - kandi umurezi ntabwo ari umufasha.
Umwana yiteguye ryari?
Kwitegura kwishuri byumvikana nkimikoranire yibintu bitanu:
- Urwego rwumubiri rwiterambere rurimo kwishora kandi nimpamvu nziza;
- Ubushobozi bwo gutekereza bushingiye ku mikoranire yibitekerezo bitanu byose;
- Impamvu zirimo igitekerezo cyo kwihanganira gutenguha, iyo iyi si igenda ikatagenda kandi ikabije;
- Ubumenyi bwimibereho harimo ubushobozi bwo kuvugana no gushyikirana;
- Kwibandaho ni ishingiro ryo kwibanda mumahugurwa.
Inkunga ikwiye ihuza no kumenyana mbere nisi y'ibitabo bitera urufatiro rwiza kubushobozi bwabana bwo kwiga ishuri.
Impamvu ibisabwa byarahindutse
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Mu myaka 80-90, byari byoroshye kwitegura ishuri. Byari bihagije kurekura ishuri ry'incuke. Bimaze mumasomo, abana biga byose. Ku bwiteguro bwa psychologiya kandi ntibyari ngombwa. Byari bihagije ku cyemezo cy'abana ridasanzwe.
Ariko, uyumunsi ababyeyi babazwa niba umwana ashobora kujya mwishuri, kera mbere yibyabaye. Iki gihe kubantu bakuru akenshi bahinduka imihangayiko. Birashoboka gusiga umwana umwaka umwe w'incuke niba asa nkaho atari yiteguye kwishuri? Ninde uzaba umwarimu wa mbere? Ibi nibindi bibazo byinshi biza kumutwe kubabyeyi iyo batekereje kwegera kugera ku ishuri rya mbere.
Kwitegura kwishuri - Niki?
Ababyeyi benshi ntibazi no gusobanura mubyukuri nibikubiyemo "kwitegura ishuri." Igitekerezo gishaje ntabwo gikoreshwa ku cyingenzi mugihe winjiye mubyiciro byambere uyumunsi, kuko abana ba none bakura burundu mundi makuru.
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Ku rundi ruhande, ubushobozi bwo kwiga burimo uburambe bwa mbere bwo ku ishuri, aho kwiga buri gihe mu ishuri ntibishobora gutsinda. Niyo mpamvu ari ngombwa cyane kwitabira amashuri y'incuke imyaka itari mike mbere yo kujya ku ishuri. Byongeye kandi, abana b'iki gihe bafite abavandimwe na bashiki bacu bake. Ni ukuvuga, ntibafite amahirwe yo gusabana mumuryango. Kubwibyo, nibyiza mugihe hari ibidukikije byabana - mu busitani, muruziga rwinshuti cyangwa mumikino ya siporo.
Ibice bya kabiri by'ingenzi ni ubuzima. Ubuzima bwiza - imiterere yo kwiga neza. Nibyiza gusubika kujya mwishuri kuruta guha umwana aho, bitariteguye kumubiri.
Icyitonderwa gifatwa nkuwa nyina wubwenge
- Abana, witondere! "Ngiyo abarimu bavuga igihe bashaka gusobanura ikintu."
Iyo umuntu yibanze nkana kubintu runaka, yibanze, abona ubuhanga, ningirakamaro kwishuri. Ariko, kwibanda ntigushobora gupimwa no kwihangana asoma igitabo gishimishije, ahubwo akimura angahe kumyandikire yumye. Niba umwana mu mashuri abanza ashobora kugira icyo akora mu minota 10-15 ibyo yabajijwe, ariko ntabwo byanze bikunze bikunda, noneho ubushobozi bwe bwo kwibandaho ni uburyo.Irashobora gutegurwa muburyo bwimikino hamwe nubufasha bwimyitozo mu iburanisha: Inyoni zingahe ziri kuri Twitter muri iki gihe? Urumva urusaku rw'umuyaga mu biti? Kandi kwitotomba k'umugezi? Rero, umwana yiga gutega amatwi yitonze kandi "kugira ngo afate amatwi." Arashobora gutoza kwibanda kwe, gushushanya no gukora ibihangange, kimwe no kugerageza no gukoraho. Cyangwa gukina imikino yo kwihuta na puzzle, mukinamico yibipupe. Umwana uhoraho, umwana akomeje gukora ubucuruzi bwe, nubwo atabonye ko ashimishije cyane, ibyiza.
Ubushobozi bwo gutekereza
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Ariko, ubwenge ntabwo aribyose, kuko amaherezo, abantu bagomba gushobora kuyihindura mubushobozi bwubwenge. Ibi birimo ubuhanga bwo gutekereza kandi bujyanye na contiption. Ariko ni ngombwa cyane gushobora kumva neza no gufata mu mutwe. Niba ababyeyi bashaka kubyutsa umwana wabo muriki kibazo, noneho barashobora kumusaba kuzana ibintu bitatu bifatika rimwe na rimwe bivuye mu kindi cyumba hanyuma usobanure uko babibona.
Guhanga no gutekereza no gufatwa mu mikino yo gukina "abakobwa ba nyina ba nyina". Ariko gusura ingo ndangamurage nabyo inyungu. Kwegeranyo nabyo bifitanye isano n'akarere. Kuberako niba abana bashobora kwegeranya no kubika, kurugero, amabuye, bazabikora vuba mubunini, imiterere n'ibara. Bategura rero amahame yo gutondekanya akamaro ko gahunda yo gutegura ubumenyi bwabonetse nyuma yishuri. Ishuri rirasaba kandi ubuhanga bwo kuvuga. Ibitabo bifite amashusho no kuganira kuri bo cyangwa gutobora, nyamuneka tubwire birambuye kubyerekeye gusura ikibuga kizaba ingirakamaro.
Urwego rwumubiri
Ariko, ubushobozi bwo kujya mwishuri ntabwo bukubiyemo ubwenge no gutekereza gusa, ahubwo nubushobozi bwumubiri. Harimo intego nini kandi nto. Impamvu nini isobanura guhuza amaboko no kwoza, kimwe namaguru n'ibirenge. Hagarara ku kuguru kumwe kandi utera inshuro icumi, kuringaniza ibice bibeshya, uzamuka, uzenguruke inzitizi, usubire inyuma, ubashe gutera no gufata umupira munini - ubu buhanga bwose.
Uyu munsi, abana bafite ibibazo byinshi muriki gice kuruta ibisekuruza byabanjirije, kuko bimuka bike kandi, hejuru ya byose, bitandukanye. Mubindi bintu, biganisha ku kwiyongera kwimikorere nimpanuka.
Nanone yagabanije ubumenyi bwiza bwa moteri. Ahanini, ibi bivuze ko ubushishozi bwintoki, bukoreshwa mugihe cyo gushushanya, gukata no gukora ubukorikori. Kimwe nigihe umukino wo kwishora numupira, abashushanya, puzzles. Imiterere yintoki yamenetse biterwa nimyitozo yanditse gusa mwishuri, ariko nayo iva mumyitozo ngororamubiri yintoki mumyaka yashize.
Impamvu nubuhanga bwimibereho
Soma kandi: Ni ibihe byiza, niba mumuryango abana babiri
Ubuzima ntarengwa bukora hamwe numwana hano none nuburyo bwiza bwo gutegura ishuri. Ishoramari ryihariye ryamafaranga kuri ibi bitari ngombwa rwose. Ariko ibyo umwana akeneye, byumwihariko, imico imwe ni motifike. Ibi ntibikubiyemo inyungu, amatsiko nubwigenge gusa, ariko cyane cyane kurwana gutenguha. Ubu bushobozi bwo guhangana no gutsindwa cyangwa gusubika ibikenewe, ntabwo ari bibi cyangwa bidashaka kwiyegurira vuba.
Ariko ababyeyi barashobora kwitoza kwihanganira gutenguha kumyaka iyo ari yo yose, nubwo yamaze guteza imbere mumyaka itatu yambere yubuzima:
- Imikino y'Ubuyobozi - Inzira imwe yo gukora. Birumvikana ko harumvikana, ko ababyeyi badatakaza nkana guha umwana kumva ko ibyo bagezeho. Niba abantu bane bakina umukino wubuyobozi, batatu muribo babuze. Intsinzi rero ni ibintu bidasanzwe. Umuntu wese ukura hamwe nuburambe nk'ubwo, yiga ibyifuzo bifatika kuruta abana bahora bemerera gutsinda.
- Mu mikino kuri agility yubushake bwabana buba bwiza kandi bwiza. Kubwibyo, kwishongora ni byiza. Imikino yose aho umwana ashobora guhosha byoroshye, fasha kugirango utezimbere imyitwarire ituje yo gutenguha.
- Imiryango ihora ifata "inama zumuryango", kurugero, kugirango utezimbere gahunda yo guteranamirwe hamwe nibiruhuko hamwe, fasha abana babo muribi. Amaherezo, ntabwo abantu bose bazashobora kurengera igitekerezo cyayo buri gihe. Erega, ugomba gushakisha kumvikana no gufata ibyemezo.
- Ndetse na TV irashobora guhinduka igikoresho cyo kwihanganira gutenguha niba bikunze gusuzumwa. Mu myaka ibiri yambere yubuzima bwabana ntibagomba kumara umwanya imbere ya ecran, kuko yangiza ubuzima.
- Banki nkuru yingurube irashobora kandi kugira uruhare mugutezimbere uburwayi mugihe abana baryamirije amezi kugirango bakusanyirizeho ikintu cyifuzwa.
Ubuhanga bwo gutumanaho
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Haracyari ubumenyi bwimibereho, kugirango iterambere risabe nabandi bana b'ingeri zose. Umuntu wese ukura hamwe n'abavandimwe na bashiki bacu benshi baturutse kubana bangagi bafite ibyiza biboneye muri kano karere. Ibyo ari byo byose, abana bakeneye guhura nabandi bantu, nko mu ishuri ry'incuke.
Abantu basabana ibintu biroroshye kubaka umubano nabatazi. Kunesha isoni nuburyo bwo kwiga butangirana no kunoza kwihesha agaciro. Ibi na byo, byumvikana gusa mugihe tuvuga abandi bantu, kandi ibi bisaba kumva ko abantu. Itumanaho ririmo byinshi birenze guhana amagambo, kubera ko ijwi ryijwi, isura yijwi nibimenyetso byose byumubiri kuri 90 ku ijana, kandi amagambo ari 10% gusa byitumanaho gusa. Niyo mpamvu itumanaho rya terefone, ubutumwa bugufi ntabwo isimbuza ibiganiro byumuntu.
Icya nyuma ariko icy'ingenzi
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Ababyeyi bagomba kuganira cyane nabana - kera mbere yuko bavuga ubwabo. Ibi bigira ingaruka kumajyambere gusa, ahubwo no kurandura urukundo. Kubera ko buri mwana ahura n'amakimbirane, ibiganiro byawe nabo ni ngombwa cyane. Gusa, azashobora kuzana umwirondoro we mubitekerezo byayo byose, ibyifuzo byayo byose hamwe nisi kandi yiga gukemura amakimbirane byanze bikunze muburyo bwiza.
Gusoma kandi bifasha byinshi muriki gikorwa. Abana basomwa buri gihe kuva bakiri bato, biga kugira umunezero mubitabo. Mu ntangiriro, urashobora guhitamo ibitabo n'amashusho. Noneho umukino uzaba hamwe ninyandiko, yaba prose cyangwa ibisigo. Hanyuma, kuva kumyaka ine kugeza kuri itanu, barashobora gusoma imigani cyangwa ndende ndende cyangwa inkuru. Gusoma buri joro gishishikariza abana benshi kugerageza gusoma bonyine. Icyo gihe bazashobora gutegura neza cyane kwiga.Ubushobozi bwose hamwe nimyitozo yagenwe hano, birumvikana ko byateguwe kubyara hakiri kare. Imyaka itatu yambere yubuzima bwumwana nigihe cyaryo kinini, kugirango ababyeyi bashobore kubyungukiramo kugirango bakore ubuhanga buzagera mubuzima.