Ubugome budakenewe cyangwa agakiza k'ababyeyi bananiwe: 6 Inzira 6 zizwi cyane zo kwigisha umwana gusinzira

Abana ntibazi byinshi. Umuntu wese azi ko abana bato batazi kuvuga no kugenda, ariko abantu bake barashobora kubimenya (kugeza igihe ababyeyi babo ubwabo bagomba no kwicara no kwicara, kuko kuri bo nubumenyi bugoye.

Twabonye uburyo nyamukuru bwo kwigisha abana gusinzira no mubyukuri ko muri rusange.

Gutangira, reka dusobanure: ntabwo abana bose bakeneye kuryama. Hariho abana basinziriye neza nta mfashanyo, kandi hariho ababyeyi batabangamiye rwose gusinzira no gutandukana.

Ariko, hari ibihe nkibi umwana asinziriye cyane kandi rimwe na rimwe, bigira ingaruka mbi kumiterere yabyo, iterambere nubuzima bwababyeyi. Cyangwa ababyeyi bakeneye kujya kukazi, kandi umwana ni ngombwa kwiga gusinzira na nyirakuru cyangwa umubyimba. Impamvu zo gutangira kwiga umwana gusinzira bishobora kuba byinshi, kandi hano umuryango wose ubwawo uhitamo ubwawo inzira nziza.

Ntabwo tuvuga dushyigikira uburyo bumwe bwo gutondeka umwana, kandi ntidushishikariza umuntu uwo ari we wese gukoresha - turashaka ko umenya aho ufite, niba inzozi mbi zumwana wawe wijimye uburambe bwawe bwababyeyi.

Ni ryari nshobora gutangira kwiga umwana gusinzira?

Inzobere nyinshi muri SNU Menya ko imyaka ya Nziza yo kwiga igenwa kugiti cye kandi biterwa no guteza imbere umwana, ariko akenshi umwanya ukwiye ubaho hagati y'amezi ane n'amezi atandatu y'ubuzima bw'umwana w'umwana.

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Muri iki gihe, "igihembwe cya kane", kandi umwana ntabona umwanya wo kumenyera uburyo bwatoranijwe bwo kurambika cyane - urugero, gusinzira n'amabere cyangwa ku kirango.

Mfite imyaka agera kumezi ane, abana benshi banyura mu buryo bwo gusinzira - bafite ubuhanga bushya, kandi ibitotsi biba rimwe na rimwe kandi bidakabije. Nk'uko umujyanama wemerewe na Snah alanna mcginn, ati: "Iki ni igihe cyiza kugira ngo dukore ku buhanga bwo gukinisha." Ababyeyi bamwe bahitamo gutegereza iki gihe kitoroshye gutangira kwiga nyuma - kandi ibi nibisanzwe.

Kuva mu mezi atandatu

Niba umwana wawe asanzwe arenga amezi atandatu, ntabwo akwiriye guhangayikishwa nabyo: "Ntabwo bitinda kubona ingeso nziza." Urugero rero, Umuganga w'abahanga mu Buyuda Dickin atekereza amezi icyenda igihe umwana ashobora kwigishwa gusinzira ijoro ryose: "Iyi ni yo myaka myiza yo gutsimbataza ingeso nshya, kandi ntibikwiye kurya nijoro."

Igihe cyumwana wahisemo gutangira kwiga bizagufasha guhitamo uburyo bwiza bwo kurambika - bamwe muribo bakwiriye abana, nabandi - abana bakuze. Ntabwo bikwiye kwigisha umwana gusinzira (kandi biragoye guhangayika kubera ubutegetsi) kugeza ku mezi ane.

Nigute Witegura Kwiga Gusinzira?

Mbere yo kugerageza kwigisha umwana gusinzira nta mfashanyo yinyamanswa, igituza na dummy, reba ko mwese wafashe mubindi bibazo bifitanye isano no gutunganya imitunganyirizwa.

Hano ari:

Watuye uburyo bwo gusinzira, aho utangiye kuryama umwana gusinzira nijoro icyarimwe (ibyiza, byiza).

Mbere yo gutangira guhuza, umwana wawe ntangutse kandi atarenze imyaka yigihe (urugero, abana bafite amezi 4-6 ntibagomba kuba maso igihe kirekire kugeza amasaha 2 icyarimwe).

Ufite imihango ya buri munsi mbere yo gushyira, aho umwana asanzwe amenyereye. Kurugero: kwiyuhagira, gukata massage, kwambara muri Pajama, kuzimya itara, lullaby.

Ku munsi wumunsi, umwana wawe afite ibikorwa bihagije no gukora ibintu bihagije (urugero, afite amahirwe yo gukora ubuhanga bushya hasi, kandi ntagomba kumara umunsi wose mukarengane cyangwa intebe y'abana ).

Niba ibyo bintu byose byafashwe, noneho uriteguye kwimukira kuruhande rukurikira. Hano ufite inzira esheshatu zingenzi zo kwigisha umwana ufite sna nziza nziza, ikunzwe cyane mubabyeyi ninzobere.

Uburyo bwo Kurira Kurira (Nuburyo bwa Ferbra)

Hariho ibintu byinshi bitandukanye bitandukanye byubu buryo, ariko ihame ryingenzi buri hano: umubyeyi ashyira umwana muri crib kandi akagenda mugihe runaka, yemera rimwe na rimwe, yegera kumuza.

Mugihe c'ibihe "bituje" ntibishobora gufatwa mu maboko, kugaburira cyangwa kuzunguruka - bihagije kugira ngo tumuvugishe ijwi rituje kandi ryuje urukundo, tukatontoma cyangwa ngo ryoroshye cyangwa ryoroheje.

Intervance y'ababyeyi igomba kwiyongera buhoro buhoro - kuva kumunota umwe kugeza muminota 10-15 - kandi igomba gukomeza kugeza umwana aguye. Nk'uko by'ihanga, ubu buryo butangira gukora nyuma yicyumweru, ariko impinduka zambere zirashobora kugaragara muminsi mike.

Kugirango ukurikirane iterambere, urashobora gukora ikarita idasanzwe, izafasha kubona iterambere ryawe, kimwe no kumenya uburyo uburyo bwatoranijwe bukwiranye numwana wawe.

Ubu buryo bwasobanuwe ninzobere zabana Richard ferber, mu gitabo "Inzozi z'umwana. Igisubizo cyibibazo byose, "gigumana icyamamare cyacyo (cyane cyane mubihugu bifite itegeko rigufi), kandi nanone naryo ryaranzwe nabayoboke b'umukunzi - bikekwa ko umwana areka kurira no gusinzira kuko abona ubuhanga yo kugora no gusinzira, ariko kubera ko birengewe kandi bikatindi kutita umuntu ntawe uzaza.

Muri ubu nta bushakashatsi bwafashije gutekereza ku ngaruka zose zo gukoresha uburyo nk'ubwo. Nibyo, hari ubushakashatsi bwemeza ko abana bize gusinzira neza muburyo bwa Ferbera, bike cyane kubyuka byihuta kandi bagategura imitekerereze mike mbere yo kuryama, ariko imbaraga zuburyo bwo kumurika, ubuzima bwamarangamutima ntabwo yizi.

Ndarira uburyo bwo guhezwa (ni uburyo bwa Weisblut)

Uburyo bwiza cyane ugereranije nuburyo bwa Ferbra nuburyo bwasabwe na Mark Padatrician wa Weisblian mu 1959 mu gitabo "Gusinzira neza - Kurya neza".

Intangiriro yuburyo bwo guhezwa ni "ukuyemo" imyitwarire runaka y'abana (muri uru rubanza - kurira) wirengagije.

Muyandi magambo, ubu nuburyo ababyeyi badahuje umwana wabo, kandi bakitwara nkababyeyi bose muri firime nindirimbo - shyira umwana muburiri, basome ijoro, basome nijoro Kugaburira, uburyo bwa Weisbluta ntabwo bibuza kwegera umwana mugihe runaka cyo kugaburira).

Uburyo bwo guhezwa bwerekana imikorere mibi - Abahanga bavuga ko bihagije kubabara amajoro 2-3 gusa kugirango umwana abata cyane kandi akomere cyane ku budatu.

Muburyo bwo kwiga, ntabwo ari umwana gusa, ahubwo no kubabyeyi be, hamwe numugereka w'ababyeyi, mugihe kizaza kigena umubano wacu nabandi bantu mugihe kizaza, bibabazwa.

Uburyo bwa Stool

Ubu buryo bwo kwigisha umwana gusinzira asa neza cyane kurenza urugero kurenza bibiri byabanje. Niwe mubyeyi buri mucyumba kimwe hamwe numwana - kurugero, kwicara ku ntebe hafi yigitanda cye (bityo uburyo bwuburyo), mugihe umwana asinziriye. Muri icyo gihe, fata umwana mu ntoki, gukuramo cyangwa gusaba amabere arashobora gushoboka.

Hamwe na buri murambo mushya, intebe igomba kwimurwa kure yigitanda, kugeza igihe "wamanutse" kumuryango wa pepiniyeri. Bikekwa ko nyuma yibyo umwana atazagira ibibazo atuje kandi asinziriye.

Inyungu nyamukuru yubu buryo ni ukubaho k'umubyeyi. Umwana abona ko atari wenyine, kandi azi ko atajugunywe. Ariko, impamvu nyamukuru zubuntu ziriho - umubyeyi urashobora kugorana kureba uko umwana we ataka, kandi ibi byarakozwe ibitekerezo bibi cyane (kandi nkigisubizo, kongera kumugereka).

Uburyo "Guhobera-Gushyira"

Ubundi buryo busobanura cyane kwinjiza n'ababyeyi, byasobanuwe mu gitabo cya mushiki wa muganga n'impuguke ku bumuga Khogg "Uruhinja rwawe rushaka iki?".

Icyifuzo cy '"guhobera" kwerekana mu izina rye: Mu gihe cyo kurambika, umubyeyi ntasohoka mu cyumba, kandi aherereye iruhande rw'umwana, amuha amahirwe yo gutuza wenyine. Iyo umubyeyi abonye ko amakimbirane ariyongera, arashobora gufata umwana mu maboko, akuzamuka asubiza mu kantu mbere yuko umwana agwa.

Itandukaniro rikomeye ryo gutandukana n'ubu buryo bivuze ko umubyeyi uri ku buriri bw'umwana, butuje abifashijwemo na stroke, pats no gutontoma.

Impuguke zigezweho kuri SNI Menya ko uburyo nk'ubwo bushobora kuba bwiza ku bana bari munsi y'amezi atandatu kugeza ku mezi atandatu, kandi barushaho kuba abantu bakuze bahari, kuba ababyeyi bashobora gushimishwa no kurakara.

Uburyo bwa Faddy (ni uburyo bwa pentley)

Reka kwiyiriza ubusa, reka tujye muburyo butandukanye bwo kuryama. Kimwe muri ibyo cyasabwe n'umutoza Elizabeth Petley kandi asobanurwa mu gitabo cye "Nigute washyira umwana gusinzira nta marira."

Intangiriro yo gucikamo (kuva icyongereza gishira - gutemba, gucika intege) ni uguca intege buhoro buhoro umubano usanzwe usinzira nigikorwa umwana wawe akoresha nonaha.

Ubu buryo budahangayikishije cyane kumwana n'ababyeyi, ariko bisaba igihe kirekire kandi bisaba uburyo buhoraho kandi buhoraho. Ababyeyi rero baratumiwe gukomeza kubahiriza uburyo bumwe bwo gusinzira, butoranya umwana wabo (urugero, konsa igituza), buhoro buhoro, bimara igihe buhoro buhoro.

Ibi bivuze ko niba umwana wawe "ari kumanika" mu gituza kugeza abaturage bose, ukurikije uburyo bwuzuye, nk'uko igituza kigomba gukorwa mbere gato yuko umwana agwa. Noneho - Ndetse kare gato, kandi rero, igihe cyose kugaburira no gusinzira bizashira na gato.

Guhana umwanya wo kohereza

Ubu buryo ntabwo bufitanye isano rwose nubuhanga bwibanze, ariko bifasha kubaka uburyo bukwiye kandi uyigishe gusinzira mbere. Hano, kimwe nuburyo bwambere, ibintu byose bikemura buhoro buhoro kandi kwihangana.

Gutangira, birakenewe kumenya igihe umwana wawe akunze gusinzira ijoro ryose (ntabwo aryama mu gihome, ari hano uzakoresha ibitotsi by'umwana. Bukeye, tangira gukubita umwana iminota 10-15 mbere yaho, nyuma yiminsi mike, amaze kumenyana nubu buryo - indi minota 15 mbere yaho, kandi kugeza ubu uhinduye uburyo kuri leta ukeneye.

Mubyukuri, hari ubundi buryo bwo kwiga umwana gusinzira no gusinzira - akenshi barasubiramo cyangwa bitandukanye gato.

Abajyanama b'izuba barasaba gukoresha uburyo ku giti cye wegera buri mwana, ukurikije ibintu bye bwite, ibikenewe n'ababyeyi.

Niyo mpamvu, iyaba uburyo bwose bwa "ibitabo" byose bisa nkaho udakwiye cyangwa bidakora, birashoboka ko birumvikana gushaka inama zifatika.