Nubwo abahisi babaho kubana bose kandi nicyiciro gisanzwe rwose cyo guteza imbere sisitemu yumwana, baracyafatwa nkibyavuye mu "minyago", inkande mbi ya "Imyitwarire mibi ya ababyeyi.
Muburyo bwinshi rero, ababyeyi bagonganye nuruko rukurikira rukurikira bitewe nuko bidashobokagata inyama yinyama zaciwe mu nyama cyangwa kubera ko buri gihe, igihe cyagezeho gitunguranye Jya kuryama, baharanira guhagarika iki cyiciro na flavote vuba bishoboka.
Ariko, mu kurwanya hysteries y'abana (kandi, nubwo byagenda koko byari byiza ko ari inzira isanzwe kandi y'ingirakamaro, ntabwo ishimishije cyane) ntabwo ari byiza gusa kwiyongera hysteria cyangwa kubihindura muburyo bubi.
Psychotherapist Amy Maureen yanditse amakosa atanu yingenzi yemerera ababyeyi bana b'amahano. Nibyo byabaye.
Wishyura ibiryo bya HystericalIcyitonderwa icyo ari cyo cyose (ndetse kibi!), Wishyura imyitwarire yumwana, shyigikira iyi myitwarire. Iyo uvuze ikintu nka: "Ako kanya ureke kurira!" Cyangwa "Witwara nk'umwana!" Uratera imbaraga umwana wawe gukomeza hysteria yawe.
Niba ugerageza kumvikana kubintu hamwe numwana hagati ya hysterics ("Mbabajwe nuko warakaye cyane kuko udashobora guteka kuki.") Hanyuma azemerwa nkubyemerwa y'imyitwarire ye kandi ukomeze inenge hasi hamwe na inshuman irira.
Inzira nziza yo guhagarika hysteria ntabwo yitaye cyane kuri yo.
Ntukajye mu mishyikirano kugeza igihe umwana agamanuye, ntugerageze kumwumvisha cyangwa ubwoba - ntacyo bimaze kandi bizakubahiriza urubanza ko gucira urubanza. Niba umwana akenewe - kuba hafi, ariko ntukajye mubikorwa byimazeyo kugeza umwana atangiye gutuza.
Uragerageza gutuza umwana muburebure bwa hysteriaNiba umwana wawe arira bitewe nuko ababara ikintu, ubwoba, cyangwa biramubabaza, birashoboka gutuza. Ariko, niba ubonye ayo marira (kimwe no gutaka no gutaka ibikinisho) bifitanye isano nikindi kintu (urugero, ntibazafasha amagambo yacu yoroheje.
Nibyiza kwitegura mbere.
Teza imbere ubwenge bw'amarangamutima y'umwana kandi uyigishe kwihanganira amarangamutima akomeye kandi adashimishije - umuhe inzira iyo ari yo yose yo kwerekana uburakari, indwara n'uburakari, kandi ubikomeze muri ibyo bihe iyo bisubiyeho ubwo buryo.
Ariko rero, ntukibagirwe - nta nubwo abantu bakuru bashobora guhangana byoroshye n'amarangamutima yabo akomeye, ntabwo rero ugomba gutegereza iterambere ako kanya kubana.
Uremera ibisabwa numwanaRimwe na rimwe, ibintu biragoye ku buryo ababyeyi bahatirwa kwemera ibyo umwana asabwa, kugira ngo atuze acecekeshe. Nibyo, ni imitwe migufi, ariko rimwe na rimwe birasa nkaho nta bundi buryo bwo guhagarika induru zose no kubabara, usibye kugura iki gikinisho cyangiritse cyangwa ngo bihuze ibyuya.
Ntabwo bikwiye kubikora, birumvikana, kuko igihe cyose uretse kandi ugaha umwana wihuse, kubera ko azagaragaraho, umwana arabyemeza neza uburyo bwa buntu bwo kubona icyo wifuza (kandi Niba adakora ubutaha, noneho iyi niyo mpamvu gusa yo gusakuza cyane, igihe kirekire no gutobora - kubitsinzi).
Urangiza ntacyo ugiranyeIterabwoba (cyane cyane abadayobora ikintu icyo ari cyo cyose) bahagarika hysterics ntibazakora. Umwana ntabwo ari kure yaho ashoboye uburyo bwo kumenya amarangamutima yawe kugirango asuzume iterabwoba ryawe, gufata icyemezo cyo kudatoranya, kwifata mu ntoki no gutuza.
Hysteria - Ifishi itumanaho.
Kubijyanye ninyenyeri z'abana si nk '"imyitwarire mibi" ariko nk'uburyo, hamwe n'umwana uza aho ushoboye. Ntabwo "iminyago" cyangwa "ibibi" ni uburyo bwo gutumanaho gusa.
Uragerageza guha ruswa umwanaIkindi kimenyetso cyababyeyi kwiheba ni ukugerageza guha ruswa umwana kugirango bahagarike amahano ("nyamuneka ureke hasi, nzaguha bombo"). Nkuko mubyemeye ibisabwa numwana, itangira kumva ko hysterics aribwo buryo bworoshye bwo kubona niba bidashaka, ikindi kintu cyiza.
Koresha imbaraga nziza.
Niba kandi ruswa na ruswa ari amayeri mabi cyane mukurwanya hysteries, noneho ibihembo byimyitwarire myiza birashobora gufasha, kurugero, kuburira umwana ko mugihe cyose guhaha biceceka kandi utuje , amaherezo azashobora guhitamo bombo cyangwa igikinisho gito kuri cheque.
Uzerekana rero umwana ujya mububiko nta fotosika arashimishije kandi yunguka cyane kuruta gusiganwa kuroga muri buri shami.
Niba wabonye ko gahunda yo kwemerera amakosa imwe cyangwa menshi kururu rutonde, noneho birashoboka ko igihe kigeze cyo gusubiramo uko ubona imyuka y'abana.Ikintu cya mbere cyingenzi gukora nukwemera ko ibyiciro ari ibisanzwe (cyane cyane kubana mugihe gito kandi cyishuri) kandi ntampamvu yo kuzamura hysteries - kurugero , inzara, guhangayika no gukora cyane).
Icya kabiri, wige uburyo bwo gutuza mugihe cyinyenyeri zabana - bishoboka. Umuntu akuze, scandaling mu kwishura ku bushingiye mwana, ku mwanya wa nta bitandukanye mwana na neza ntabwo kumufasha kwiga uko gucungera inyiyumvo be bumva umutekano.
Icya gatatu, gusesengura no kwerekana ibihe umwana akenshi akwiranye na stondal. Tekereza uburyo ushobora kugabanya umubare wibi bihe, irinde cyangwa ubategure hakiri kare (nko mubihe hamwe nubukangurambaga mububiko hamwe).
Koresha izo nama zoroshye kugirango witonze kandi uhora wigisha umwana kugenzura amarangamutima yabo no guhagarika hysteria mbere yuko akoresheje ubushobozi bwuzuye.
Komeza mu biganza byawe kandi wibuke ko hysperics imporder (byinshi bizabera, ariko ubushobozi bwo kubaho ibibazo byo kubaho no gucunga amarangamutima yabo ubuziraherezo.
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