Ugomba kubiryozwa kubyo nshaka kurya ...
Hariho byinshi mubyo ntashaka kubwira umwana wanjye. Birashobora kuba umutwe wose ufite imyanya myinshi. Kurugero, sinshaka gutanga umwana gutekereza kuwushinja ibibazo. Ndashaka ko umukobwa atazi ibi biganiro na gato abitewe na we ni we nyine, ntabwo yari azi aya magambo mabi "njye ubwanjye ni ugushinja."
Ndashaka guhura nikibazo, umukobwa wanjye ntiyatekereje ko ari we nyirabayazana, ahubwo yahise atekereza kugikemura. Kugira ngo ikibazo kidasobanutse "ari we nyirabayazana?", Na "kubera ibyabaye none kandi icyo gukora ntizongera kubaho?"
Kandi muri rusange ntabwo numva inyungu zibi bisobanuro. Kandi ibi biragaragara ko ariryo nkuru imwe n'imwe twarazwe kw'abakunzi banjye. N'uburyo bwo kubifata, simbizi.
Kuberako ntabona logique muri ibi bisobanuro. Ni izihe nyungu z'ibyo tumenya ninde nyirabayazana? Tugomba gusuzuma ibishobora kuba icyaha cyo gukora umuntu. Nibyo, yego, ikibazo icyo aricyo cyose gishobora guhindurwa kuburyo uwashaka gushinja azahamwa nicyaha cyo kubiryozwa "Urashaka kurya ..."
Kandi kubihe? Niki? Mubyukuri wemera?
Ubu bumenyi butanga iki "bwo kubiryozwa"?
No ubwanjye ni ugushinja, bivuze ko udashobora gufasha? Ntukicuza? Noneho urangije neza, ntuhamwa nicyaha, bitandukanye nabandi? Niba hari undi waryozwa, urashobora gukuraho inshingano kandi ntugahangayike ko hari ikintu kitigeze?
Nubwo bishoboka ko hari ibihe byo kubiryozwa, bizafasha kubikemura vuba. Ariko nanone, mbega ukuntu bigomba guhuza neza naya magambo, uburyo bwo kubikoresha neza!
Kandi yego, rimwe na rimwe gukomeza, ugomba kwatura ko ari byo ari byo nyirayo, ariko uku kumenyekana bigomba gukorwa wenyine. Kuri njye ubwanjye, igihe nikigera. Kandi aya magambo avuye kubandi azatera gusa kwangwa gusa. Ongera ongera iyi nzira.
Kubwibyo, ndashaka ko umukobwa atekereza aya magambo byibuze. Kandi mugihe akeneye kubivuga guhangana nikibazo, yorohewe kubabwira no kujya kure. Biroroshye - kuko aya magambo azaba adasanzwe mubuzima bwe kandi ntazasiganwa na vino kandi akababaza.