Nigute ushobora kuvugana numuhungu usebanya: Inama kubabyeyi

Iyo ubushake bwe bwarumiwe

Hamwe n'imyaka, umwana kurushaho gukoporora ingeso nuburyo bwimyitwarire yabandi bantu. Kandi si yo ngeso zose nk'ababyeyi. Imwe muri izo ngeso nukuvuga hamwe na sarcasm. Mubyukuri, SARCASM ubwayo ntabwo ari mbi cyane. Bikoreshwa kenshi nkuwakiriwe. Chandler Bing kuva "Inshuti" ifatwa nk'umwami nyawe wa Sarcasm, uruseke rwe rushingiye ku gitangaza.

Ariko ikintu kimwe cyo kureba inyuguti zisebanya murukurikirane, naho ubundi ni ugushyikirana nabo mubyukuri. Saba ikintu umwana usebanya cyangwa kumenya uko byarenze umunsi we, biragoye cyane. Twumva uko twabyitwaramo.

Ibisebe

Ubwa mbere ukeneye kumenya mugihe umwana avugana na sarcasm. SARCASM ifatwa nkigaragaza cyane. Ariko amagambo yicyuma, nubwo, ushishikarize ikintu cyabyo, kora hamwe nimpuhwe, kandi gusebanya mubisanzwe nibibi kandi bya caustic. Ntabwo buri gihe bategetswe kumuntu runaka kandi ntibasa n'amarira. Urugero, iyo uzanye n'umwana gutembera, birarambirana nawe, azatangaza ati: "Yego, ibyo birashimishije."

Gutandukanya ubwoko butandukanye bwabasetsa

Ntabwo buri gihe itanga ibitekerezo bigamije kubabaza umuntu. Ibinyuranye, abantu bakunze kuvuga gusebanya, bagerageza kurangiza uko ibintu bimeze. Urugero, mu rugendo rugana muri bisi yuzuye, umwana ntiyinubira mu buryo butaziguye, ariko agira ati: "Mbega ukuntu nkunda kunyura muri bisi hamwe n'abantu." Iki gitekerezo gifasha guhangana no kutanyurwa.

Kuki abana bakoresha sarcasm

James Lehman, umwanditsi w'ibitabo by'uburezi, avuga ko abana bakoresha ibisekuru mu bihe bibiri. Baretse ibitekerezo nkibi mubihe byihariye iyo bumva ko biri mu gitutu. Kandi irari ridakira ribafasha guhangana n'uburakari. Kandi nibyiza gukoresha gusebanya kuruta gutegura scandals no kugoreka ibintu byose hirya no hino.

Iyo ngeso nk'iyi ituruka he

Ariko abana ntibatangira gukoresha gusebanya ubwabo. Ubwa mbere, barimo kureba ibitekerezo bya Sorkecasi bituma abandi bantu hirya no hino. Mbere ya byose, ababyeyi. Nibyo, birashoboka ko utibuka uko bavuganaga nabasekeje atari kumwe numwana gusa, ahubwo unavuga. Igihe yateguraga akajagari, ushobora kubireka: "Urakoze iki." Ariko ntiwumve, nta guhingwa, gusebanya.

Rimwe na rimwe, abana batangira kuvugana na sarcasm, kuko bakora inshuti zabo cyangwa inyuguti zikunda. Birasa numwana usekeje, nuko atangira gusubiramo interuro yimiterere idatekereza ko abandi bantu bibabaza.

Ba intangarugero

Intambwe yambere ugomba gukora mugukemura umwana usebanya: Tangira nawe wenyine. Muri rusange, inama nziza zo kureremba abana. Dr. Fran Walphis agira inama kubwira umwana wose mu buryo butaziguye adakoresheje gusebanya. Gusa wibukije umwana gusenya akajagari mu cyumba, kandi ntukavuge ko Edko ati: "Ndabona ko umaze kuzura, nk'uko twakubajije."

Kandi guha umwana kumva ko interuro zishushanyije asubiramo inyuma yinyuguti, wowe nabandi bantu ntibashimishije, kugirango batagomba kuvuga.

Kwirengagiza Ibitekerezo bya UlCer

Iyo umwana yohereje ibitekerezo bye bya Sorkecast kuri wewe, gerageza kubyirengagiza. Tanga inama rero psychotherapiste amy maurein. Ahari umwana azunguruka byumwihariko kugirango akurure ibitekerezo byawe kandi agutungure. Ntabwo izakomeza kwitwara nkibitazakira umuntu wifuza. Nyuma yo gusobanurira umwana utuje, ni ngombwa kuvugana na buri magambo meza.

Shiraho amategeko

Niba umwana atiga ku ngero zihariye hanyuma akavuga ibintu bibabaje hamwe na sarcasm, bagomba kuganira kuri iki kibazo kandi bakakubwira ko imyitwarire nk'iyo itubaza, niko bitemewe. Nibyiza gukora urutonde rwimvugo yihariye ya SARCHSCATIC ko umwana wawe atekereza. Ahari zimwe muriyi nteruro, azagerageza gusubiramo mugihe cyo kuganira bityo igufashe kwerekana neza.

Shyira umuburo

Kubiganiro bimwe bikomeye, ukureho ingeso yumwana bitazoroha, ntukihutire kumutugukana, nta nongeye gutuza amaso no kuvugana na sarcasm. Gerageza gutuza no kwitondera ko yongeye gukora agasuzuguro. Kandi rero, kurugero, ntushaka gukomeza gukina nawe niba bidahagarara.

Baza ibibazo

Nkuko twabivuze, gusebanya akenshi bifasha abana kwihanganira igitutu no kurakara. Aho gusangira ibyakubayeho, bajugunya interuro ya Sorkecasi kandi kandi barushijeho kuba hafi yabo. Niba yasabye umwana nk'uko ushinzwe ye ku ishuri, maze asubiza ko byose ari nziza, ariko mu Umurego Wijwi mu byagaragazaga ko avuga asesereza, gerageza kumubaza ibibazo ayobora, imfashanyo guhishura no gusangira ibintu bye.

Nigute wabyitwaramo mugihe umwana avugana nabandi bana

Niba ubonye ko umwana wawe akoresha ibisebe mugihe avugana ninshuti ze cyangwa abavandimwe na bashiki be, ntukivange kandi utume kubwibyo. Undi mwana, ibisebe ibisebe ntibishobora kubabaza. Ariko nyuma, ugomba kubirangiza umwana ugasobanura ko ukeneye kuvuga ibintu nkibi bitababaza umuntu.

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