Imfashanyo Yangiza Stereotypes
Ni ukubera iki buri kwezi atari "ibibazo by'abagore" gusa, kandi kuki bagomba guhanga amaso abahungu nkabakobwa? Kuberako imihango idakwiye kuba umuvumo runaka wuburinganire, ugomba guhishwa kandi ugomba guterwa isoni, wemezwa na nyina w'ingimbi ebyiri za AFBS.
Muri Nzeri 2019, umugore yabwiye mu itsinda rifunze kuri Facebook, ko abahungu be - T-shati yimyaka 15 na Eliji-imyaka 16 - burigihe hariho tampon na gace mu gikapu - mugihe ibikoresho byisuku gitunguranye ukeneye inshuti zabo cyangwa abo mwigana.
Mu masaha menshi, iyipost yatsinze ibihumbi birenga 65 kandi ibitekerezo byinshi byiganje. Nuburyo Tara yavuze kubyerekeye uburambe bwe mu nkingi ya cafemom.
Ukuri: Nk'uko UNICEF, 26 ku ijana by'abatuye isi ari imihango. Iki ni kimwe cya kane cya twese. Nubwo bimeze bityo ariko nubwo bimeze, abagore benshi n'abakobwa bazakubwira ko no kuvuga imihango mu kumenyekanisha ari kirazira ni kirazira. Ariko nkumubyeyi wumukobwa wimyaka icumi nabahungu babiri b'ingimbi, nizeye kuzihindura.
Mu ntangiriro z'uku kwezi nashyize ifoto y'abahungu banjye mu itsinda rifunze kuri Facebook, kandi ndeba inyandiko igaragara. Nakoze iyi foto mububiko aho twagiye guhaha umwaka mushya. Nanditse ati: "Abahungu banjye muri iki gihe bamfashije kugura." - barimo ibitabera bya mbere kwa murumuna wabo. "
Hanyuma nongeyeho:
Abandi bahungu bombi mu gikapu cyose kiri kuri tampon na gasike, mugihe bakeneye umuntu winshuti zabo. Ndi mama gusa ugerageza gukuraho kirazira igitsina!
Nyuma yo gutangazwa, inyandiko yahise igaragara kandi itezimbere abatanga ibitekerezo. Tara yibuka ati: "Inyandiko yakiriye ibitekerezo byiza cyane. "Kandi yahumekeye abagore afite imyaka mirongo ine, mirongo itanu, mirongo itandatu, mirongo itandatu kugira ngo basangire inkuru ziteye ubwoba kuva mu buto bwe, igihe bari bafite isuku cyane, ariko ntibari bahari."
Umugore umwe yibutse amateka y'ukuntu, kuba umukobwa ukiri muto, ati: "Yakomeje" mu myenda, kandi inshuti ye yamuhaye icyubahiro kugira ngo amwihererega mu rukenyerero. Yibuka ineza ye.
Ariko, hari inkuru nyinshi zijyanye no gusuzugura, isoni nubushobozi budashoboka. Umubare utagira akagero w'abagore wabwiwe ibyerekeye ba se n'abagabo "batigeze bajya mu iduka ku buryo bw'isuku." Bamwe mu batanze ibisobanuro batutse guhindura uburyo bwa kera kugeza kuri buri kwezi.
Birasobanutse neza kuri njye: Imihango iracyakomeza kuba karayo nini yuburinganire, aho tutashoboraga gukuraho - ariko nkora byose kugirango duhinge abayisenya.
Nasobanuriye abahungu banjye. - Bafite ubwoba bwinshi kandi barashobora guhahamuka. Fasha hano birashobora kuba ineza no gusobanukirwa. Ube uyu mugabo.
Mubyukuri, imibiri yacu ikora gusa ibyo igenewe kumubiri. None se kuki tugomba kubagira isoni?
Nabanje gutangira kuvugana nabo muri iki mwaka ushize nyuma yo gusoma ingingo ivuga ku mugabo, mu gihe cyo kwiyamamaza ku mufuka wa Apalakiya wahaye Tapomoni umugore "wakurikiranye." Byanditswe ahari ko yavuze ikintu kimwe: "Nta kintu na kimwe giteye ubwoba, nakuze hamwe na mama na bashiki bacu ..." - kandi byambabaje ku mbubije cy'ubugingo.
Igihe kimwe nayoboye imodoka, ndeba abahungu banjye mu ndorerwamo yinyuma, ntibubahirije uburanga bwabasabye kwambara tampon mu gikapu cyabo, niba bamwe mu nshuti zabo bakeneye ubufasha bwihutirwa. Basaga nkaho babitekerezaho, kandi ntacyo bavuga cyane, kuko ari ingimbi.
Ihinduka ryaje igihe "ubufasha bwihutirwa" bukeneye inshuti Eliji, kandi "yakurikiranye" ku ishuri. Kuva uwo munsi, Eliya atangira kwambara umutware na gasike mu gikapu cye, Mike na we yabigenje. Hanyuma, T-Shirt yabwiye inshuti ze magara, mugihe, mugihe hafunzwe, hari sweatshirt ya swatshirt, no mumufuka we - umufuka wa tapon.
Tara ati: "Ariko Elija abibwira inshuti ze zose: abahungu, n'abakobwa, n'abakobwa," yibuka Tara. Yavuze ko, nubwo abahungu bamwe bamugiriye, benshi baravuga ati "byiza, musore." Yavuze kandi ko abakunzi be bawutwaye ku mugaragaro, ndetse bamugirira inama yo gukomeza izindi isuku mu modoka.
Ubuzima hamwe nabahungu b'ingimbi ari mu buryo bugera muri rusange butagira ingano, inzara ya kimuman, gutontoma, guseka hamwe n'ibihe bito, nk'ibi bihe.
Ibyo ushobora gukora byose kugirango ubafashe kumva icyingenzi (kurugero, uburyo bwo gufasha inshuti zawe gukurikira umutekano mugihe cyibirori, ukurikize ibidukikije n'umutekano kubantu bikikije) kandi mubyabaye (urugero, pubtortat, ibihe, na yego - leakage) - byumvikana.
Kandi mugihe usanzwe ibyo bintu byose, ubiganiraho buri gihe, bahinduka ibisanzwe kubana bawe.
Nizere ko abahagarariye uburinganire bwose, harimo n'abana bahindura, bazamenya ko ku bahungu banjye bafite umutekano gushaka uburyo bw'isuku niba hari igihe babikeneye. Ariko nibindi byinshi nizere ko ibyo bikorwa bito byose bizahindura uburyo abanyeshuri bo mumashuri yisumbuye babona ingingo yose.
Dushimira tubikuye ku mutima icyemezo cya Tara n'abahungu be n'ibyiringiro bidatinze cyangwa nyuma bigaragaza impungenge z'impungenge ku bandi tuzaboneka mu mashuri y'abandi tuzaboneka mu mashuri y'abandi.
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