Niba utekereza ko abagabo bose bahinduka, noneho oya, kwibeshya. Bafite gusa abagore nkabo abagabo batagenda, barabikeneye. Ntibagiye guhindura mugenzi wabo kumuntu uhari, kuko ifite imico itangaje!
Oya, arategura kandi akuraho inzu, ariko ntahindukira umugaragu, kandi ntara umwami uwo ari we. Ntazahura n'umukunzi we imyenda yo mu rugo ntangarugero afite ikirombe cyakajwe, cyagaragaye biterwa nuko yari ananiwe mu isafuriya na Rags. Yoroheje ubuzima bwa buri munsi, kandi ntabangamira byose kuva mumutwe kugeza kuri metero.
Amukunda, ashima, ariko ntabishyira hejuru yabandi bose. Afite akazi, hari inshuti, kwishimisha, asoma byinshi, areba firime. Umugabo ntabwo aribwo busobanuro bwe bwonyine bwubuzima.
Kandi ntabwo ari ukubera ko ashaka gukubita umugabo we ubwiza na chicwap. Arasa neza kuri we, kubandi. Abagabo bashimishijwe cyane nabagore bitondera abandi.
Ntabwo bizasubiza nabi imyitwarire ye, imico no kugaragara. Afite icyubahiro cyiza, cyateye imbere hashingiwe ku byatsi byabo no kugerwaho. Ntabwo agerageza kumvikaho kubera umuntu wese, harimo ku kimenyetso cy'umuntu ukunda. Kandi kandi ntabwo ahangana nabo kandi ntayahagarika. Afite icyubahiro cyiza, nuko ahitamo umuntu wiyubashye, kandi mumuryango we umubano wubashye.
Ubwiza cyane mumugore ufasha ingaruka nziza kubagabo kwiyubaha. Hariho imiryango abagabo bahora babona amafaranga, ariko abagore ntibabishima. Kandi umufasha akeneye gushimira - kumurimo we, kubera gutungurwa, kwitabwaho, ubufasha. Mureke akengere imyanda kandi rimwe na rimwe yoza amasahani, ariko ntukamubabarire ngo murakoze!
Ntabwo ari ubuhemu. Ngiyo inkombe yumubano iyo umuntu yagiye. Ntabwo ari kwihangana gukomeye no kubabarirwa neza, ariko kubyerekeye gukora ku iterambere ryawe bwite rya psycho-amarangamutima. N'ubundi kandi, gutongana bibaho muri buri muryango, ariko ni ugutegereza ko byose bigenda ubwabyo ari ibicucu. Ugomba kuba ushobora kubabarira, shakisha kumvikana, ibibazo ubwabyo ntibizashira.
Afite igitekerezo cyeBirumvikana ko umugabo ashobora kuba yitegereza ikibazo kimwe, ariko umugore agomba guhora afite igitekerezo cyabo. Ntagomba guhora akora ibyo umugabo amuvuga. Oya, azamwumva, azirikana igitekerezo cye, ariko azahora afite ibye! Urabizi, ndetse birashimishije umuntu, kuko hari amahirwe yo kumvisha umufatanyabikorwa, kumukurura iruhande rwe. Ibi byongeraho amayeri ninyungu mumibanire.
Ntabwo dufite iyo mico. Abahanga mu by'imitekerereze bagira inama yo gutangira guhitamo neza umufatanyabikorwa kuri bo, kubera ko umubano na konti wa mbere ntuzazana ikintu cyiza. Abagore benshi bafite kwihesha agaciro bake bafite ubwoba bwinshi bwo gukomeza kuba wenyine, nuko bakingura imitima yabo kumuntu "uhinda umushyitsi".
Umuntu, nkumugore - abantu nyabo. Bashobora kugira ibitekerezo byabo mubuzima, ibibi. Kandi rero, mbere yo guhuza ubuzima bwe numuntu, birakwiye ko tumwiga, kubana na we, reba neza ko akumva ko ari inyangamugayo cyangwa ari ugutambuka "ubwikorezi".
Urukundo no Kugusobanurira!
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