"Ese ni uko umwana wanjye arongeye gukuraho ikintu?" Urashobora kwitwaza ko ntamuzi? Nigute wifuza guhindukirira ikimonyo hanyuma ugahunga vuba vuba! - Mama aratekereza, kureba ibisekeje muri sasita.
Umwarimu w'inkuru ati: "Umuhungu wawe uyumunsi yamennye undi muhungu kubera igikinisho."
Umwarimu w'ibyiciro by'ishuri ryamasomo agenga amasomo?
Mama areba umwana we usinziriye.
Afite ubwoba ndetse afite isoni. Ese uyu mwana mwiza rwose, birateye ubwoba no gutekereza! - igitero? Ariko ni mwiza kandi mwiza, rimwe na rimwe gusa akora cyane. Mubyukuri, igitero cy'abana gishobora kugira impamvu nyinshi. Kandi abantu bawe bakeneye kwibuka: rimwe na rimwe kurakara - ibi nibisanzwe!
Kubuza amarangamutima abantu bakuru bimurirwa kubana
Akenshi ikibazo cyubugizi bwa nabi ntiribaho na gato nkuko umubyeyi ukiri muto abibona. Umwana agaragaza gusa amarangamutima ye. Ariko muri byo, ntikiri ibyiyumvo byabo bwite. Ikigaragara ni uko mu Burusiya ibisekuruza byose byabana byahagurukiye amarangamutima mabi.
Ku "bakobwa beza batavuza induru" kandi ku "bahungu badarira" ibyiyumvo bikomeye by'abana babo ni ibintu bikomeye cyane. Biragaragara niba ubishoboye, hanyuma birashoboka? Ngiyo ababyeyi babo, barabeshye?
Abana kugeza kumyaka runaka bahujwe cyane na bagenzi babo. Kubwibyo, mugihe bagaragaje ibitero, bigomba kubaho byayo ubwabyo no gusesengura amarangamutima yabo. Ese koko umwana yitwara bidahagije cyangwa ni hyperrophiphy abonye uburakari busanzwe butangwa na sisitemu ifite ubwoba bwumwana we?
Mumaze gukorana n'amarangamutima yawe, umugore arashobora kwikosora kuburyo abana be bavuza. Ntugomba haba kubandi cyangwa abandi, haba abandi batabona ibyiyumvo byabo.
Uburyo bwo gutandukanya amarangamutima mubikorwa
Umaze kumva nawe, urashobora gufasha n'umwana.
Itegeko rya mbere: Uburakari, kurakara, gutukana, uburakari bufite uburenganzira bwo kuba. Itegeko rya kabiri: ibyiyumvo ntabwo bingana nigikorwa.
Birashimishije: Gutoteza Ubuto: Uburyo Mama yagerageje gufasha umukobwa we kubaho
Niba umwana arakaye ko yafashe igikinisho, afite ukuri. Niba yarahisemo kwerekana amarangamutima ye (urugero, akubita uwakoze icyaha), Mama agomba guhuza no kumufasha cyane cyane agaragaza ibyo ahuye nabyo.
Byaba byiza, abagize umuryango bose bagomba kuba icyarimwe muriki kibazo. Nta kugenzura hejuru y'amarangamutima, niba mama avuga:
- Ntibishoboka gukubita umuntu uwo ari we wese!
Na papa:
- Mpa! Hunga ibyawe!
Abana babona neza ibyo kutumvikana. Kubwibyo, byibuze hano ukeneye gushyikirana mbere.
Gutaka, kurira, kuvuga ibintu byose uwakoze icyaha - urashobora.
Gukubita, kuruma, gukubita, gushushanya - ntibishoboka.
Ntabwo "abakobwa na ntoya ntibakubita," ariko muri rusange umuntu wese. Nyuma yigihe, birumvikana, birashobora gusobanurwa mugihe umuntu ashobora gusubiza igihote. Ariko mugihe haracyari umwana kandi ukaganira kubyerekeye kubaho nabi, kandi nturokoke muri societe ya none.
Ababyeyi bagomba kumenya ibyiyumvo byumwana wabo, ariko no kwemeza ko atigeze agirira nabi abandi, nabo bafite inshingano zabo.
Nigute watangiza umwana ufite uburakari
- Mu kigo cy'interane, undi muhungu yafashe igikinisho wifuzaga? Wararakaye? Ndabyumva, hano kandi ndarakaye. Iyo ubibonye, urashaka gukubita umuntu.
- Umukobwa mu gasanduku yo gusetsa? Wababajwe. Hamwe nanjye, birabaho. Ibi byitwa - icyaha.
- Nabonye ko nyirakuru ataguhaye bombo, ibyo yabisezeranije? Kandi wasakuje cyane? Iva mu burakari. Bibaho iyo utegereje, ariko ntubona.
Mama yakira abantu bose hamwe numwana we kandi ahamagara buriwese. Asobanura ko rimwe na rimwe akageragezwa. Bigenda bite. Birashoboka rero. Ariko byanze bikunze:
- Ndumva ibyambayeho, ariko ntibishoboka gukora ikindi. Ntabwo dukubita umuntu. Iyi boiler yari ibabaye cyane iyo umukubise.
Ikiruta byose, uburere ntibuhanwa, ariko kumenya ingaruka zabana. Kubwibyo, ntukeneye gutaka, kurahira, ndetse nibindi byinshi bikubita umuntu muto wahuye numutima mubi kuri we. Ni ngombwa gusobanura ibi bikurikira.- Niba warababajwe nabana kurubuga, tugomba gutaha. Niba uhisemo igikinisho, dusiga abashyitsi. Niba ukomeje kugumya, ngomba kukuzana mu kindi cyumba, aho utazakina.
Ibi ntibikwiye kuba ikintu cyakomeretse, ariko umwana agomba gusobanukirwa - yambuwe ikintu cyiza cyane. Ntazahagarara - abavuze agomba gukorwa.
Uburyo bwo gukorana namarangamutima yabana
Urashobora kwiga ibyiyumvo byawe kugirango ugaragaze ecologique ibyiyumvo byawe kuva mfite imyaka 1-2. Kugirango ukore ibi, urashobora kumureba kandi (ntabwo mugihe cya hysterics cyangwa igitero) sobanura:
"Iyo urakaye, urashobora kurohama n'amaguru."
"Iyo urakaye, urashobora kubabara."
- Iyo urakaye, urashobora kumena impapuro.
- Iyo urakaye, urashobora gukubita umusego.
Reba kandi: Nigute utatakaza mu kiruhuko cyo kubyara
Subiramo inshuro nyinshi. Cyane cyane mbere yuko ibyabaye bitera ibibi: mbere yo kujya hanze, niba hari uwakoze icyaha cyera, mbere yo guhagarika ikintu icyo ari cyo cyose.
Ibyiyumvo bigomba kwitwa - kurakara, kurakara, kurakara. By the way, urashobora gutoza umwana no gutuza tekinike yubuhumekero. Kurugero, guhumeka cyane ukoresheje izuru hanyuma umarane umunwa. Umwana ntazasobanukirwa ishingiro ryiki gikorwa, ariko urukurikirane ruzibuka. Kandi ingaruka zo guhumeka ni nziza cyane.
Iyo gutongana cyangwa urugamba rumaze kuba
Niba amakimbirane yabaye, imyitwarire ya nyina ni ngombwa. Ntibishoboka kuba uruhande rwumwanzi, nubwo yagira ingaruka muburyo, nubwo byambabaje cyane. Igikorwa nugufasha umwana wawe guhangana nibyabaye kandi birinde.
Mama agomba gufata amarangamutima ye.
- Ndabyumva, wakuyeho umupira. Urarakaye.
Noneho wibutse kubyerekeye ingaruka zibikorwa byayo:
- Uribuka ibyo twabonye? Nukomeza, tutaha.
Tanga inzira zubupfura kudukikije kugirango urokoke uburakari:
- Ushaka, tuzakuraho hamwe kandi uranyeganyega, twize gute murugo? Cyangwa hano ni igitambaro - urashobora kumuvuna!
Soma kandi: igikinisho cy'umwana, gifite akaga gutakaza: inkuru ya myomiya imwe
Niba ibintu bimeze kurugamba bizasubiramo, noneho umwana akeneye kuba ahagije mugutera ubwoba akagenda. Iyo utuje, sobanura impamvu nagombaga kubikora. Ibitekerezo bitagira ingano bifatwa nkurusaku rwera. N'ibikorwa byanateganijwe kandi mbere, abana barabyumva.
Imikino yo kwerekana ibyiyumvo
Reba amakarito no gusoma ibitabo birashobora gukoreshwa buri gihe intego yo kumenya. Baza umwana, ibintu birumvikana. Cyangwa ubahamagare gusa.
- Reba, umupira wacitsemo amakara. Matroskin yababaje!
Mubyongeyeho, urashobora guhuza imikino ihuriweho nayo ifasha guta ibibi:
- gufata;
- Bouncers;
- Kurwana;
- Kurasa bivuye kuri pistolet yo mu mazi;
- Kubaka iminara kuva mu musego no kubavuna.
Gusa wiruke kandi icyarimwe ikintu cyo gutaka, nacyo kizafasha umwana kubaho ibyiyumvo bye.
Ingenzi kubabyeyi
Kubwibyo, birakenewe kuvugana nawe. Sobanura utagiranye ibibera hamwe numwana, hamwe nabandi bitabiriye amakimbirane. Abana bagomba kurindwa n'ababyeyi babo. Kubwamahirwe, akenshi bibaho ko nyina ahemukira - aho gukorana no kuvuga, itangira gutukwa. Ariko nyuma yibyo, urashobora gusobanura no kuvuga impamvu byabaye.
- Mama gusa ni umukobwa mwiza. Biramugoye kuri we, nkawe, mwana wanjye, witware. Kandi, bisa nkaho afite bike ... ishyari.