Ubuyapani
Kubyerekeye imigenzo y'Ubuyapani yo kurera abana bajyana. Muri make, yumva gutya: kugeza ku myaka itanu, umwami, kuva ku batanu kugeza kuri cumi na batanu - umugaragu, na nyuma ya cumi n'itanu - inshuti.
Ibi bivuze ko ibintu byose byemerewe umwana muto. Urashaka - kurya amaboko, wicaye kumeza, urashaka - gushushanya kurukuta, urashaka - uhagarare mukiti. Ntawe uzabura. Abakuze bagerageza gusohoza umwami muto, kandi nta gihano n'imvugo.
Nibindi bintu rwose mugihe umwana ahinduye imyaka 5-6. Muri iki gihe, umwana yagiye ku ishuri, kandi afite ubumenyi bushya mubuzima bwe hazanwa. Ku bijyanye na disipulini, abayapani ni abafana nyayo. Bikunze kugengwa nimyitwarire yabanyeshuri, ahubwo ni isura yacyo. Kuva mu ishuri rito, birasabwa ko adahagarara, yari nk'ikintu cyose kandi agaragaza ibitangaza. Ijambo umwarimu cyangwa umubyeyi kuri we ni amategeko.
Umwana wageze mu myaka cumi n'imyaka cumi n'inshuro cumi n'itanu afatwa nk'umuntu wigenga wuzuye. Abantu bakuru bareka kubategeka kandi bagahuza nabyo - biramugirira, igitekerezo cye kizirikana.
Muri Turukiya, kimwe no mu bihugu byo mu biyisilamu, abagore bishora mu burezi bw'abana. Bifatwa nkibisanzwe niba Data mubyukuri atagira uruhare mubuzima bwabana byibuze.
Muri Turukiya no muri Turukiya yemeje uburinganire. Abakobwa bafasha Mama mu isambu, n'abahungu - Data mu bucuruzi bwe.
Gukina no kwishora hamwe nabana bo mu babyeyi bo muri Turukiya ntibyemewe, akenshi abana bigarurira. Ariko kubera ko ababyeyi bo mu burasirazuba badakunze kugarukira ku mwana umwe, noneho abana ntibarambirwa wenyine. Byongeye kandi, abana bakuze bakunze gukora imirimo ya Nanny cyangwa ba nyirakuru mubijyanye na bandikibazo byabo.
Ariko mu Bushinwa, mu buryo bunyuranye, nta rwego rw'uburinganire kandi rwazutse. Abahungu n'abakobwa bagerageza kwigisha kimwe, nta gutandukanya inshingano kubagabo nabagore.
Ikintu cyingenzi kumwana wumushinwa ni dysicipline. Ubuzima bwabashinwa bato bugengwa na gahunda nziza cyane ababyeyi bakora ninde umwana agomba gukomera.
Irashobora rimwe na rimwe isa nkaho abashinwa bakura robot nto, kuko abana bagomba gukurikiza byimazeyo amategeko yose, ariko babonwa nabakuze bikwiye, kandi ishimwe ryabana rikunze kugaragara cyane.
Ariko mu Butaliyani, umuco nyawo w'abana uragaruka. Ntakintu nkabana rufite urugwiro, kuko nta kigo cya buri muntu n'umuryango uhuza abana, ahubwo ni igihugu cyose. Niba dufite inshingano zo kureba umugore ugaburira umwana ugaburira umwana rusange, noneho mubutaliyani buzatera urumuri gusa. Abana hano bemerewe niba atari bose, noneho, ariko ntibushobora kuvugwa ko bitangwa, kandi abantu bakuru ntibitabira uburere. Mu Butaliyani, hari imico yumuryango mugari, bityo mubisanzwe hariho abantu benshi bakuru bazengurutse umwana, utuma amaso ashishikaye.
Suwede yabaye igihugu cya mbere ku isi, yabujije mu buryo bwemewe n'amategeko abana, haba ku ishuri cyangwa ishuri ry'incuke ndetse no mu muryango wawo. Umwana afite uburenganzira bwo kwinubira ibijyanye n'inzego ishinzwe kubahiriza amategeko yo kurwanya imirimo y'ababyeyi.
Abapadiri ba Scandinaviya bazwiho kugira uruhare rugaragara mu kurengera abana. Ku mihanda ya Suwede hamwe nibikinisha byabana, urashobora guhura nkibindi bimuwe. Byongeye kandi, amategeko ntabwo atanga Data gusa gusangira ikiruhuko cyo kubyara, arabitegeka kubikora.
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