"Natangiye kumva abagore benshi."
Sergey, imyaka 55, abana babiri bo mu bubano bwa mbere Anna (Abadelina (imyaka 21) na bane - muri Anastasia (Mania (imyaka 8), Sofiya ( Amezi 5)
St. Petersburg
Igihe imfura yacu yari afite amezi 8, uwo mwashakanye yatwite umwana wa kabiri. Nyuma y'amezi abiri, agiye ku kazi kugira ngo abone itegeko ku mwana wa kabiri, kandi mu iteka ryose nagiye.
Ku kazi, abantu bose batangajwe cyane nuko twahisemo kubikora. Nta gucirwaho iteka, ariko biragaragara ko habaye ubwumvikane buke, kuki tugomba gukenera umwana wa kabiri mugihe uwambere akiri muto.
Ntakibazo cyari gifite imigambi yinyandiko. Ujya muri MFC gusa ugakora ibishoboka byose.
Sinshobora kuvuga ko mugihe cyamategeko nasanze hari ikintu gishya. Namaze kuba muburambe bwambere bwubukwe. Muri ako kanya, sinatekereza ko bishoboka ku mugaragaro. Birashoboka, natangiye kumva abagore, nabonye aho imbaraga nigihe cyakoreshejwe.
Ikintu kigoye cyane kuri Decret cyari ugukwirakwiza neza umwanya kugirango ibintu byose kandi icyarimwe ntugire ikibazo niba hari ikintu kidafite umwanya.
Ikintu cyiza cyane nukwumva uburyo umwana avuga "Papula", akareba ibitekerezo byabantu hafi iyo ugendana nabakobwa.
Kubwimpamvu runaka, bizera ko umubyeyi wenyine ashobora kwita ku mwana, nubwo atari ko bimeze. Papa arashobora kandi kwitabwaho byoroshye no gushyigikirwa.
Kubera ko abagore ubu barenze kandi byinshi nkuburinganire nabagabo bagahitamo kudatanga akazi, noneho abagabo barashobora kubasimbuza ikiruhuko cyo kubyara cyangwa guhindukira. Ibi byose byakemuwe ibibazo.
"Birangora kwiyumvisha ibyo ababyeyi bahatirwa gukurura ibyumweru bya mbere n'umwana wenyine"Amer, ufite imyaka 32, abana babiri - Intare (Imyaka 3), Eva (amezi 8)
Barcelona
Nyuma yo kugaragara kwabana, ntabwo ari uko ikintu cyose mubuzima bwacu kitarahindutse, ariko dukomeza gukora ibyo dukunda byose mbere: gutembera, byakorewe inshuti, akazi. Gusa nuance nkeya yagaragaye - Noneho igenamigambi ryibintu byose byahise bikubiyemo ibikenewe byumuntu muto (kandi vuba aha - bibiri). Kandi ntabwo ari igihe gito. Nibyiza gutekereza ku nshingano zabo (n'iyabo!) Kubyerekeye urugero dukorera.
Nyuma yumwana umaze kuvuka, wowe na mugenzi wawe barimo kuba abayobozi b'umushinga, aho umushinga ari ubuzima wahaye umwana wawe. Kandi uru ruhare rushya ni ubuzima bwose, ibisubizo bigomba gufatwa buri munsi.
Noneho nkora umunsi wose, na Katya ni igice cya kabiri kumunsi. Mugihe Eva arya amata, mara igihe gito hamwe na Katya. Kandi bijyanye n'intare dugabanya igihe n'inshingano wongeyeho-gukomera. Nyuma yo kuvuka k'umukobwa amaze kuvuka, nari mfite urwego rushya rwo gusobanukirwa no gukunda umuhungu we.
Muri Espagne, aho tuba, abavyeyi bombi bakora bahabwa ikiruhuko cyuzuye cyo kubyara. Ibyumweru cumi na bitandatu yikiruhuko bishingiye kuri buri mubyeyi. Ibyumweru bine bigomba gufatwa, nabandi - igihe icyo aricyo cyose kugeza umwana yageze kumyaka yumwaka umwe.
Nakoresheje ukwezi kwambere nyuma yo kuvuka kwa Eva, no kubayoboke babiri, 50% yigihe cyarakoze.
Birangora kwiyumvisha ibyo ababyeyi bahatirwa gukurura ibyumweru byambere hamwe numwana wenyine. Naho, by the, ba se. Kubwibyo, ndi hafi cyane icyitegererezo cya Espagne, mugihe ababyeyi bombi bashyigikiye mugenzi wabo (numwana) mugihe cyibyumweru byambere).
Mu Burusiya, itegeko rya Data rituwe bitewe kubera impamvu nyinshi. Umushahara hafi ya yose mubagabo uri hejuru kubera ivangura ryuburinganire. Imyumvire irakomeye: Kubwa "mugabo nyawe" kugirango ujye kuri Decret - igikorwa cya Atypical cyane.
Umugabo umwe ufite umwana ntaki byoroshye kuruta umugore umwe. Gusa nta gatuza afite.
Birashimishije cyane kubabyeyi nukwimenya mubyo umwana wanjye abikora.
Ibi biragoye cyane!
"Akazi kazahora ari byinshi, kandi amezi ya mbere y'ubuzima bw'umwana ntagereranywa"Denis, imyaka 37, abana babiri - Gleb (Gleb (imyaka 15), Steptan (Umwaka 1)
Moscou
Ndetse na mbere yuko avuka, nari nzi neza ko ntakintu nahindura mubuzima bwanjye. Mubyukuri, twe kandi nashizeho. Ariko ubuzima bwahinduye, kandi hamwe numwana ntacyo bari bahujwe. Imibereho yacu yahindutse cyane - twicaye ku muhengeri wa mbere wa karantine mu kwiyemeza kwinshi ndetse n'imyanda ntiyigeze isohoka, yateje abatwara ubutumwa. Nabuze amahirwe yo kugenda mu bwisanzure, ingendo, guhura n'inshuti, ariko birashoboka kumarana n'umuryango wanjye.
Twacu hamwe numugore we dusangira 50/50, kandi igihe Umwana yavutse gusa, kuko nari mfite ibyo nkuroheye kubonana, kuko nari maze kugira uburambe bwo gukorana nabana.
Umwana ni inshingano zababyeyi bombi, kubera ko icyemezo giteye ubwoba cyo gutangiza umwana na bo bifatanije.
Ndi mu bwato kuva mu mpera za Werurwe 2020. Kubwibyo, turashobora kuvuga ko ndi itegeko ribangikanye numugore wanjye no kuva mu ntangiriro rifite uruhare runini mu nzira y'uburere. Ntekereza ko intego ya ba sogokuruza igomba kuba iteganijwe. Icyiciro cyiza cyane gisuzuma ibyabaye mu Burayi, aho abagabo bagomba gufata ikiruhuko cyo kubyara amezi atatu (cyangwa batandatu) bakaguma iruhande rw'umugore we n'umwana.
Ibi ni ngombwa cyane cyane mumezi yambere, mugihe ibibazo byose bihora bivuka ibibazo wahisemo hamwe. N'ubundi kandi, iyi ni stereotype yubucucu ahagaze umugore avutse umwana, arahari - Hop! - Kandi yahise yiga kwita ku mwana. Umugore, niba ari umwana we wambere, ni nko mumyanda no kutumvikana kuburyo gukora nibindi byose!
Ibikorwa bizahora ari byinshi, kandi amezi yambere yubuzima bwumwana ntagereranywa. Nko kwamamaza - hari ibintu bidashobora kugurwa, kuko ibindi bisigaye hari Mastercard.
Ntekereza ko abagabo batajya mu teka, kuko bavanywe muri diaper ko umugabo ariho kandi agomba gutanga umuryango, kandi abana nibintu byoroshye.
Noneho iyi nzira irahinduka, kandi muri tuziranye hariho abagabo bari mu itegeko aho kubagore. Ku rugero runini, ibi nibyo, birumvikana, biterwa n'ikibazo cy'amafaranga: amafaranga ye yinjiza cyane ni umugabo we.
Nishimiye rwose amarangamutima twumva, tubona uburyo umwana yishima, aseka, guhobera, kuruma inyuma yizuru, kuvoma, byerekana uruzitiro. Nkunda kureba intsinzi ye mugutezimbere ubuhanga bwa mbere. Biratangaje cyane byasaga naho mu mwaka wa mbere w'ubuzima: Umutwe wampaganye gusa ku kiganza cyanjye, hanyuma arapfa, arahaguruka, arahaguruka, arahaguruka arambara induru mu nzu yose. Gusobanukirwa ko iyi ari agace kawe - umunezero utarondoreka.
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