Mu bwana n'ubwangavu, twakunze kurakara kandi turababara na Mama. Bagenda bakura, bamenye ko Mama yashakaga ko turi abanyabwenge gusa, kandi bari bafite uburenganzira iyo batwigishije ubuzima. Intwari zacu zimaze gutekereza ko ababyeyi babo bazavuga ibintu biteye ubwoba kandi ntibisobanutse. Kandi gusa babaye abakuze ubwabo, bamenye ko Mama yahawe
ntabwo ari impfabusa.
Kubera mama, natakaje urukundo
Nari mfite imyaka 15, narebye ibisanzwe, kandi yari umuntu mwiza hamwe ninyamanswa yabakobwa bose kwishuri. Birumvikana ko urukundo rwanjye rwa mbere izina ryari mubi, ariko abakobwa b'ingimbi bakunda abahungu babi. Igihe Viteya yantungaga guhura, nari mu ijuru rya karindwi mu byishimo. Umugoroba uryamye mu buriri, ntabwo ari maso, kandi ntiyumva uburyo umuhungu udasanzwe anyitayeho. Muri kiriya gihe, umusatsi wanjye wambaraga ibirahuri, umusatsi wanjye wahagaritswe ku nkombe ebyiri, byari bike gusa byashishikajwe n'abanyeshuri bo mu mashuri yisumbuye. Kandi kubera impamvu runaka, Vityya yanshize amaso.
Mama umusore wanjye yahise atakunda. Oya, ntabwo yanfunze murugo kugirango ntashobora kujya gutembera vite. Ariko byahwemye bidashimishije, bagerageza kumbwira, basobanuye ko yagombaga kugira uyu munyeshuri wiga mumashuri yisumbuye. Birumvikana ko ntigeze numvaga mama kandi nashishikajwe n'ibyiyumvo byanjye.
Mu mpera z'Ukuboza, Viteya yantumiye kwizihiza umwaka mushya hamwe. Bafite isosiyete nini ku kazu kamwe mu nshuti za Vitan. Ukuntu yakunzwe inshuro nyinshi ko buri mugabo n'umugore bazaba bazaba icyumba cyihariye, kandi ndashobora kwerekana ibyiyumvo bye. Nari niteguye kuri byose. Ariko mama, ubwo yumvise ko nzajya mu kazu kuva vite, birabujijwe. Amaze iminsi myinshi ndarira, yemera, yasezeranyije kwiga "kwibwiza", buri gihe amufashe kuzengurutse inzu.
Imbaraga zose ntacyo zamaze, kandi mama yarashimangiraga. "Niba ushaka guhura, sinzagutakambira. Mama ati: "Ntabwo nemerewe kujya ahantu hamwe n'abanyeshuri bo mu mashuri yisumbuye ijoro ryose, maze mbona ko bitagenda.
Kurenga umwaka nacuguye nyirabuja mama. Umubano wacu wangiritse, ntabwo twavugaga, nubwo mama yagerageje kwiyunga inshuro nyinshi. By the way, ubwo nabwiraga VITA ko ntagiye mu gihugu, yarenze ku mubano nanjye. Birumvikana ko nashinje mama. Nabonye ko isi yanjye yarasenyutse. Hanyuma namenye ko vitya yabonanye nanjye ugereranije nanjye n'abakobwa babiri. Umwe muri bo yatwite Viti, na we arayijugunya.
Noneho ndashimira Mamuchka, ko yankijije igikorwa kirenga. Ntabwo bizwi ibyambayeho. Nzi ko urukundo rwanjye rwa mbere rwashoboye kwicara muri gereza kubera ubujura. Umukobwa wanjye afite imyaka 4, ariko ndangije kwiyumvisha uko ugomba kwibonera urukundo rwa mbere no gutenguha bwa mbere.
Ishuri ryose rigomba guseka
Nahoraga mbona amaso mabi, kandi nambaraga ibirahuri. Umuntu wese azi ko abana ari abagome cyane mugushinyagurira. Odnoklassniki aransetsa, igihe nambara ibirahuri byanjye binini (muri iyo minsi, ntabwo byari ibirahuri byijimye mu ruzibe ruto). Kandi nanjye twambaraga imirongo, kuko amenyo yibeshye.
Nanze cyane gushyira imitako, ariko ababyeyi batanze amafaranga menshi kugirango ntekereze. Odnoklassniki yampamagaye "biteye ubwoba" na "icyuma". Ntabwo nkunda kuvugurura amafoto yishuri. Ntabwo ndamwenyura no kubahiriza, kuko buri gihe ndashe ibirahure. Nanze ababyeyi banjye kubera uburakari bwanjye: Bafite kandi amaso mabi, kandi amenyo akura mu cyerekezo gitandukanye.
Namaze muri kaminuza, igihe nakuweho imitsi, nasanze ngomba gushimira mama na papa. Noneho niguze lens, ariko nyuma gato yakoze iyerekwa. Nari mfite abafana benshi, narashatse neza, ryibarutse abana babiri. Iyo ngeze ku babyeyi banjye, ndababwira "kubera ko bafite imyuga yanjye kandi bafasha gukosora amakosa yo kugaragara.
Reba nanone: Iyo Mama yemera ko burigihe, cyangwa uburyo imyifatire y'ababyeyi yangiza igira ingaruka kubana
Ababyeyi babujijwe
Mama na Papa bakurikiza imirire iboneye, ntabwo rero twigeze tugira bombo, udutsima, ice cream murugo. Ndibuka isabukuru yanjye mfite imyaka itanu. Ku meza y'ibiruhuko yari ikata imbuto n'imbuto "iburyo" idafite isukari. Mu ishuri namaze kuvurwa na bombo, kandi numvise ibinezeza nambuwe ababyeyi banjye. Nashoboraga kurya shokora nyinshi rwihishwa na mama, kandi akenshi ni koza agaragara mumaso n'umubiri.
Hanyuma, mumashuri yisumbuye, nahuye na Wansell. Ambwira ko kuva mu bwana bibabazwa n'amenyo ye. Yemerewe ibiryoshye kuva akiri muto. Birashoboka, birumvikana ko iyi ari impanuka, ariko sinigeze ngirana n'amenyo yawe no kubyibuha birenze. Mama, by, yabwiye nyuma impamvu yakoze igice cyo kwirinda ibiryohereye. Igihe yari muto, nyirakuru yahoraga amuha imifuka manini hamwe na bombo. Mu myaka 25, Mama yagombaga gushyira "ikiraro", kuko amenyo menshi akize arananirana.
Sinze ku muhungu wawe w'imyaka 6, ariko ntashaka ko yifuza. Kuri we, salade yimboga iryoshye (yego, bibaho!) Cyangwa sandwich ifite amafi atukura.
Soma kandi: Byagenda bite se niba umwana abivuze: "Mama, sinkunda"
Mama sinkeneye, ariko ukeneye nyirarume wundi
Sinzi se wa kera. Yaduteye na nyina igihe ntavuka. Birakenewe guha icyubahiro mama, kuko yamugerageje cyane kugirango ntacyo nkeneye. Mama yakoraga cyane, ariko icyarimwe yasanze igihe cyo kugenda cyangwa amasomo ahujwe. Igihe nujuje imyaka 13, umugabo yagaragaye mubuzima bwe.
Mubisanzwe, nahise ndamuta ndamushaka, nubwo umufana wa mama yari ibisanzwe: yinjije neza, atwitaho, yarasomwe. Yagerageje gushaka ururimi rumwe nanjye, ariko nahise nirengagiza ukuhaba kwe. Igihe nyirarume Volode yaje, nakubise urushyi urushyi rwinshi, nta nubwo yavuganye.
Mama yakoresheje imbaraga nyinshi nimitekerereze, agerageza kugera aho aherereye. Noneho nimugoroba, ubwo twanyoye icyayi hamwe, yagize ati: "Ndi umukobwa muto, kandi ukwiye kwishima. Abagore ntibagomba kwibanda ku bashakanye, kandi umunsi umwe uzabyumva. " Naje guhura nacyo, naniga mu cyayi, mama yongeramo ijambo rye ati: "Ntabwo nzareka Volodeya ku bw'imfura yawe. Turakundana. Nanjye ndagukunda. Tekereza ukuntu twese dukomeje kwitwara. "
Mubuzima bwacu, Nyirarume Volodya yakemutse neza. Yadujyanye iwe, akikijwe n'ubushyuhe no kumwitaho. Ubwa mbere nakomeje kwerekana ko ntamuntu nanone kuri inertia, ariko bidatinze nzamenya ko papa wanjye ari umuntu mwiza. Yampaye ubushyuhe bwinshi n'urukundo nacitse intege, kuko buri mwana akeneye se. Nyirarume Volodya yavuze ko imigenzo myiza yumuryango: nimugoroba dusoma ibitabo bitangaje. Nkunda kwibuka iminsi mikuru yacu kumeza nini, hamwe nabashyitsi, indirimbo, amarushanwa, ibitwenge no kwishimisha.
Ubu ndi impanga za mama ubwanjye, na nyirarume vova (ndamwita igihe kinini cyane) - sekuru mukuru ku isi. Ndamushimira cyane kubyo yankoreye byose. Kandi ndashimira mama kuba yaranyigishije byoroshye, ariko nkikintu cyingenzi: Ntushobora kwibagirwa nawe ubwawe no gushonga rwose mubana.
Tekereza ku buzima bwawe
Nakuriye umwana wa Chubby, no ku ishuri narasenyutse n "ibinure". Mfite imyaka 14, nabanje kwicara ku ndyo. Nashakaga kumera nkumukunzi wanjye, impeta nkiyi yoroshye, umurongo uhuza abafana wubatswe. Mbere yumupira wo gutanga impamyabumenyi, ntabwo nigeze mpagarika kurya. Mama yagerageje kundeka, yateguye amasahani yakundaga, yavuze ko inzira y'ubuzima yagira ingaruka mbi ku buzima bwanjye. Ariko uzumva mama mugihe dupima kg 45, urashaka ute, kandi kabiri?
Muri kaminuza, nafashe cyane ishusho yanjye. Calorie yasuzumye, ntabwo yemeye ko arikintu cyose kibujijwe, nimugoroba rwose yakoresheje muri siporo. Mama ashushe igihe namugana. Icyo gihe napimaga kg 40, ariko ntibyambujije. Ngeze mu bitaro bihumura, Mama yaje aho ndi buri munsi ararira igihe cyose.
Noneho habaye imyaka myinshi yo gukira. Nize kurya neza, byavuguruye ubuzima bwanjye kandi ndabyumva, amaherezo, kubona mama yari afite ukuri. Bitewe no kubura umubiri igihe kirekire, ntabwo yari atwite, noneho hari ibibazo bikomeye byubuzima. Mama ntiyongera, ariko igihe cyose nibutse ko yavuze ati: "Data, ugomba kwiyitaho. Isura ntabwo arikintu cyingenzi. Tekereza ku buzima bwawe. " Ubu natanga byinshi byo kwicarana na Mamuly ku gikombe cy'icyayi kandi nishimiye kurya ibirato bye byari bizi guteka gusa.