Nigute ushobora gukoresha imbuga nkoranyambaga zo gushimangira umubano nabana no kutiha inkoni - ntabwo dukinira "umutware wawe" kandi ntukajye kwinjira cyane? Igihe cyo kugaragara kuri iki kibazo ugasanga igisubizo kigufi: hamwe nurukundo namatsiko.
Ababyeyi benshi bizeye ko bazi abana babo neza, ariko akenshi batakaza iyi lulitiro icyarimwe hamwe no kuza k'urupapuro rw'umwana mu nbuga nkoranyambaga. Kuri enterineti, umwana wabo utuje aragaragara neza. Vuga, uharanira inyungu. Cyangwa umufana wumuziki wihariye. Cyangwa ... Muri rusange, umuntu mukuru yavumbuye ko mubyukuri atari mubi hamwe numukoro wumwana we - ahubwo ni rubanda kwiga kandi hari ukuntu bige kandi hari ukuntu bige kandi hari ukuntu bige kandi hari ukuntu bige kandi hari ukuntu bige kandi hari ukuntu bige gusa.
Nzahora urwanya!Hariho icyiciro cyababyeyi batiteguye kwihanganira iki cyemezo cyibintu. Kuri bo, ikibazo gihinduka kudasobanukamo amashusho: Umwe arabakwiriye, ni "ukuri", undi ntasubizwa igitekerezo cyabo cyumwana utunganye. "Bikosore" ibintu akenshi bikunze inzira zikomeye z'ubwoko bw'ibibujijwe, amabwiriza, ibibujijwe - ni iki kitabangamiye rwose ubuzima bw'abatabira amakimbirane.
Niki gukora umubyeyi warebye umuyoboro rusange wa Tchad kandi ushaka gukomanga kumeza kumeza? Ubwa mbere, uhite uhagarike kwiga konti yumwana, kugirango utacika cyane. Noneho fata ikibazo cyo kugisha inama hamwe na psychologue cyangwa ibitekerezo byigenga ku ngingo "Niki rwose kirega kuki ntashobora kuyifata." Hanyuma hanyuma usubire mu mbuga nkoranyambaga. Hamwe n'umutwe ukonje no gusobanukirwa: Yego, amashusho ni abiri - ariko uyu ni umuntu umwe, mwana wanjye. Ntabwo ategetswe nkanjye mubuzima bwose, ariko ndamukunda uko byagenda kose.
Umuntu mukuru, watewe mu miterere ye y'isi yose yashize (ati: "Ntabwo twari duhari mbere!") Kandi Isoko igoye, umwangavu aragoye kumenya cyane ("sawa, ntabwo wari, kandi Mfite icyo kubikora? "). Ibi ntibisobanura ko ababyeyi bakeneye kwihutisha ku bundi buryo bukabije, batangira nta shiti kugira ngo bagabanye inyungu za Tchade no kubakurikira - Avocecting kumva Dora cyangwa kwiruka muri Septam.
Ni ngombwa ko umwana yumva nka bene wabo mu mutekano - kandi aya magambo ari meza haba mubuzima nyabwo ndetse no mu mwanya wa interineti.
Ntushobora kwitaho: Uburyo bwo kurengera abana kuri enterineti kandi ntibirenze
Urufunguzo rwo kumva umutekano uriho kubabyeyi badashidikanywaho nababyeyi - kandi ikizere hagati cyavukiye hano. Ninde, na we, yemeza ko mubihe byose bitari bisanzwe, umwana amfasha kandi ashyigikira azashimisha abavandimwe.
Uri nde?Umubyeyi, washoboye gufata ibintu biranga ishusho yumwana we mumiyoboro rusange, arashobora gukora intambwe nini ikurikira: gerageza ufite amatsiko yo kubaza umwana kubintu biranga. Ifite amatsiko yagenewe icyifuzo kivuye ku mutima cyo gusobanukirwa logique no gushishikara umwana.
Icyifuzo cyoroshye cyangiza, ni iyihe mico ikurura umwana muri blogger ye yakundaga cyangwa umuhanzi: Niba umwana abonye abumva umwete abajijwe, abishaka asangira ibitekerezo bye kuri ibi. Kandi muri ico gihe nyene hatubwira ibyo "agashitsi", "mpanuka", "staming", kandi uko bitandukanye byumvikana more kuko asa n'avuga akuze (spoiler: stylistics). Kubera iyo mpamvu, umuntu mukuru azahinduka neza kandi "niki gishobora kuba muri rusange nka", hamwe nibyishimo byumwana, nibiganiro bye ninshuti zabo zarebaga inshuti.
Agaciro k'umuco na mibereho ntibishobora gupimwa numurongo runaka wubumaji. Kandi ukeneye? Ariko urashobora kwishimira numwana kubona isi hari ikintu kibishima.
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Igishimishije ..."Kugenda ku gatsinsino" ku mwana ku mbuga nkoranyambaga (kwiyandikisha mu myigaragambyo, reba imyirondoro y'inshuti, ukikinisha rwose no mu mpamvu nziza - birababaje cyane - birababaje cyane nko kwigaragaza. Umwana wese ushimishije azisangira. Niba ashaka. Ababyeyi neza kumara umwanya kugirango babone ikintu gishimisha kuri net.
Twitter na Instagram bisa nkaho bifite ubwinshi bwabantu bakuru kuva 35 n'abakuru, hamwe nuru rubuga, ibintu byose, muri rusange, birumvikana. Kuri Tiktok, imyifatire iraryoshye - ureba mbere birasa nkaho hariho kubyina byingimbi bidasanzwe.
Mubyukuri, usibye imyidagaduro i Tiktok, yuzuyemo imibereho hamwe namashusho yuburezi (urugero, intambwe yintambwe), kandi imyaka yitike ntabwo igarukira gusa kumyaka 25.
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Mu ijambo, guha amahirwe ya ticotok! Shyiramo kandi witegure iminsi ibiri kugirango ukande "udashaka" ku muzingo udakunda (ni ukuvuga hafi ya bose) kandi ujye kwishimira umutima mwiza - buhoro buhoro, a algorithm ishingiye cyane kuburyo utangira Kureba Tiktok hamwe nibyishimo bivuye ku mutima.
Kubanga amahoro murubuga urwo arirwo rwose rwemerera inyongera yinyongera kugirango ubone umuntu mukuru numwana. Kumenya amahame namategeko akoreshwa bituma bishoboka gusangirana ibintu bishimishije nta mabwiriza yinyongera. Biroroshye cyane gushyikirana ndetse biranamutera imbaraga!
Ntabwo ubyitayeho? .."Sinshaka gufotorwa!" - "Ngwino, muraho, wowe, umwanya umwe, kanda - Hano nyirakuru azishima! Nibyiza, kumwenyura! " Ikadiri kubera iyo mpamvu, umwana ahangayikishijwe nuko atigeze yumva (ati: "Ntabwo ndi ngombwa!"), Nyirakuru ahangayikishijwe n'impamvu umwuzukuru cyangwa umwuzukuru asa n'ubwumvikane. Nibintu nkibi bisanzwe byerekana uburyo byoroshye abantu bakuru baza kumupaka wumwana kandi ntibabona ikintu kidasanzwe kuri cyo.
Kuri enterineti, iyi nkuru isanga gukomeza. Ababyeyi benshi, birebire kandi babaze mu mbuga nkoranyambaga nka "vkontakte", Facebook, Instagram buri gihe kohereza amafoto y'abana babo mumwirondoro. Ariko ntabwo abantu bose basaba abana barabyemera. "Bite? Umwana wanjye nicyo nshaka, ndabikora! " - Igitekerezo kirumvikana, ariko ...
Urashobora kugerageza ukundi: Ntugafate amashusho yumwana, niba yanze, umusabe uruhushya rwo gutangaza amashusho kandi arashobora no guhuzwa kumashusho yihariye. Niba ubikora uhereye akiri muto, umwana afite amahirwe menshi yo gukura afite imipaka ifite ubuzima bwiza kandi ikomeye. Ariko ntibitinda gutangira kubikora 10, no kuri 15, na saa 25, na 30.
Ibibazo nkibi ntabwo ari uguta igihe, ahubwo ni ikimenyetso: Ni ngombwa kuri njye wumva, kandi ndashaka ko uba mwiza. N'amatafari y'inyongera gushimangira umubano.
Abana bananiwe: Ni ubuhe bwoko bw'umujinya w'umwana n'uburyo bwo kumukemura
Mugishushanyo cyingingo cyakoreshejwe amafoto yo kubitsa ibishushanyo.