Inkuru ibabaje kuva mubuzima bwa Mama, wimuye umwana we gukunda umugabo. Mbega ububabare bwo mumutwe bwarokotse umugore igihe yamenyaga ukuri
Intambwe ku mwana we, kandi ni uwuhe mwanzuro yagize?
Igihe cyose nicaye muri mudasobwa igendanwa, yafunguye inyandiko ya Vormvsky, ariko sinshobora guhitamo kwandika inkuru yanjye. Muri imwe, nzi neza ko byanze bikunze, bizahinduka isomo ryiza kubandi babyeyi bazigisha benshi gusa, ahubwo nizera ko umwana wabo akareba. Nagize byose hamwe nukuri kwa bitandukanye. Urukundo rwanjye, nkaho rufite isoni imbere yamaso ye, rwatsinze ibitekerezo. Nakundaga cyane umugabo, wahisemo igikorwa gikomeye - kwanga umwana kandi witange kumufatanyabikorwa.
Gito kuri wewe: Ndi umukobwa wimyaka 27, yibaruka umwana kuri 23 uhereye kumuntu ukunda. Sinshobora kuvuga ko namwishimiye, nubwo umubano natwe wari utunganye. Ariko intimba nini yabaye. Igihe imbuto yacu yari ifite imyaka 2.5, umugabo yaguye mu mpanuka iteye ubwoba na nyuma yiminsi 2 nyuma yibyo arapfa. Mugihe umuganga yavuze, impamvu ni ibikomere byinshi hamwe no kuvunika bidahuye nubuzima. Ibyo nagize nyuma y'urupfu rwe, Imana yonyine niyo irabizi, ntabwo rero nshaka kubyibuka no gusobanura. Ariko nzavuga ibitekerezo bimwe gusa, byaransuye. Gusa ikintu cyampamagaye ni umwana wanjye. Mugihe kimwe nabonye ubushishozi - Nabonye ko nkwiye kubaho kuri we gusa!
Tangira umubano
Yarengeje imyaka 5, Seyton yakuze - Noneho afite imyaka 7.5, kandi yagiye mu cyiciro cya mbere. Umwana wanjye niyo yishimye wenyine mubuzima bwanjye. Akura umugabo nyawe - muburyo bwinshi bimfasha, ashyigikira imico, kandi ashimisha ibyo mfite!
Ariko, byari akanya gato igihe nagombaga kumusunika inyuma. Yahagaritse kuba kuri njye umuntu 1 ku isi. Byabaye igihe nahuraga, nkuko byasaga nkicyo, umuntu wiyubashye. Umusore muremure, ushinzwe amategeko, uzwi cyane kandi mwiza cyane yahise ahindura umutwe. Tuganiriye kumwaka utarenze, twahisemo kujya kubana.
Anatoly namenyesheje umuryango wanjye nyuma y'amezi 5 yo gutumanaho. Ntabwo nari niteze, ariko umukunzi wanjye yerekanye ko soparfate kandi yoroheje. Yahoraga yishora mu biryohereye, ibikinisho, amujyana kuroba, amahugurwa. Nzavuga ukuri, nishimye cyane, kuko abantu benshi bahenze byabaye inshuti nyazo - ni iki gishobora kuba cyiza?
Twabanaga mucyumba cyanjye bibiri, hari umwanya uhagije. Ku ntangiriro, idyll yuzuye yategetse umuryango wacu. Imyidagaduro ihuriweho na Anatoly hamwe numwana yari itandukanye kandi izana amano gusa umunezero nibyishimo gusa - ingendo zihuriweho, kugenda, urubavu kuri kamere. Tolik yakoze impano zihenze - yahaye igisambo cyimbuto, yari amaze kuva kera. Ariko, iyi idyll irangiye byihuse, mubyukuri ako kanya tumaze kwiyemerera umubano.
Kutitaho ibintu byanjye
Mu buryo butunguranye, umukunzi wanjye numugabo wifuzwa cyane wabuze akazi. Nubwo bimeze, nirukanye ibitekerezo bibi. We ubwe yakoraga nk'umukunguma mu buryo bwiza. Nakunze kugira ngo mpatire ku kazi. Umunsi umwe, ubwo nongeye gutinda ku kazi, umwana wanjye yarampamagaye. Yavuganye n'ijwi rihinda umushyitsi kandi rikaze. Yambajije ati: "Nzagaruka vuba nde?" Ibyo nasubije, mwese murugo neza. Umuhungu yavuze ko ibintu byose ari ugukurikirana, ariko nagize inama mbi ko hari ibitagenda neza. Thille ibitekerezo, nahuje vuba ndataha.
Gufungura umuryango w'inzu, numvise gutaka gukomeye - asesakuye umwana, agerageza kumutera kwizihiza ibintu bye. Mu kanya gato, njye, no mu binyuranye, yishimiye ko bamwe mu ngo zimwe zo mu rugo ari impamvu yo gutongana kwabo. N'ubundi kandi, munzira imuhira, namaze gukomeretsa gutya.
Kubwibyo, urutiramo rwo guhagarika tolik mubijyanye numwana wari ufite ishingiro kandi ntiwansunitse. Noneho ndabyumva mbere yuko ubwanjye nticyanyemereye. N'ubundi kandi, dufite ibibazo byose n'imbuto bucece n'amahoro. Yanyumvaga mu gice cya kabiri. Kujya mu gikoni, nabonye umwana wacitse kandi amwenyura tolik. Kumwenyura kwe kwamushutse, kandi namaganye iki kibazo. Noneho ndumva ko ikintu kibi ntigeze ngiye no muri pepiniyeri kugira ngo bavugane n'imbuto nyuma y'ibyabaye. Kandi yari ikosa rikomeye.
Ariko ibyo ntabwo aribyo byose, igihe abantu bose bahuriye nuburiri bwabo, Tolik yatangiye guhagarara. Bavuga ko ufite sludge nkiyi, egoist nimyanda. Kumbwira ko ndi umubyeyi mubi kandi urega umwana ntiyigeze agirana umugabo uwo ari we wese! Ndetse birenze ibyo, ko ntarinze ubwonko buhagije. Ntukizere, ahubwo weguriwegunze kwe, nongeye kunama umutwe ndaceceka. Tolik, udategereje uko kubyitwaramo, yahise ahitamo kurekura arsenal ye yose, avuga ko ubu buryo bwo kwiyubaha rwose bifata. Icyo nazongereye.
Birumvikana ko byari byiza kuri njye, kubera ko nta kintu na kimwe mfite kandi ndacyaruha cyane, kandi Tolik afasha mu masomo, akomeza amasomo, atwara amahugurwa, atwara ku ishuri. Umuforomokazi udasanzwe mu isura y'abagabo. Kubera iyo mpamvu, natandukanijwe rwose n'umuhungu wanjye, kuba naratsinze burundu ku bitugu bya papa.
Umwana yarahindutse cyane - yarafunzwe, acecetse, areka guhura nanje igihe nagarukaga ku kazi. Ikintu kibi ntabwo nabibonye. Sinigeze mbona ko Seyson abonye hamwe n'uwo twashakanye hamwe isasu yiruka mu cyumba cyanjye. Byageze aho nanahagaritse ubushake bwo uko yakoraga ku ishuri, yaba yagiye mu muhanda ugenda n'inshuti n'icyo yakoraga mu gihe cye cy'ubusa. Ariko mbere yuko ibintu byose bitandukanye: Yansangiye ibyabaye byose mugihe cye. Inkuru ze zari amarangamutima kuburyo nta nubwo natinyutse kubihagarika.
Reba kandi: Mama Amateka, washoboye gushiraho umubano wizerana numukobwa we
Ibanga ryagaragaye
Umunsi wo kumurika gutunguranye waje - Nabonye ko nkora ikosa rikomeye. Ibintu byose byabaye mukigo cyimyidagaduro mugihe Semyan yanze gukina na Tolik. Nateye uburakari, mfata icyemezo cyo guhana umwana - namugaragaje ibitarashima no gushyira mu mfuruka. Ingero zatangiye hysterics, amarira, nagerageje, ariko sinashoboraga kumutuza. Yamufashe ayizana kumuhanda kugirango avuga.
Twicaye ku iduka ryegereye, namuhogoye cyane maze ritangira no kurira. Binyuze kuri marira, nasabye kuvuga uko byagenze. Kumva ibyo umwana avuga, mvuye guhungabana. Numvaga ndumvaga gadko kuburyo ntashobora no gutsinda ... Noneho nasanze ukuntu umwana wanjye ari mubi. Sema yavuze uburyo tolik itamuteye ubwoba gusa, ahubwo iramukubita, n'abantu bose baza ku kuboko kwe. Byongeye kandi, yatsinze umuhungu we, uzamuha mu kigo cy'imfubyi, aramutse abwiye nyina.
Ariko izi yari indabyo gusa. Hamwe n'uru rubanza rworoshye, uwo mushakanye yavuganye n'umwana ko ntagikunda ko umwana utandukanye azagaragara vuba, nyuma ya barindwi batazakenera nyina muri rusange. Ni iki uyu mugabo yashakaga kugeraho, sindabyumva - niba ndatsinze rwose, niba nakwemera ko numwana wanjye cyangwa akamutizera.
Shandema cyane ko nanjye ubwanjye natangiye gutontoma ingendo. Nyuma yigihe gito, tumaze gutuza, mpitamo, igihe kirageze cyo gusubira mu gace k'imyidagaduro. Tolik, wabonye mu maso hacu, asobanukirwa byose. Icyakora, nta kintu na kimwe namubwiye. Kugirango tutatangira gusiganwa hamwe numwana, twajyanye kumasaha abiri kubwinshuti yanjye.
Amaze gusiga wenyine hamwe n'umugabo we, ntabwo nigeze mbona igihe cyo kugira icyo mvuga, kuko Thalik yatangiye kunsobanurira: "Nigute ushobora kwizera iyi shitani? Araguha mu buryo bwihariye kundwanya! ". Nari mfite reaction imwe ku ijambo "Gadnash" - Natangiye kumukubita ibipfunsi nubwo yayoboye imodoka.
Ku kibazo cyanjye, yaramukubise, aramusubiza ati: "Nakubise inshuro ebyiri."
Igisubizo gikomeye
Kuba nabwiye umwizerwa wanjye gukusanya ibintu no gusohoka munzu yanjye. Ikintu kibabaje cyane yatangiye gusabiriza, gusaba imbabazi, gusezeranya ko bitazongera kubaho. Ariko nari nkurukuta rudahungabana!
Nyuma yigihe kinini nyuma y'ibyabaye ndetse n'ubu, ndibaza ku byo nakoranye n'umwana wanjye - gito kandi nta kirengera. Yakunze kumuhakana kubera gusesa tolik, amuhatira kwicara igihe kirekire mu cyumba cye. Nzi ko ntabarirwa kandi simbihakana icyaha cyanjye. Ndashobora kuvuga gusa ikintu kimwe iki kibazo cyampaye isomo ryiza. Noneho ntamuntu numwe uzafata umwanya wumuhungu we mumutima wanjye!