Benshi
Babona ko abana babo bitwaraga neza mu ishuri ry'incuke, kandi mu rugo ntagambana. Mu Kinazi w'incuke arashobora gutuza
, kura ibikinisho inyuma yawe, kurya kandi ushizwe ku nzozi za buri munsi. Murugo, umwana yita kuri we, ibitabo, ibipupe nimodoka bitatanye munzu, na kroch induru, ntakintu kibikora. Abigisha bavuga ko kuba abarimu benshi bagenzuye imipaka yemewe. Ni ngombwa ko umwana yumva ko mama na papa bazamukunda, nubwo imyitwarire, kandi ibi ni ukuri. Ariko, icyarimwe,
Witegure gusangira amayeri ya Pedagoge kuri no murugo Umwana yitwaye neza.
Guteza imbere ubwigenge mumwana
Abana bafite imyaka 3-4, birumvikana ko badashobora gukora byose wigenga, bityo bakeneye ubufasha bukuru. Ariko basanzwe bashoboye guteranya ibikinisho, kurambura ipantaro, bakaraba intoki barye bonyine. Ababyeyi bagomba gufasha gutsimbataza ubwigenge kumwana, kandi ntibahutira gukora icyarimwe. Niba kroki ishaka koza ibyokurya, ntukemere ko ivuga ngo, nubwo noneho ugomba gukaraba amagorofa mugikoni no kuvoma amasahani. Tanga amahirwe yo kwerekana ubwigenge, guha ubufasha, hanyuma umugabo muto ntazigera yicara kandi yerekana ko ababyeyi bagomba kumukorera.Bizere abana bawe
"Ntazakora kugira ngo atavubiho buto kuri blouse, Nziza ndabikora," tekereza, ntaha umwana no kugerageza gukora ikintu wenyine. Ababyeyi ntibizera abana babo, nubwo mu ishuri ryigice bahindura imbyaro, koza imiyoboro n'isabune, basuka amazi mu gikombe. Niba mama cyangwa papa bemera ko ibinini bizagerwaho, ntashaka kugerageza. Ibinyuranye, niba ababyeyi bakusanya ibyo bategereje, umwana azagera kuyahuye. Gusa birakenewe no guhimbaza, gusobanura, kwihangana. Nta rubanza rudashobora gutuka umwana, kunegura no gusaba, bitabaye ibyo nta kintu kizakora.
Ntugasubize abana
Niba umwana yashyize ibikinisho ku gipangu ku bushishozi bwayo, ntukeneye kwihutira gutegura muburyo bwiza. Niba umwana yamize ibintu bye, ntukaboboha nkuko ubikeneye. Ibinyuranye nibyo, ugomba gusingiza umwana wubwigenge kandi ntugaragaza ko ntacyo yakoze nkuko nshaka. Mubisanzwe, amasahani umwana yogejwe, bagomba kwimuka, ariko birakenewe kugirango abigire kugirango umwana atabibona. Bitabaye ibyo, uzahitamo icyifuzo icyo ari cyo cyose cyo kwigenga.Menyesha amahirwe yo gufata icyemezo cyawe
Umwana akusanya uwashizeho ibishushanyo, kandi hano wihutira kugufasha kugufasha kubona igihome cyangwa inzu byihuse. Ntukore ibi. Reka kroki ubwe ahitamo uko imiterere ye izareba ibisobanuro birambuye. Ababyeyi bifuza ko ibintu byose bakora neza, kubushake bwabo. Ariko umwana ni umuntu wigenga, kandi afite uburenganzira bwo gufata umwanzuro we.
Reka umwana afashe munzu
Reka duhagarike amategeko asanzwe, kurugero, bizavomera indabyo, uhanagura umukungugu, usuke ibiryo byamatungo. Gusa imirimo igomba kuba inyangamugayo, kuko umwana ari ngombwa kumva akenewe kandi afite akamaro. Reka dusenyure inshingano ashobora kubikora, hanyuma azabasohoza yishimye.
Gushishikariza ubufatanye
Ababyeyi benshi baratangaye, nkuko umurezi ashobora kwicara abana 20 kumeza, kandi icyarimwe bose bitabara batuje mubuzima. Kugira ngo ukore ibi, ugomba kwiga uburyo bwo gutegura abana no guteza imbere ubufatanye muri bo. Nigute wabikora?- Hindukira vuba. Abana bagomba guhora basingiza, ariko cyane cyane abadashaka gufatanya gukenera.
- Komeza gahunda yumunsi. Muri ishuri ry'ishuri, biragaragara neza umunsi wose, kandi abanyeshuri borohewe kumenyera gahunda no kuyikora. Murugo, birumvikana ko udakwiye gukurikiza byimazeyo ubutegetsi, ariko hagomba kubaho amategeko amwe nabagize umuryango bose bakora rwose. Kurugero, imbere ya mugitondo, ibitanda byose byuzuye kandi byogejwe, nyuma yo kugenda, nyuma yo kugenda, amenyo arahanagurwa mbere yo kuryama, hanyuma ababyeyi basoma umugani. Niba wubahiriza amategeko yashyizweho, nyuma yigihe runaka umwana azabakora adahwitse na hysterics.
- Koresha umukino. Ibicuruzwa byose bya Kroch bizakorwa nibyishimo niba ukoresheje urupapuro rwimikino. Kurugero, umwana yanze byimazeyo kwambara mu busitani. Mumuhe gukina stylist hanyuma uzane ishusho yimyambarire.
- Kuburira kubikorwa byawe. Akenshi ababyeyi babona ko umwana akwiranye na hysteria mugihe abwiwe ko igihe kigeze cyo kuzimya amakarito tugasinzira. Ntabwo bibaho kuko umwana afite imico mibi. Gusa ntabwo waburiye mbere kubyerekeye igiye gukora, kandi Crocha ntiyiteguye. Mu ishuri ry'incuke, abarimu baraburirwa mu minota mike ukeneye guhagarika umukino no kuryama. Murugo, ugomba no kuvuga muminota 5-10: "Uracyafite umwanya wo kurangiza umukino, hanyuma tuzakenera gusinzira." Urashobora gutangira isaha yo gutabaza muminota 5, kandi iyo bimaze kumera, igihe cyarashize.
- Shishikarizwa gusa kubyo wagezeho. Niba igihe cyose uguze igikinisho cyangwa ibiryoshye kuberako umwana usukura amenyo cyangwa akusanya ibintu bye, ntazumva impamvu akora rwose. Koresha ibihembo gusa mugihe umwana yageze ku kintu, urugero, yize guhambira abakodesha.
- Tanga amahitamo. Iyo igikoma cyanze gusangira, umuhe amahitamo menshi. Niba umwana ubwe ahisemo, azicara ku meza akarya ibiryo byatoranijwe. Kurugero, umwana ntashaka kwambara. Mumuhe guhitamo amahitamo make yimyenda, kandi inzira yo kwambara irahumuriza cyane.
- Yigisha kwikinisha wenyine. Ntukeneye umunsi ukaguma iruhande rwigihe cyibanze ukabishimisha. Umwana agomba kuba ashobora gukina yigenga. Tanga amahitamo make: Gukwirakwiza plastiki, amakaramu, alubumu, amarangi, imodoka, ibipupe. Nibyo, ababyeyi nabo bagomba kwitabira umukino wumukino, ariko ntugomba kubikora. Niba umwana atangiye kubura, kuko nyina ategura ifunguro rya sasita kandi ntashobora kumuha umwanya, we ubwe azatekereza kwidagadura.
- Ntugahitemo ibibazo byose kumwana. Niba amakimbirane hagati yumwana wawe nundi mwana hari amakimbirane hagati yumwana wawe nundi mwana, ntukeneye kwihutira gutabara. Tanga umwanya kubana kugirango wumve ikibazo wigenga kandi ushake inzira yo kutava mu makimbirane.
Uburyo bwo Kwigisha Indero
Ntugomba gushyira umwana mubingugu cyangwa kuzamura ijwi niba igikona kitumva. Abarimu bo mu ishuri ry'incuke barashobora kwigisha indero badafite ibihano bikomeye. Babikora bate?
- Kurangaza. Umwana ahindura ibikinisho, kuvomera injangwe kuva kuvomera arashobora gusimbuka ku buriri? Mumuhe gukina wihishe kandi ushake, kubyina cyangwa kujya hanze. Niba ushishikajwe na Fidgets ku mwuga ushimishije, yishimiye kuva mu ibibembe bye kandi azatwara abandi ikintu.
- Shakisha amahirwe yo gukosora amakosa. Croa ashushanya ameza ye hamwe na marike? Aho gutaka, umuhe sponge mumaboko ye, kandi umwana asiba ibishushanyo bye. Niba, ku kibuga, umuhungu cyangwa umukobwa batsembye umunara wumusenyi, abandi bana bubakiwe, batange umwana wabo kongera kubakwa.
- Gukubita mugihe cyabikoze. Niba uhisemo guhana umwana, kora ako kanya ukimara gukora ikintu. Ntugomba gusubikaho ikiganiro kigenda neza kubihe bitazwi, kuko abana bahita bibagirwa ibyabaye kandi ntibasobanukirwe nibyo batutse. Kurugero, Kroki ubwe yitwaye kuwa gatatu, kandi uhagaritse ubukangurambaga muri Cafe muri wikendi. Umwana ntazagira imyanzuro kandi akakubabaza.