Umukandida Igihe cyose, Yoo, imara igihe kirekire. Abashakanye benshi bafite ikibazo cyiza cyumufatanyabikorwa nimpano zihenze, ikibabaje, ni ubwoko bwa sosiyete yamamaza irangirana mugihe umukobwa "akubita inshundura" maze agera kuri net.
Abashakanye batangiye kubana, abagabo benshi baruhuka, kandi ayo makuba yose ya cyami arazimira ahantu runaka. Indabyo gusa mu biruhuko no ku isabukuru nziza, abagore benshi binubira. Ariko umukunzi ni umukobwa wumukobwa wa Sveta buri munsi, abatuye indabyo, noneho impano zirahenze, hanyuma ifata ikiruhuko, hanyuma ikoti ryubwoya itanga ikote ryubwoya, hanyuma ikoti.
Birumvikana ko umuryango wose ufite ubukungu bwayo, kandi amafaranga angahe umuntu ashobora gutanga kuri bongera kubambura. Ariko nanone, ukurikije imitekerereze ya psychologue, hari tekinike ebyiri zizafasha gutuma umugabo aguhe impano.
Uyu munsi muri iki kinyamakuru tuzakubwira uko watangira kuguha impano
Abakobwa, bifata inyandiko!
1. Wige gushima impano ze zose.
Kandi ntacyo bitwaye igihe yaguhaye igikomo kimwe ku isabukuru yawe ya mbere cyangwa utuntu duto murugo. Ibuka ibintu byose byabishimiye no gushimwa no gushimwa. "Mbega urunigi rwiza wampaye! Kandi burya biva ku myambarire yanjye! "
Niba ari ubwoko bwibikoresho byo mu gikoni, buri gihe ikoreshwa, ndagushimira ko byoroshye kuri wewe kandi ufasha mumurima. Niba iyi ari indabyo zindabyo, noneho fata ukwiye. "Iyi ni indabyo nkunda. Ntiwibagiwe, nshuti! " Hanyuma ufate ifoto ya bouquet. Uzasobanukirwa rero ko ukunda impano, umukunzi ntabwo yibeshye akoresheje amahitamo kandi akaguha umunezero. Uratera imbaraga kandi ushishikarize uwahisemo akatontoma cyane.
2. Baza InamaAkenshi, abagabo ntibaha impano kubahisemo kubwimpamvu yoroshye ko batinya gukeka kandi ntibashimishe uburyohe bwabo. Ariko urashobora kubafasha muribi. Guhitamo ikintu, parufe, imyenda y'imbere, imyenda, burigihe ubaze akanama ke kijyanye n'ibara, imiterere, impumuro. Werekana rero ibyo ufatwa nigitekerezo cye kandi icyarimwe uhiga ibyo ukeneye. Umugabo witonda azasobanukirwa nicyiciro gito kuri wewe kandi rwose azagutera gutungurwa, gutanga neza ibyo ukeneye.
3. Shimira kandi uzerera kubuntu bwayo.
Nubwo umukunzi wawe atamenyereye kwerekana ubuntu no kuguha impano, shaka indi mpamvu yo kumushimira kubintu runaka. Birashobora kuba byiza kwitabwaho no kukwitaho, kurugero, ifunguro rya mugitondo riryoshye, amasahani yogejwe, uburiri bwa kawa cyangwa shokora y'ibisare, yaguzwe mububiko.
Iyo ubonye kandi ugashishikariza kubitaho, kwita no gutanga, arashaka kubikora inshuro nyinshi.
Ariko ibitutsi nibikomere mumishuro no kutayita byifashe neza kwirinda. Bitabaye ibyo, ibyago byo kuguma byombi atabitayeho kandi nta mpano.
4. Abagabo bakunda impanoMu mibanire igomba kuba amayeri, umukino, urukundo. Nk'itegeko, kuko muri hamwe bujuje amakuru nkumugore numugabo. Ntutinye gufata iyambere mumaboko yawe ukamuha impano. Uratera rero umwuka, berekana urugero rwukuntu wifuza kubaka umubano wawe muri couple. Cyane cyane niba uri kumwe numukunzi wawe mugihe kirekire mubashakanye, kandi bouquet yagaragaye kubonwa nimpande zombi nkimyanda irimo ubusa.
Ariko kurema umwuka wo gutungurwa, ntabwo ari ngombwa kumara amafaranga menshi. Birashobora kuba bike, kurugero, inyandiko yasigaye kuri frigo hamwe namagambo "Ndagukunda, nshuti!", Cyangwa weekend ishimishije, yitegura urukundo ikamuzanira mubiro. Bikore umunezero kandi muri byose shyiramo ubugingo bwose nurukundo rwawe. Gira "kwandura" kuriyi myumvire kandi bigutera guhishura, bityo rero ushaka gukora ikintu gishimishije kandi gitunguranye.
5. Bwira Manipulation "Oya!"
Manipulation ibikorwa bibi kubagabo. Emera, utange impano mugihe ubivuze mu buryo butaziguye, ntabwo ushimishije cyane.
Nyuma yamagambo "Niba unkunda, umira indabyo!" Umuntu wese arabura kwerekana urukundo rwabo kandi atanga ikintu. N'ubundi kandi, bizamera nk'ubujura, ntabwo ari icyifuzo cyateganijwe n'umutima.
Mu bihe nk'ibi, hari ibisubizo bibiri: bizagurira ibyo usaba, ariko ntabwo bizaba impano kumutima utanduye, ahubwo ni igipimo cyagahato. Imyitwarire yawe izahora ikora icyifuzo cyo kugukorera ikintu.
6. Erekana umunezero utaryarya impanoWige kwishimira impano ye nkumwana. Ireba abagabo. N'ubundi kandi, utitaye ku myaka, umukobwa muto ushaka gutangaza no gutoza ubuzima buri mukobwa / umugore. Wige, kubona impano, shyiramo ubwo bwana bwabana. Naho ku mwana ni ngombwa kuri wewe ntagomba kuba ikiguzi cyimpano, ahubwo ni ubumaji bwo gutungurwa namarangamutima ye, atuma. Kubwibyo, ntukihutire kubona impano, ukavuga ngo "Birahenze cyane!" Kandi rwose ntabwo "ubutaha numva mmpaye amafaranga, nanjye ubwanjye nzagura impano." Ntibareba amenyo yahawe n'ifarashi. Ntunyure mu mpano, kandi unezerwe ubikuye ku mutima kandi mubyara.
Ukunze gutanga impano zawe?
Mbere muri iki kinyamakuru, twanditse kandi: ni izihe nbanga zihishe mu kabati kuri buri kimenyetso cya zodiac.