Abana baturuka he nuburyo bwo gutsinda?
Imihangayiko idakira nigibazo cyababyeyi benshi. Ariko ubushakashatsi bwerekanye ko abana bahura niki kibazo kenshi nkabantu bakuru, cyane cyane mubihe bigoye, nkatwe.
Raporo y'Ikigo cy'ubushakashatsi bw'Abanyamerika gishinzwe ubuzima bw'abana kivuga ko imihangayiko idakira irimo abantu bagera ku 10 ku ijana by'abana bafite imyaka 3 kugeza kuri 17. Ibibazo byubuzima bijyanye no guhangayika bigaragazwa na 35% by'abana muri Amerika. Ibipimo byamenyesheje byiyongera mumyaka 10 ishize.
Impamvu zo guhangayika karande
Imwe mu mpamvu nyamukuru zitera imihangayiko idakira mubana ni ikirere cyumuryango. Muri icyo gihe, ababyeyi akenshi ntibasaba no kubona abana babo banyura mu bizamini bikomeye kuri psyche.
Indi mpamvu ni igikomere murungano, cyane cyane byanze bikunze. Niba mu gihe itumanaho rya interineti ridatewe imbere, abana bashoboraga kuruhuka mwishuri murugo, none ntabwo yigeze ahagarara. Umwana ahora ashikamye, kuva icyo ari cyo cyose umuntu ashobora kwandika igitekerezo kidashimishije kuri we mumiyoboro rusange cyangwa kohereza bibabaza meme nifoto ye.
Kongera umutwaro wo kwiga kandi biganisha ku isura yo guhangayika. Abanyeshuri niga ishuri bahura nibizamini, kugenzura, kwinjira muri kaminuza na kaminuza.
Imihangayiko idakira igaragaza kugabanuka kwibandaho, gusinzira, akabati kato, uhoraho, ubukana cyangwa kwigaragaza kumubiri, kubabara umutwe ndetse nububabare bwumutwe ndetse no kubabara umutwe ndetse no kubabara.
Nigute wafasha umwana wawe?
Niba imihangayiko mumwana yafashe imico ikomeye, birakwiye rero kubazwa na muganga. Gusa inzobere gusa zirashobora kwisuzumisha neza. Niba umwana, reka tuvuge ko bidahangayitse, no kwiheba, ntabwo tuzafasha inama, kuko iyo umuntu yihebye, umuntu yarenze kuri biokimike.
Ababyeyi barashobora gufasha umwana kwihanganira imihangayiko nto muburyo bworoshye. Reba kugirango unanire ibihagije kandi ugaburirwa. Mugabanye umwanya munini kumasomo ahuriweho kandi uzi neza ko ari ngombwa kuri wewe.
Sobanurira umwana uko wahangana no guhangayika. Niba umwana ari mato, noneho urashobora kumusomera ibitabo byabana kuriyi ngingo hanyuma ukaganira nawe uburyo bwo guhangana n'amarangamutima mabi, kurugero rwintwari zubuvanganzo. Mumufashe gutsimbataza ibintu bitesha umutwe.
Hanyuma, ntuzibagirwe kwerekana urukundo ukunda umwana wawe. Menyesha - uko bibaho byose, Mama na papa bazahora bashyigikiye.
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