Ubwoba - Inshuti yacu
Gutangira, ni ngombwa kumva ko ubwoba atari umwanzi, ahubwo ni umufasha. Murakoze, ikiremwamuntu cyabayeho kuri uyu munsi. Ubwoba buturinda, ntibemerera akaga.
Ikindi kintu - mugihe ubwoba buba impaka kandi ikabuza kubaho. Abana bafite ubwoba cyane kubera imitekerereze yabo yihuta.
Imyaka ubwobaImyaka yose ntigayoboka atari urukundo gusa, ahubwo ni ubwoba. Kandi buri myaka - iyayo.
Kugeza ku mwaka 1, umwana arashobora gutinya gukatizwa hanze: urumuri rwinshi, urusaku, ibikorwa bitunguranye, ingendo.
Abana bari munsi yimyaka 3 bateye ubwoba ababyeyi nimpinduka ityaye mubihe. Hashobora kandi kuba ubwoba bwo gusinzira, kuko inzozi mbi zitangira kurota muriki gihe.
Mu myaka 4-5, abana bakunze gutera ubwoba abantu bakuru - umubano wa nyirakuru, abapfumu babi nizindi myuka mibi, ishobora kubyara ubwicanyi nubwigunge.
Afite imyaka 7, umwana azamenya ubwoba bwurupfu - abantu bombi bafite kandi ba hafi. Kandi, hamwe no kwinjira mu ishuri, ubwoba bwo kutemerwa bugaragara, gutinya kutaba nka buri wese, kandi ubwoba bwishuri butandukanye - kuva byombi kugirango tugenzure bitinde.
Abangavu akenshi bafite ubwoba mbere y'ejo hazaza.
Niba ubwoba bugaragarira kenshi kandi ntabwo ari byinshi, ni ukuvuga, ntibibuza umwana kubaho no gukura, noneho ntakintu kigomba kumukorera. Urashobora kuvuga gusa ibihe bibabaje, ituze mugihe bikwiye.
Niba ubwoba buhangayikishijwe cyane numwana kandi bugira ingaruka kumibereho, noneho ababyeyi bagomba gutabara.
- Ibyiyumvo byo guta agaciro. Nubwo waba mwiza cyane icyateye ubwoba, ntuzamure kandi ntugahagarike umwana. "Nibyo, ni iki ukunda umukobwa! Nta mugore waga arahari! Binini cyane, kandi wemera imigani, "aya magambo ntiyakuraho umwana ubwoba, ariko azahabwa kumva ko ibyiyumvo bye n'amarangamutima ye atari ngombwa.
- Shyiramo imiti ihumura. Funga gutinya umwijima wumwana mucyumba cyijimye, tera umuntu utinya amazi, ubujyakuzimu ... uburyo nkubu birababaje birashoboka cyane ko bubabaje muburyo bwimitekerereze, amatiku yimigati no kubura shingiro icyizere ku isi.
- Vuga. Kenshi na kenshi kudashyira mu gaciro, bisa nkaho, ubwoba bufite impamvu zunzegingozi. Kuki mu buryo butunguranye, umwana yatangiye gutinya abagore ba Yaga, nubwo utasomye imigani kuri we? Birashoboka ko umuntu atinya. Shakisha niba nyirakuru cyangwa abarezi mu nkuru yincuke ivuga ko Baba Yaga akuramo abana babi.
- Kurema. Impamvu yo gutinya ntabwo buri gihe byoroshye kubyumva, ariko ndetse kurushaho. Ibi birashobora gufasha guhanga. Hariho icyerekezo cyose - kuvura ubuhanzi. Urashobora gukuramo ubwoba bwawe ukayitwika, urashobora kuyikuramo muto kandi udafite agaciro, kandi nawe ubwawe - ukomeye kandi ukomeye kandi ukomeye. Akenshi, uhereye kubishushanyo, urashobora kumenya ibyo umwana afite ubwoba nuburyo abona iyi si.
- Bwira umugani. Ubuvuzi-bufay ni kimwe nubuvuzi bwubuhanzi. Afasha gukuramo no kwireba no gutinya kwabo. Tanga umwana guhimba umugani kubimutera ubwoba, kandi kumugambi, gerageza guhangana n'ubwoba bwawe. Nibyiza muburyo butandukanye.
- Menyesha inzobere. Rimwe na rimwe, ntushobora kwihanganira ibyawe. Niba ntakintu gifasha, shakisha umwana mwiza wa psychologue kumwana. Azi uburyo bwumwuga, usibye, rimwe na rimwe byoroshye gufungura umuntu utamenyereye kuruta uwakuzi kandi akunda.
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