Kuki ukeneye papa?

Ibindi byinshi, byinshi kandi byinshi birakora, ndahuye n'iki kibazo nigisubizo "yego niza, tuzarenga."

Ibindi byinshi, byinshi kandi byinshi birakora, ndahuye n'iki kibazo nigisubizo "yego niza, tuzarenga." Biragaragara ko mama wagumye wenyine agomba kwirekura igitekerezo cy'uko umwana wabo atazaba afite umubyeyi wa kabiri. Byongeye kandi, iyo mama atekereza ko afite intege nke adafite umugabo kandi nkumugore, kandi nkumubyeyi, ubwo nuburyo bwo kwangiriza, kandi ntabwo aribagirira akamaro umwana. Byongeye kandi, umubare munini w'abana b'ibinyabuzima bo ubwabo barahagurutse badafite papa, cyangwa bahari gusa, ndetse banywa, bityo ntibahora batekereza neza icyo bashobora gukora.

Benshi abakiriya banjye, kandi ibyiza gusa umugabo bamenyereye, badatahura ingene bashobora kuba sekuruza ko bashobora gutanga, kuki bakeneye umwana n'impamvu bakeneye umwana. Ku kibazo impamvu ukeneye umwana nanditse byinshi kandi birambuye mu kinyamakuru cyumukobwa wanjye. Iyi ni ikiremwa gitangaje gisa nawe - kandi rwose, gihora gihinduka, gihora gishimishije, gikura, gikunda kandi cyishimisha kandi cyishimira urukundo rwawe n'ibyishimo, ni byiza cyane kandi bihenze.

Kuki akeneye se? Nzakubwira uko ibona hashingiwe kubyo nzi kubushakashatsi bwa psychotherapeutic. Nanone - kuva ku mwana.

Uburambe

Umwana aje mwisi yiga kuyituramo. Ntazi icyo abantu batandukanye nabagore, kuki bakeneye kwiga ibishimishije - inkuru cyangwa chimie, uburyo ugerageza kuririmba umunyeshuri mwigana, nkuko ukwiye gukina amakarita, nkuko ushobora gusubiza igitutsi. Kandi kandi ibintu bitagira akagero.

Mama, nyirakuru ni mwiza. Ariko ni abagore. Kandi bareba isi yumugore, nubwo ibyo bitekerezo bitandukanye cyane. Data atanga indi sura ku isi - Umugabo. Kandi avuga ku isi y'abagabo, kuko yateguwe ko ashimirwa ibifatwa nk'inyamanswa. Igishimishije, kandi ibitari byiza cyane. Kandi ibyo we, papa, bitandukanye nabandi bagabo, nibyo asa nkabo.

Nibyiza cyane kandi umuhungu, numukobwa. Ikintu cyoroshye nuko se wumuhungu ashobora kuvuga uburyo bwo gutsinda umukobwa, umukobwa - abantu bagomba gutinya. Mu bunararibonye bwanjye, se yahoraga asohoka byoroshye kandi ni ukuri kuruta mama.

Nibyo, kandi kumukobwa nibyingenzi kumenya ko ku isi hariho abantu beza bazita kumuryango wabo cyangwa umwana wabo. Kandi iyo abandi bagore bamubwiye "Yego, bose barahinduka, ntibakeneye abana kuri bose," azatongana. Kubera ko afite papa umukunda, akamwitaho, ntibigera bibabaza umugore wangiza umugore (niba atari imico itangaje igerageza kumugirira nabi cyangwa umuryango we). Kandi umuhungu azaba imbere y'amaso umuntu udatinya kurera abana kandi ntibabitekereza n'umutwaro. Kandi icy'ingenzi - bazagenda, bazi ibyerekeye isi yumugabo nibyo bitandukanye numugore.

Inyungu

Ntekereza ko shishikajwe n'umwana wanjye ikintu gikomeye kuruta urukundo. Kuberako ushobora gukunda umwana wawe kandi ntukamenye ikintu kijyanye nayo. "Urimo ukora iki?", "Kubera iki?", "Kuki imipira y'umuhondo irushaho kuba nziza kuruta icyatsi?", "Kuki intare yihishe munsi ya sofa? Kandi, urukwavu ni igihe kirekire? " - Isi yumwana yuzuyemo ibibazo, ivumburwa, ibikenewe namakuru. Bashobora gusa nkaho bakuze bidasanzwe, ariko niba koko yibaza - umwana azabakingura.

Kandi se arashobora kubwira umwana ibishimishije kuri we. Kandi umwana azamenya byinshi kuri yo kandi wenda kandi azahuze ubuzima bwe.

Ntabwo nkoresha ubushobozi bwo kwishyuza imbunda, amanota ya Carridges no kureba inzira yinzira mumashyamba ya shelegi. Ariko nakunze ubwana. Kandi na byinshi nkunda kujya ku ishyamba ryiza ritangaje urubura hamwe na papa, kumva inkuru ze kubyerekeye inyamaswa no gukandamira sosizi yumuriro cyangwa sosiso. Akamutwara ku kazi, muri garage yaka lisansi. Kuberako ari isi ya data aho akunda. Rero, birashimishije cyane.

Ahari guhiga muri sosiyete hamwe numukobwa wimyaka itandatu utazi gukora gusiganwa ku maguru ku mucanga ntazagira akamaro cyane mubijyanye n'umuhigo. Ariko kuba umukobwa wimyaka itandatu azakira kandi se ava mu guterana mwishyamba ubuzima, mbona bikwiye. Ikintu nyamukuru ntabwo ari ugutambura inkoni ukabireba bombi. Gukurura umuntu kurwanya ubushake bwe mu ishyamba muri cumi na batatu, ahitamo gukina, amaherezo, muri papa - birashobora kuba, ahubwo, gutsindwa.

Urukundo

Urukundo rwabagabo rutandukanye numugore. Birumvikana ko ibintu byose ari kugiti cyawe, ariko Data yangemereye. Rimwe na rimwe, yaranteye ubwoba, kubera ko imico yanjye y'ibyanga ari Shitani gusa, none ndi igihe kimwe, nk'umumarayika utuje. Ariko ubwana bwanjye bwose nari nzi ko papa ankunda neza icyo ndi cyo. Ntabwo ari kuri batanu ba mbere (nubwo barishimye cyane), ntabwo ari ukubera gufasha urugo (nahoraga ari andy kuri njye), ahubwo ni ukubera kunangira, kumureba bidasanzwe munzira n'ibitekerezo byanjye. Numvaga narushe uruhushya rwo kuba njye ubwanjye. N'ubumenyi nkuko ndi, nshobora kunkunda.

Nyirakuru na nyirasenge baramagana cyane. Rimwe na rimwe, mama yifatanije nabo. Bakunze kunsoma no kuvuga ku ngingo "umukobwa mwiza". Ariko nari nzi ko data yari afite ukuri.

Igihe yapfaga, nasanze mu gikapu cy'umufuka wa Brigadiye, yampaye, hakangurutse indege ntoya, yajugunye mama igihe yari mu bitaro. Yanditswe ahari ko ategereje na mama, kandi akadukunda cyane. Sinzigera nizera ko gukora ibintu nk'ibi ari intege nke. Iki nikimwe mubintu byagaciro kuri njye. Kuri njye, iyi mfuruka irahenze kuruta inzu, nafashije kugura ababyeyi banjye. Asobanura - papa yashakaga ko navukiye.

Umukobwa wanjye akiri muto, nzamwereka igisigo mboherereje se muri Sm muri Sms igihe nari mu bitaro by'ababyara, n'amashusho yashushanyijeho igihe ntwite. Azamenya - twaramutegereje hamwe. Twashakaga ko ari. Hamwe ninyuma yo kubaho kwisi byoroshye. Kandi byoroshye cyane kubabarira ababyeyi imyanda bakora nyuma. Kandi ntukore imyanda ntibashobora na gato.

Inkunga

Mama na papa ni abantu batandukanye. Babona ibintu bitandukanye hamwe no gutsinda butandukanye. Hariho ibibazo mama yahisemo nabi kuruta papa. Hariho ikintu kigaragara neza. Igihe nakura, nari nzi ko amafaranga, nk'urugero, ku gitabo, biroroshye kugaruka papa. Kuberako kuri mama usoma - ikintu nka shokora sandwiches. Kandi kuri Data, igitabo cyose nasomye ni ubwibone. Nari nzi ko mubyabaye mu rukundo, papa atantamagana, ariko yumvise abwira ibye. Byamfashije cyane.

Yahangayikishijwe no no kuri bo. Kumbwira mu icumbi kimwe cya kabiri cy'ibirimo amafaranga, naho igice - Amabanki afite amafi atukura, parcelle n'amafi arangira vuba, kandi sinshobora kugura ibicuruzwa biryoshye kandi byingirakamaro.

Kubaha

Iki nikindi kintu cyingenzi - ibi nukubaha umwana. Umubiri we. Igihe. Inyungu. Kuba ashima kandi akunda, kabone niyo byaba bitatanye no guhagarika idubu.

Data ni gake yaranshimishije. Ariko igihe yasingiraga, nari nzi ko mubyukuri. Yari azi ko hari ibintu ari ngombwa kuri njye, kandi bagerageza kutabatsemba. Igihe nasomaga ntinze, ntiyigeze ararahira, yari azi ko mu gitondo nsanzwe ahagarara ku ishuri. Yavugije atuje ko nambara kandi numva, kabone niyo yaba akunze cyane, ntabwo yajugunye imigati yanjye, ariko asaba kubikora. Kandi nakoze televiziyo ituje, niyo haba hari umupira wamaguru, niba nagize amasomo mucyumba cyanjye maze amusaba kugabanya ingano. Kandi nta gake cyane yarenze ku masezerano.

Ndashimira se, nzi ko hariho abagabo bashishikajwe numugore uzi ubwenge bafite isura isanzwe kuruta ubwiza-bwamavuta. Abagabo batazigera bakusanya umugore. Ninde udahindura umugore wabo, kuko bokubaha n'urukundo. Ni amagambo nkaya. Hariho abagabo bakunda kandi bazi uburyo batagomba guteka gusa, ahubwo banaze ibiryo hanyuma bakajya guhaha ibicuruzwa. "N'ubundi kandi, bararemereye, kandi nyoko ntashobora kwihanganira kuzamuka." No gukanda imyenda y'imbere, kuko kubwibi ukeneye imbaraga z'umubiri.

Muri icyo gihe, ntabwo yari umuntu wamuritse ku isi. Ntabwo yari afite igitonyanga cy'amafaranga. Yarangije amasomo umunani, amasomo ya mason n'amasomo ya shoferi. Yakoreye mu gisirikare. Ubuzima bwanjye bwose bwakoraga nkumushoferi, kandi kuva kera - kumurongo utoroshye. Natwaye imiyoboro, ntwara "umunara", yabaye muri Benzi. Yanditse afite amakosa y'ikibonezamvugo cyane kandi atabonetse cyane nkaba ba se mu mujyi wacu. Nari nambaraga ishati ya chennel na jeans, kandi ntiyitayeho rwose kubyo bari amabara. Ibi byitwa "umukozi woroshye". Yaravumbuye kandi azunguza hysteria buri gihe, yashoboraga kwiheba. Yari afite inenge nyinshi no gutera imbere rwose se, ndetse no mu bwana bugoye cyane, aho atari akenewe cyane cyane. Kandi rimwe na rimwe byari bigoye kuri njye, ariko nari nzi ahantu himbitse mu bugingo, ndetse no mu bihe bigoye ko yankunze.

Kandi nayoboye ingero z'umubano dufitanye na we kugira ngo tubisobanuke: irashobora guhindura abantu bose ku mwana we. Ibi ntabwo byoroshye, ariko birashoboka. Tugomba gushaka gusa.