Nibura rimwe mubuzima, twese tugwa mubihe tudashobora kwihanganira mu bwigenge: turarwaye, turakomereka, turakubitwa, turagwa, hasigaye, hasigaye, hasigaye, hasigaye, hasigaye, hasigaye, hasigaye, hasigaye mu bihe bigoye utabifashijwemo. Tugomba kwishingikiriza rwose kumuntu utamenyereye, ndetse numubare udasanzwe. Birumvikana ko iyi ari ingaruka nini. Ariko muri ibi bihe, ntugomba guhitamo.
Kandi, kwiringira uyu muntu, nubwo kububabare no gusohokana, gerageza kureba ibikorwa bye, byibuze bigenzurwa muburyo bubaho.
Ni izihe ngaruka zo kwizerana cyane?1. Umuntu wemeye kudufasha kubihindura mubitekerezo byabanjirije. Azi ko abantu hafi ya bose baguye mubihe bitoroshye, noneho bazagerageza gushimira no kubitabira bike. Kandi unyizere, ingano yo gushimira izarushagaho kuba kinini!
Dore urugero rwubuzima. Umukobwa ukiri muto yamanutse mumuhanda, ntabwo yitondera kuba yaratsinze abanyamagare. Umwe muri bo, yiruka ku kayira, yambuye igikapu cye mu biganza bye. Byari pasiporo, umubare utari muto, gusimbuka kukazi, izindi nyandiko zimwe. Passsogue yashoboye kumufata no guhitamo "umuhigo". Kubwibyo "ibikorwa bya nyakubahwa" yasabye umukobwa amafaranga inshuro eshatu ikiguzi cy'amafuka yacyo. Birumvikana ko yatanze. (Ahari "umuhisi mwiza" hamwe numushimusi wakoze muri couple.)
2. Ingingo yatangiye mubihe irashobora guteza akaga abakoze ibyaha bambere. Mu muganga w'indwara zo mu mutwe, hari ingero iyo umuririmbyi yamaze abashakanye bakiri bato, bagenda mu muhanda (ku nkombe z'ishyamba (ku nkombe y'ishyamba, muri parike) hanyuma baratongana. Yakoze ishusho yababajwe no gusuzugura umukecuru umukobwa, arazamuka aramukubita, hanyuma akamukubita umukobwa, akangura, ati.
3. Umuntu ashaka abikuye ku mutima kugufasha. Ariko ntabwo ifite amahirwe nkaya, ubuhanga, imbaraga z'umubiri n'ubwenge. Birashoboka ko yashidikanywaho, yashakaga gusa nkaho ari imbere yawe kuruta ukoko bimeze. Birumvikana ko ubufasha bwe bwambere butazana inyungu, ahubwo bikomeretsa.
4. Wemeye gufasha kubera ububi bwo kwangwa. Ariko mubyukuri, ntakintu kizakora (ntibazi uko, badashaka, ntamwanya). Kandi urateganya kandi wizere ...
5. Uwavuze ati: "Azafasha kandi akiza", mubyukuri umwanzi wawe, ishyari kandi arapfa. Ari hano hano mugihe ikintu kidashimishije kiba hamwe nawe, usanga uri mumwanya usekeje, usekeje, nibindi unyizere, kandi ibyabaye bizashobora kumenya ifoto yawe yose .
Nibyiza, niba ubuzima bwawe bufata imiterere kugirango ubashe kwishingikiriza kubandi bantu: ababyeyi bawe, abavandimwe bawe, abo mwigana na bagenzi bawe, abakunzi ba compades. Niba ubizeye muri bo. Cyangwa ikindi gisohoka ntabwo aricyo. Ariko niba hari amahirwe make, hariho imbaraga, umutungo, ubushake - ni ngombwa kwishingikiriza wenyine. Cyane mubibazo byingenzi.
Ibyiringiro ni kwibeshya, mirage mu butayu, kugirango iriba ari hafi cyane. Igihe baririmbaga mu bihe bikomeye: "Ubuzima bwose buri imbere, Nadya agategereza." Byendagusetsa, sibyo? Ariko birakwiye kwiringira umuntu, bihindura inshingano mubuzima bwawe kubitugu byabandi? Nubwo umuntu akugiriye neza - ntabwo ari wenyine, nkaho rimwe na rimwe atabishaka.
Urashobora kwiringira Imana, imbabazi zayo zitagira imipaka, ariko mugihe kimwe mubyukuri ibikorwa - ushize amanga kandi byanze bikunze. Gusa Nadezhda, atizeye muri we no mu bufasha bw'Imana n'uburyo - ubu ni intege nke nyinshi. Kwizera gukiza kwiheba, gitanga imbaraga, gifasha kwirinda ubwoba bafite umuntu warenze.
Witondere abantu bagufashe kubusa, kubuntu bwubugingo bwawe. Hano hari bike.
Umwanditsi - Oksana Yorwadyevna Filatova
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