Nyuma yo gutangaza ingingo nyinshi mu itangazamakuru ry'ubumenyi n'ubukungu ku kuzigama kwa pansiyo, ikibanza c'abanegura. Abantu barakajeganje kandi ntibumva impamvu bacukura amafaranga bakayikoraho. Benshi bavuze ko bashidikanya ko bazabaho kubera ubusaza bukomeye, abandi bavuzi bujuriye bashoboraga kubeshya no kugendana nibintu byose. Icyakora, urwitwazo rusanzwe ntirwo gitinye ku bana, baravuga bati: Banagaburira kandi bagashyigikira ababyeyi babo ubusa.
Muri iki kiganiro, nzakubwira impamvu ibitekerezo nkibi ari ibinyoma n'impamvu utagomba kwiringira abana bacu.
1. Impamvu nyamukuru ntishoboka kwigirira icyizere mubuzima bwamafaranga bwumwana.
Ababyeyi bose bemeza ko umwana wabo azatunga rwose kandi aratsinda. Nibyiza, niba aribyo, ariko imibare yerekana ko intsinzi yubukungu yababyeyi idahuye ninsanganyamatsiko yubukungu bwabana babo. Byinshi akenshi ibinyuranye: Ababyeyi bakora mubyuya umuntu, kandi abana bafite ubusa kandi batwike ubuzima. Kumyaka hamwe nu muti wakomye utigeze umenya shingiro ryamafaranga. Biragaragara ko umwana nkuyu azaba ashingiye ubuzima bwose kandi ntazigera adufasha.
2. Umwana wawe azagira abana babo.
Umwana azashobora gufasha ababyeyi gusa niba adafite abana bwite. Mubyukuri, ababyeyi b'ikiruhuko cy'izabukuru bakunze guhura nigihe cy'abuzukuru. Ikigaragara ni uko urubyiruko rwa none rukemuwe rwo kubyara imyaka 30-40). Biragaragara ko igihe cya pansiyo gihuye nigihe cyo kugaragara kwabuzukuru. Hamwe niki kibazo, umusore azashora imari bashya mu bagore babo, kandi atari mu babyeyi bageze mu zabukuru, ntabwo rero bikwiye kubifashwa na bo.
3. Umwana arashobora guhura ningorane zo kubona akazi cyangwa wenyine.
Isi irahinduka vuba kuburyo abantu badafite umwanya wo kwiyubaka. Kuganira n'abantu benshi, Nabonye ko abantu bakuru (akenshi bafite imyaka 40) ntibashobora guhitamo guhitamo umwuga no gushaka guhamagarwa igihe kirekire. Kuganira cyane imyanya yo gutangira, bidashoboka gukura cyangwa gukunda umwuga wishyuwe hasi bizagabanuka kuri zeru bishoboka gufasha ababyeyi.
4. Umwana arashobora guhagarikwa.
Kubera imikorere mibi, amahirwe yo kuba afite ubumuga kandi, kubwibyo, kugura bikomeye byinjira byiyongera cyane. Ntabwo nifuza kubimenya, ariko urwego rwubuvuzi bwu Burusiya buracyafite hasi, kandi inkuru ziva mucyiciro "nimugoroba naryamaga kuryama, kandi sinabyutse mu gitondo." Ngomba kubyuka mu gitondo. "Ngomba kubyuka kenshi. Muri rusange hamwe no kwanga ubwishingizi bw'ubuzima, uku kuri no kubaho neza bishobora guca igihe icyo ari cyo cyose, wongeye kuvuga ku bijyanye no kubara wenyine.
5. Urashobora kwangiza umubano numwana.
Kubera ko abantu bose bafite imico itandukanye, bizeye kumva 100% kubana babo. Buri gihe ni ngombwa kwemerera bishoboka ko watongana nabana bawe kandi bazanga gutanga inkunga y'amafaranga nyuma yibyo. Byongeye kandi, abana bakunda kwegeranya inzika kuva bakivuka, hanyuma igihe kinini cyo kubibuka.
Ibisohoka.
Bikwiye kumvikana ko abana atari ubucuruzi, ntabwo ari umutungo kandi ntatangira. Mbere ya byose, abana bakomeje gukomeza ubwoko, bakeneye physiogisiologique, igikoresho cyo kubaka umunezero utaryarya. Kugira ngo utuze kubera imyaka yawe ashaje na pansiyo, birakenewe gukora portfolio mubikoresho bitandukanye byamafaranga, kuzigama numutungo. Ishoramari ribifitiye ububasha rizafasha kwigirira icyizere mu bwiza, risukuye no kunguka ku nyungu ya portfolio, bivuze ko ari byiza kumva mu kiruhuko cy'izabukuru.
Niba kubwimpamvu runaka udashobora cyangwa utazi gukoranya icyifuzo nkicyo, ndasaba byihutirwa gutangira kwiga gusoma no kwandika no gusoma no kwandika hamwe no kungurana ibitekerezo. Kubikorwa byose ukeneye igihe, uburambe nubumenyi, nuko utangira kugirango ugabanye imari, vuba utangira gusubika ikiruhuko cyiza, ibyiza bizakubera.