Mfite ingaruka ku buryo bukaba ubu hari amasomo atandukanye ku ngingo "Uburyo bwo Gumana Umugabo", "Nigute ushobora gusubiza umugabo", "Nigute ushobora kurenganurwa rimwe n'iteka ryose" kandi ku buryo bwo gukurura no gufata ibitekerezo by'abagabo .
Ariko ni bangahe inkuru nkizo zari zifite inkuru nkizo, zisa nkubwenge nubwiza kandi bitegura ubukonje kandi bwiteguye ubushakashatsi bwose, kandi umugabo aracyava ahandi.
Natsinze kandi ntekereza uko bimeze ?! Kandi ni ukubera iki atarahagije? Mugihe ntatinyutse.
Abagabo barashobora gutegura neza, gukaraba no gusukura. Kugeza igihe bikora umugore, ntibakeneye gukora ibi. Nubwo waba uzi neza ko umugabo wawe atazi uko amashyiga afungura, uribeshya cyane. Azabyumva vuba ibi niba bikabikeneye gitunguranye! Iyo rero umugore atekereza ko atazabaho atabaye umunsi we, aribeshye cyane. Ariko ndetse ikomeye, yibeshye mugihe itangiye Apox. Ko atamufite ntazashobora kubindi. Hano kuva abo bagabo biruka kandi iteka ryose.
Nari mfite inshuti umugabo wanjye yagiye. Yatekereje kandi ko adashoboye ikintu na kimwe. Nuburyo yahise ahita nakazi gasanga neza kandi yiga kwitegura, kandi yinjije byinshi. Muri rusange, watsinze mubipimo byose. Kandi ntamuciraho iteka. Twibwire ubwacu, ni byiza kubana numugabo wakubwira buri munsi: "Yego, uri utari kumwe!". Ako kanya, ndashaka guhaguruka, kugenda no kwerekana ikindi nka "Ninde"!
Ariko umugore ushobora gutera inkunga umugabo ntazigera agenda. Azakora byose nubwo byose kuri we. Kubwibyo, niba udashaka ko umugabo wawe agenda, wige kutamutuka kuburyo adashobora, ariko akamutera imbaraga kugirango ashobore gukora byose! Kandi unyizere, arashobora byose kandi agukorere kandi kubwawe!
Hano hari ubuzima bumwe:
- Vuga guceceka kandi huje urukundo, nyamuneka umenye neza kuruta gusuzugurwa nibisabwa.
- Ntabwo bishoboka muri nyirarume ukuze ushobora guhindura ikintu. Biroroshye kubona undi mugabo.
- Kubwimpamvu runaka, mpura cyane no kuba umugore ahora ategereje ibikorwa kumugabo, kandi ntacyo akora. Ndabizeza ko mwa bagabo, kandi, urukundo!
- Wubahe kwihesha agaciro. Niba adafite ukuri, umwibwire kugiti cyawe, iyo uri wenyine.
- Niba ubibonye nkikintu kiri munsi ya plint, none kuki uri kumwe na gato ubutaha? Ndetse kubyerekeye urukundo hano ntanubwo muganira. Birashoboka cyane. Kandi nta rukundo? Ntabwo bishoboka ko ushobora kubyungukira kubintu runaka.
- Niba kuri wewe iRoning yishati ye ninshingano zidashimishije, ntabwo ari igikorwa cyimpungenge, nibyiza kutabikora neza.
Ibintu by'agaciro mugihe cyacu mkumva urukundo kandi mutabitayeho muri rusange birema ibitangaza. Niba utangiye kumwitaho, azatangira gukora ikintu kimwe kandi uzongera gusubiza iyi migati-imigati, ashobora kuba yararangiye. Kandi ubwanjye ntekereza ko atagomba kunyura, kandi urukundo no kwitaho bagomba guhora bahari. Kandi hano 50% yinshingano ziri ku mugore! Nibyiza, 50 usigaye azatora umugabo wawe.
Tekereza, ntabwo yatanze indabyo igihe kirekire. Kandi hano urababajwe mugihe cyo gutotezwa ubutaha: "Yego, ntabwo wampaye amabara imyaka ijana." Ntazatanga. Hamagara. Niba kandi unyuze mu ndabyo timo kwishongora: "Ni ayahe maroza meza, nkunda ..." Vuba cyane bouquet yakunzwe azaba afite kumeza. Ahari uru ni urugero rwabakiriro gusa, ariko rukora byose. Nibura aya mayeri ntabwo yigeze ananirwa!
Isoko