Kenshi cyane, ababyeyi bamenya batinze kandi ko umwana wabo afite ibibazo mwishuri kandi ibintu byinjiye mu mpera zapfuye. Ariko birakwiye ko tumurinda kwita kubana kugirango bumve akaga keza. Amagambo amwe hamwe nibisubizo bisa nibibazo bitagira ingaruka kubijyanye nayo. Nyamuneka menya - niba umwana wawe abisubiza, birakwiye gutekereza.
"Ntabwo mbatayeho"
Abana hafi ya bose bafite akazi kegereye cyangwa kwishimisha - bamwe bakunda kubyina, abandi - Parlor, uwakatanu yemeranya nisaha imwe, kandi iya kane ikina abarasa. Kandi gitunguranye umwana atera byose, atakaza inyungu, wenda akaryama gusa, areba igisenge, ndetse ntabwo ajya gutembera. Cyangwa, kubinyuranye, amara igihe cyose kugirango ibitabo kandi ntarabona umwanya numukoro.
Ubu ni ubuhamya buryo busobanutse kugirango bugire ikibazo mukwiga, ariko umunyeshuri wishuri ntashaka cyangwa atinya kwemera ababyeyi. Bikwiye kuvana gutuza umwana kuvugisha ukuri no kumufasha guca mubihe bidashimishije.
"Uyu munsi nanongeye kubajije!"
Nk'itegeko, "kureka kubaza" ku ngingo runaka (Icyongereza, Algebra n'abandi). Birakwiye kubaza imibare yibisobanuro muri ubu buryo, kugeza icyo kujya mwishuri (ubu birashoboka kwiga kumurongo). Hanyuma ugasanga hamwe nukuntu umwana wo gukemura ikibazo - birashobora kuba ibyiciro byinyongera hamwe numurezi cyangwa umurimo wigenga."Sinshaka kurya ikintu"
Witondere kwanga ifunguro rya nimugoroba cyangwa ibiryo bikundwa birakenewe kubwimpamvu idafitanye isano no kwiga, ahubwo yavutse kwishuri. Kenshi na kenshi mubihe nkibi: Niba umuntu asenze hejuru yishusho, yitwa "Tolstoy" - kandi dore ikibazo cyiteguye! Bimwe muribi ntabwo atera ibyago, ariko akenshi abakobwa bo mubyangavu birababaza kubitekerezo nkibi.
Mama agomba kuvugana numukobwa, wenda no kwemeranya nimpinduka mumirire kandi muburyo bumwe bwo gushiraho ishusho - urugero, andika kubyina cyangwa kwikunda. Ibi bizongera ikizere.
"Ntabwo nshobora gusinzira"
Niba umunyeshuri yishuri adasimbuye, mugitondo hari ibibazo byo kubyuka, yarumiwe kandi ararakara, birashobora kuba ikimenyetso cyibibazo byishuri bishobora kuganisha ku mibonano mpuzabitsina. Nk'uburyo, ibyo bibazo birakomeye - amakimbirane n'abarimu, urungano kugeza kuri blullia. Niba umunyeshuri yishuri adashaka gusangira ibanga rye nababyeyi be, birakenewe guhuza imitekerereze yishuri tubitrons.
"Nta nshuti mfite, nta muntu unkeneye"
Kubura inshuti z'ishuri nimpamvu yo gutekereza cyane, ahari umwana atemerwa mumatsinda. Iki kibazo ntikizakemurwa wigenga - ni ngombwa gukorana na mwarimu wishuri hamwe na psychologue yishuri. Inzobere izabwira inzira yo gushiraho umubano, kandi mwarimu azagufasha.Ni iki ababyeyi bawe bagomba kwitondera?
Birakwiye kandi kwitondera igihe umwana udashaka guhaguruka ngo kujya ku ishuri. Niba muri iki gihe hari ibibazo byumuryango cyangwa ukunzwe, birashobora kubangamira kwibanda ku kwiga kandi ukunda.
Mugihe cyo gukemura ikibazo, ababyeyi ntibashobora kumanywa iterabwoba no gutukwa. Umwana agomba kumva ko abantu ba hafi baramwumva kandi bashaka gufasha.