Nkomoka kuri bariya bagore bavuga ngo: "Ibyiza kubyara umwana umwe hanyuma tukayitanga byose." Nahoraga nizera ko nzagira umukobwa, njye kandi nzagutanga byimazeyo. Dutanga inyigisho nziza, gura inzu, imodoka, tuzamwereka isi. Ndetse n'izina ryazanye ryiza, rya cyami - Carolina. Birashoboka, nashinyaguriwe niyi gahunda.
Umugabo, nukuvuga, ibinyuranye nibura nabana babiri. Ariko byari urukundo cyane, rwemeje impaka zanjye. Tuzatanga wenyine wenyine no kuri - hano ni, ubutumwa bwiza bw'ababyeyi.
Umuhungu? Umuhungu ameze ate?
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Igishimishije: Mama yibarutse impanga zitandukanye kandi ntibishoboka kubyizera. Itandukaniro ryingenzi ntabwo rifite mumaso, ahubwo ni mukura
Ku ultrasound, nasimbutse. Izina ryumukobwa ryavumbuwe, igice cyibintu bimaze kugurwa - byose byijimye rwose, ukambwira ko hazaba umuhungu? Mocion nubwoko runaka!
Ariko nta kintu na kimwe, cyeguriwe. Umuhungu yavukiye icyarimwe cute kandi hari ukuntu ituje, mubyukuri ntiyigeze irira, ntabwo yababajwe n'ibice. Muri ibi hanyuma ukomere umuzi wibintu byose, birashoboka. Naryamye, ndeba, kureba neza. Kugenda nasohotse nka podium. Hamwe n'umwana mwiza mwiza wemera byoroshye kwicara nyirabukwe. Jye n'umugabo wanjye twabonye ku matariki, muri sinema, genda.
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Kugendana na stroller, numvise inkuru z'abandi babyeyi badasinziriye nijoro kandi barwana n'indwara zitandukanye.
- Urashobora kwita ku mwana? - Nabajije, twizeye muburyo bwanjye. Watsinze kwanjye ntabwo ari ugutaka. Amenyo ntitwabonye na gato. Noneho sinigeze nkeka ko abana bose batandukanye.
Kandi yongera gutwita
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Ku nshuro ya kabiri, natwite igihe umuhungu wanjye yari afite amezi arindwi. Ntabwo nambajije ko bibaho. Nakuriye muri 90, mugihe cyo kutamenya gusoma no kwandika no kwera byizera ko mbikiga, bivuze ko narinzwe. Biragaragara ko icyiza kidashobora kuba umuyobozi. Kubwibyo, navuze umuganga wimukamake:
- Ntibishobora!
Yamwenyuye mu muganga w'umugore ati: "Birashoboka,". - Kandi ijambo rimaze amezi 2.5.
Ndetse nishimiye, nubwo nahoze ari imyumvire y'ubuzima. Iyo imisemburo ijugunywe, hari ukuntu bitajyanye n'amahame.
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Soma kandi: Mu Burusiya, 2021 azishyura inyungu za buri kwezi kubagore batwite
Inda hamwe numwana witeguye mumaboko ni firime itandukanye. Umuhungu ni muto cyane, akeneye kwitabwaho, kandi mfite ikirenge, noneho amaboko yawe n'ubwonko. Afite icyo gihe, ntiyashoboraga kumva impamvu Mama yatangiye kwitwara cyane - mbere yibyo, na we yakoze ibisabwa. Ntibishoboka kandi kugaburira ibere, natangiye guhindura buhoro buhoro amata, kubabaza umutimanama n'imibabaro.
Umwaka wa mbere ufite inyuguti
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Izina Carolina riracyafite akamaro mu murima - umukobwa yavutse. Hano nize umunezero wose wububyeyi. Umuto ashobora gukanguka gutontoma no kureba kuri oblique. Ikintu kibi cyane nuko uyu waraba wahise ufata imfura mu mubyukuri akomeye hafi umwaka nigice.
Umukobwa wamanitse ku gituza ku manywa, kimwe na Piranha. Nyirabukwe amaze guhagararira, mu gihe mu gihe kigeze, yihisha. Nyuma yibyo, yahishuwe nabibibazo byihutirwa, byagaragaye neza: mugihe ntagurira muri aba bakozi bombi, sinzagenda umunsi. Bakoresheje hamwe uko bashoboye. Byaragaragaye nabi. SHANES YIHUZE KANDI YAMAROZA KUBISHE.
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Ikintu gitangaje cyane nuko twembi turi imiryango aho ikirere cyavukiye. Mfite itandukaniro na murumuna wanjye 1.6, kandi umugabo wanjye afite imyaka 12 na mushiki we. Nkurikije ibyo nibuka, mama yahanganye n'ibiryo bibiri byoroshye, mukinisha. Nazanye ababyeyi bivuye ku mutima kandi cyane ko impamyabumenyi ishobora kwandika ku nsanganyamatsiko ya tewolojiya - uburyo itegeko rya gatanu ari ngombwa.
Kuki atari byo?
Kuva impande zose, nabwiwe ikintu kimwe:
- Ihangane, noneho biroroshe. Mu mwaka wa bato, bazakina hamwe, kandi urashobora kuruhuka.
Ibitekerezo byanjye bidahwitse byashushanyijemo ishusho nziza: Ndabanje kunywa icyayi gishyushye mumyaka yashize, yicaye ku ntebe, hamwe nabana nkunda bakina cubes.
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Mubyukuri - umukobwa akimara gukomera kumubiri, yatangiye guhita asubira murumuna we. Kandi yamaze kubona mubuzima - guhatirwa gusangira ibikinisho bye, ibintu n'ababyeyi hamwe na mushiki wawe muto. Nubwo yamukundaga cyane kandi agerageza kwihanganira gutotezwa byose, yabuze igihe kirekire. Natinyaga no guhinduka.
Mu musarani, nakuruye haba ku buryo bahoraga bagenzurwa. Byasaga naho ari kumwe na njye niba narangaye gusa n'inuma, kuguruka hirya no hino mu idirishya, abana banjye bari kwicana.
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Ndabaza: Ni bangahe bashobora kubyara umugore mubuzima
Bakubise kubera buri kintu gito. Iyo abashyitsi batugeraho, nahamagaye mbere kandi ndasenga rwose, cyangwa ntuguze abana, cyangwa ngo uhitemo ikintu kimwe. Nibyo, reka bibe barbie ebyiri! Bisa! Kugira ngo umunsi utasubiyemo umunsi umuhungu n'umukobwa uhangayikishijwe n'amaraso hejuru y'umupira, wahawe umwe, ariko byatwaye byombi.
Kureka kuba maso, abana rimwe na rimwe bari beza - bakina hamwe, bahobera, bagaragaza gukora ku mutima. Ariko sinabona umwanya wo gusiga amarira yo kwisiga, imirwano yatangiye.
Algorithms
Nyuma yigihe gito, jye n'umugabo wanjye twateje imbere algorithmm kugirango tubeho nikirere. Oya, twabakundaga cyane, bishimiye ko babaye ababyeyi n'umuhungu, nabakobwa. Ndetse hari ukuntu wibagiwe gahunda yabo yambere - Kugarukira kumwana umwe. Ariko kugirango tuboroshe gato, kandi abana ni bato kuruta amakimbirane, twazanye gahunda yacu.
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Reba kandi: "Nanga ikibuga cy'ibibuga!": Amateka ya Mama umwe
Kenshi gusangira ikirere cyawe. Byasa neza - ukeneye imyidagaduro ihoraho. Kuri twe, gutandukana byabaye ingirakamaro. Nubwo twabatwara mubyumba bitandukanye, ingaruka zari. Umwe yatangiye kubura isegonda na nyuma yo guhura kwishimye, nta nubwo batonganaga igihe runaka.
Igihe cyawe bwite na buri mwana. Twasobanuye iminsi yarumiwe umwe gusa mubana. Kurugero, mu maso hamwe n'umukobwa wanjye, umuhungu ntadukoraho, dukora ibyo ashaka. Biratangaje, ariko buri gihe batangiye gusaba kuzimya icya kabiri muriki gihe hanyuma bakajya hamwe kugirango bagende cyangwa muri firime.
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Amabanga - Hano hari amabanga. Niba umuntu wo mu bana asangiye nyirasenge - tet hamwe n'amabanga n'ubunararibonye, bizakomeza kuba hagati yacu. Nta biganiro bisanzwe kumeza yumuryango.
Ntabwo tubatanga. Shira shokora - urashobora kurya kimwe kandi rwose. Ariko rero ntukeneye gutangazwa nuko ntamuntu ugusangira nawe. By the way, nyuma yibihe bibiri, byazimiye hamwe nihuta hari ibiryo byishimye.Amategeko yinzu yaremwe kubantu bose. Ntabwo dukubita umuntu. Imyaka yambere yari igoye kuringaniza abana ko batagomba kurwana. Ariko mugihe, biracyashoboye gutuma bakemura ibibazo mumahoro.
Nyuma yimyaka mike havutse isano hagati yabo
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Igihe kimwe nasanze ari inyuma yikaramu. Noneho umuhungu we ubwe yicaranye na mushiki we asuzuguritse kuri plastine. Batangiye gukina hamwe, hafi nta mirwano.
Nibutse kuri murumuna wanjye. Natwe turatongana kandi turwana. Gusa nashimye kuba mfite umuvandimwe muri rusange. Umugabo hamwe na mushiki we na we yatangiye kuba inshuti gusa.
Biragaragara ko ikirere kigomba kurenga iki gihe aho bahanganye, hanyuma amaherezo, bakura mu itegeko rimwe. Nyamuneka nibareke bakore inzira.
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Rimwe na rimwe urwenya n'inshuti magara zibuka ibyiciro byanjye bijyanye numubare wabana mumuryango.
"Kandi rero ndashobora guha umwana wanjye ibintu byose," Nshinzwe amayeri. - harimo mushiki wawe.