Ati: "Niba umwangavu ageze ku myaka y'ubukure kandi yiyandikishije mu nzu aho atari nyirayo, aracyashobora gukomeza gukoresha amazu y'ababyeyi. Muri icyo gihe, abonekera nshingano yo kwishyura inyubako zo guturamo y'amazi n'amashanyarazi. Uburenganzira bwo gusaba igice cyangwa bwagaragazaga amazu atandukanye muri uru rubanza, nta nyandiko isobanura. "
Ariko, ukurikije umunyamategeko, niba bigaragaye ko umusore azava mu rugo rwa se, ati: "Azahaguruka igihe kirekire" (urugero, gukora cyangwa kwiga undi mujyi), hanyuma ababyeyi ba nyirubwite barashobora kwambura Uwiteka uburenganzira bwo gukoresha amazu yabo no kugaruka bizagorana.
"Iyo umwana ageze ku myaka y'ubukure, kimwe n'abandi bakodeshaga. Bisaba umwanya muto kandi byoroshye gushyira mubikorwa niba umwana atari nyiri umugabane. Ukuboza mu nzu y'imyaka 18 bibaho ku buryo bukurikira: Ubwa mbere ugomba kugerageza kuganira mu mahoro. Ntabwo yafashije? Dutangira gukusanya ahantu (ibimenyetso) gukuramo. Nyuma y'ibirego, turashyira mubikorwa ibimenyetso kandi twese tuboherereje mu rukiko. Umuyobozi wa Anthur Mehushev, Anthur Merthushev, Umuyobozi w'ishami rishinzwe gusesengura Durfo.ru.
Impamvu yo gusohora nazo gusuzumwa kandi ko umubano wo mu muryango hagati y'umwana n'ababyeyi udahari, inyandiko z'impuguke. Ibi birashoboka niba:
Umwana ntabwo akora urugo hamwe n'ababyeyi;
Ntabwo itanga umusanzu mu ngengo y'imari y'umuryango;
Nta nkunga;
Ntabwo ibaho kandi ntabwo yishyura amafaranga yingirakamaro (ariko ntabwo ari urufatiro, ahubwo ni impamvu yinyongera yo gukuramo).
Ikindi kibazo nuko umwana ukuze ari umwe muri ba nyirubwite. Muri uru rubanza, kugirango akureho atabanje kubiherwa uruhushya n'aho ntibishoboka, nubwo icumbi ryayo mu nzu ritemewe. Niba ukomeje kuba warashoboye "kwandika" umusore, biracyashobora kugira ingaruka kuri nyirubwite.
Umuturage mukuru arashobora kugurisha umugabane we. Ariko kubwibi ugomba kubanza gutanga kugirango uyigure abandi ba nyir'igindi, ni ukuvuga ababyeyi.
Ati: "Ni ikindi kintu amafaranga yakuwe mu mugabane ntashobora kuba ahagije kugura ibibanza bitandukanye kandi umusore agomba kubona umuntu mukuru wo gukemura ibibazo by'imiturire. Urugero, kwinjiza, gufata inguzanyo cyangwa kwigarurira ababyeyi bawe, "Ingingo ya Marina Panteleeva.
