Igihe nagiye ku ishuri, amateraniro y'ababyeyi niyo nzira yonyine yo kugeza amakuru akenewe kubabyeyi, kuko nta nteruro, kandi terefone ntiyari bose. Ahubwo imbere yuburyo bugezweho bwo gutumanaho, crut mu ntumwa, ndetse no kubuza ibanga ryo kuvuga amazina yihariye y'abanyeshuri, inama z'ababyeyi zahindutse kunyeganyega kwa kahise.
Guhera ku kigo cy'interaniro, buri gihe nagiye mu nama y'ababyeyi, mbitekereza n'inshingano ye bwite. Noneho ntakiganiro nimbuga rusange nibibazo byinshi byasabye ko habaho kuboneka. Imyaka 3 irashize, igihe Umwana yari mu cyiciro cya 8, naretse kugenderaho no kwicuza kuba ntabikoze mbere. Ndashaka gusangira nabasomyi ba ADME.ru, kuki twakiriye ibyemezo nkibyahindutse kuva icyo gihe. Kwangiza: Nta na kimwe, usibye ko imitsi yarushijeho gukomera kandi igihe kinini kiragaragara.
"Abakobwa bamwe basa n'agasuzuguro, kandi bamwe mu bahungu bahora barya ifunguro rya sasita"
Usanzwe muri zeru, abarimu batera imbere biburinze ibitekerezo ku giti cye, kandi kuva 2006, iyo amategeko "ku makuru yihariye" yemejwe, inzira yafashe imico nini. Noneho mama wa mama arashobora kujya mu materaniro mu bwisanzure, udafashe ibitekerezo byabandi babyeyi. Muri icyo gihe, amateraniro yatakaje ibisobanuro nyamukuru. N'ubundi kandi, ababyeyi bafite ingenzi kuruta uko batsinze Tchad zabo bwite, kandi ntabwo ari imikorere yishuri muri rusange. Rero, birashoboka kwiga kubyerekeye imyitwarire cyangwa isuzuma ryumwana wawe ubu mugihe cyihariye na mwarimu cyangwa ubwoko runaka bwibiranga bitaziguye.
Igihe umuhungu wanjye yari mu cyiciro cya 8, umwarimu, atigeze ahamagara amazina, yavuze ko abakobwa bamwe bari bambaye neza kandi batera imyenda, kandi bamwe mubahungu bahora barya sasita yabandi. Iyo minota 15 Mwarimu n'ababyeyi b'abakobwa bamenye ko, nk'uko ubuyobozi bwabakobwa bubitangaza, hari amaso, Mama na Papa n'abapadiri bareba muri terefone. Iminota 15 iri imbere, mugihe abajura ba efanser bavuzwe gusangira bavuzwe, ababyeyi b'abakobwa babuze.
"Abana bawe ntibazandika akazi ko kugenzura"
Amagambo "Wowe mubyiciro bibi" ntabwo utera ubwoba abana mubyumbangendo, ahubwo nababyeyi mumateraniro. Umwarimu umwe yahoraga aduhumetsa, ababyeyi: abana bawe ntibazandika imirimo yo kugenzura, ntizitanga ibizamini, ntibishyurwa, ntibazahabwa, abantu bose bandika byose, barandika. Ariko iyishyiraho mwarimu ni ugutera ubwoba, ndetse ikomeye cyane - kuki itazimira ahantu hose. Tekereza ukuntu Rupture Rupture yaba ibaye ku babyeyi, mu gihe gitunguranye, mu nama, umuntu wo mu barimu yagize ati: "Yego, urashobora kuruhuka, ufite abana beza, bazabigeraho."
"Ababyeyi bahise bagongana abashakanye, umuntu umwe azarambika amaso kandi azagwa, undi agomba kubifata"
Umwigisha wa mbere wumuhungu wanjye yari muri byose umudamu wubwenge ufite ubwenge afite ubuzima bukora. Yamaze iteraniro ryuzuye, kandi mbere ya saa cyenda, ntidushobora gutandukana. Usibye inzego, Natalia Ivanovna yazamuye ibibazo by'ingenzi bya Pedagoge. Kurugero, umuhungu umwe yamubwiye ko amazu ye yatutswe kuri batatu ba mbere. Hafi ya kabiri mu isaha natalia ivanovna asoma ikiganiro impamvu bidashoboka kubikora, - hamwe ningero ziva mubuzima, ibyifuzo byubuzima, ibyifuzo bya psychologue. Nibyiza, ariko kuki ntabitse umwana kubera Noleika, nyuma yumunsi wakazi ugomba kumva iki nyigisho, aho kujya murugo, aho kujya mu rugo kandi witondere uyu mwana wawe? Rimwe na rimwe, Natalia Ivanovna ntiyagarukiye gusa ku nyigisho. Igihe kimwe yasabye ababyeyi bose gusohoka muri koridor no guhanuka abashakanye. Ibindi umwe mubafatanyabikorwa bagombaga gufunga amaso hanyuma bagatangira gusubira inyuma, undi akeneye kubitora. Twakoreye rero ku cyizere mu ikipe y'ababyeyi. Nibyo, mammy imwe ntiyafashwe. Ibintu byinshi byari bikiri mu myaka 4 y'amashuri abanza: Twashushanyije inyuma, twarumije amababi amwe kandi twandikira amabaruwa ubwabo dufite imyaka y'abana bacu. Ahari ibyo byose byaba bishimishije cyane, ariko mubindi bihe, hamwe nabandi bantu kandi kubwibyo.
Amateraniro kumunsi umwe: Ishuri riraryoshye, ntabwo ari ababyeyi nyine
Rimwe mu ntangiriro ku mpeshyi natinze iyo nama. Imodoka yagombaga gushyiramo metero 300 kuva ku ishuri. Mugihe yiruka mu mwijima ku nkombe ya Snowdrift, yaguye mu buryo runaka, yakubise amaguru. Kandi byose kuko "kugirango byorohe byubukwe" ishuri ryahisemo gukora inama mubyiciro byose kumunsi umwe, ubu imodoka z'ababyeyi bose b'ishuri zigarurira umuhanda wose. Byongeye kandi, mu miryango imwe n'imwe harimo n'abanyeshuri 2-3, kandi mama gusa yigendeye mu itorero, ku mubiri ntashobora kumena amasomo 3. Muri rusange, iki cyemezo cyo kugaragariza isura ya se mu nama ntiruyongera neza.
"Kandi nanone mbwira usubirane?"
Igihe nari najyaga mu itorero, igihe cyacyo cyakundaga kongera ababyeyi ba Petrosyan, ndetse no kutagira ingaruka cyangwa ibikorwa bya Mama na Papa. Bimwe nibibazo bimwe muruziga 101 ("Ongera mbwire, selile zingahe zo gusubira inyuma?"), Urwenya rudakwiye na "ibyifuzo byingenzi" mu Nteko yose. Niba kandi mubiganiro ushobora kwihutisha kandi bidafite akamaro, hanyuma muri iyo nama, ugirire neza, wicare wumve.
"Bite amabara adafite amabara? Nibyiza, wahimbye! "
Igihe umuhungu wanjye yahinduye ishuri rishya, hari imyaka myinshi ibibazo byose byakemuye "umuco" w'ababyeyi bakora. Ni amafaranga angahe yo gukoresha ku mpano z'umwaka mushya, uburyo bwo gukora ibikorwa bidasanzwe, n'ibindi. Barakemuye, batora amateraniro imyanzuro yiteguye. Igihe nigeze guhumekwa nurugero ruva kuri interineti, rwatanzwe aho kugura indabyo ku ya 1 Nzeri kugira ngo nkoreshe amafaranga mu rukundo, narasetse. Nabonye ko uburyohe bwanjye butemeranya nibyo "gutegeka hejuru", yaba guhitamo ibiruhuko bikomeye, imitako yishuri cyangwa imyambarire yimyambarire. Muri icyo gihe, simbyitayeho ibyo byose, ni ngombwa gutegura impinduramatwara no guhirika Komite y'ababyeyi.
"Ishuri ntishaka kwiga! Umuganga w'imibare yinubira abana "
Kuki uko ibintu bimeze mugihe abarimu binubira ababyeyi batacumbitsemo hamwe nabasosiji, ariko ku ishuri ryose, babaye ibisanzwe mumyaka yashize. Nubwo, kuza mu nama no kuvuga: "Abana bawe ntibasohoza umukoro," mwarimu ashushanyije mu bushobozi bwayo, kuko abandi barimu nta kibazo nk'ibyo. Hari ukuntu mu nama mu cyiciro cya 6, umwarimu mushya w'imibare akingura umuryango w'ishuri maze agira ati: "Abana bawe ntibashaka kwiga na gato, nta muntu wanditseho." Ababyeyi bose barimo kurakara, ariko baraceceka, kandi hano Papa umwe yitombiye atuje ati: "Icyo gukora icyo gukora ni uguhindura abarimu." Umwigisha asa nkaho yamwumvise, ariko ndamwemera rwose. Sinumva impamvu kuri njye, mubyeyi, bisaba gusohoza mwarimu bakora, kandi sinshaka kumarana igihe, no kumva icyo, bihinduka abana bacu bose.
Kumyaka 11 nakoreshaga iminsi 5 yubuzima bwawe kumateraniro yishuri
Igihe umuhungu yari mu cyiciro cya 8, inama y'ababyeyi yabaye mu ntangiriro z'umwaka w'amashuri. Yaganiriye ku mugaragaro y'ishuri rizaza (Ndashaka kongera "ubusa"). Igikoni cyacu, ukurikije ibisanzwe, byakurura ishuri ribangikanye. Umwaka mbere yibyo, papa umwe kuva 8 "B" 8, igisirikare, yazanye ibiryo byishuri kuri stade yishuri kandi asudimura Pilaf, ibyo byari bikenewe. Twebwe uyumwaka tugomba gutakaza izuru "bashchki". Mugihe ababyeyi bakora cyane baganiriye, uburyo bwo gutegura pizzeria igendanwa kuri stade yishuri, nagerageje kubara igihe nkoresha umwanya wamaranye muri ibi bintu byiza muburyo bwose. Byaragaragaye amasaha agera kuri 12 hamwe numuhanda mubyerekezo byombi. Ni ukuvuga, mumyaka 11 nakoresha amasaha 132 yubuzima bwanjye ntibisobanutse neza. Kandi nahisemo: Byose birahagije.
"Kandi niba ababyeyi bose bahagaritse kujya mu nama?"
Inama itaha, yitangiye kwizihiza umwaka mushya, nahisemo kutagenda. Isuzuma ndabizi kandi, ntakibazo cyumwana wanjye, niba ukeneye gusinya ikintu - cyoherezwa hamwe numwana, amakuru yingenzi azandikwa mubiganiro byababyeyi. Kubura kwanjye, bisa nkaho ntawe wabibonye. Muri rusange ntabwo mubyukuri - kimwe cya kabiri cyababyeyi baza buri gihe. Umwaka urangiye, umwarimu w'ishuri yari yanduye: "Kuki utari wowe muri iyo nama? Ntiwarwara? " Ndabisubiza ibyo oya, simbona gusa. Kandi yangirika ku gisige kubera. "Kandi niba ababyeyi bose bahagaritse kujya mu nama?" - yabajije mwarimu. Navuze nti: "Birashoboka rero ko uzahagarika kundeba." Nyuma y'icyumweru nahamagariwe umuyobozi. Umugore udasobanutse w'Abasoviyer watangiye gusobanura ko iyi ari inshingano zanjye z'ababyeyi kandi, niba nanze kubikora, ishuri rizahatirwa kubimenyesha. Iterabwoba ryari ubusa - nta tegeko riteganya ababyeyi kwitabira inama. Kubwibyo, ntihashobora kubaho ibihano byo kwanga. Nasobanuye nabi umuyobozi, impamvu ntaje ku itorero.
Muri iyi myaka 3, nabonye ko ikirere cyo mu muryango cyahindutse umutuzo mwinshi. Mbere, ndumiwe rwazanye igice cyurugo rubi kandi rimwe na rimwe natangiraga KERESY, "Anna Mikhailovna ati:" Kandi Svetlana Nikolaevna yinubira ko muri terefone hari amasomo, n'ibindi. " Nibyo, kandi muri rusange, ukomoka mu iteraniro rimaze kuba: hamwe na benshi ntabwo nemeranya, hari ikintu kibara cyane, ariko ntushobora kwicara no gutekereza ko nahagaritse inshuti ninshuti . Noneho iyi mpagarara zasohotse mubuzima bwacu. Amakuru yose yingenzi numuyobozi ukonje ajugunya mubiganiro byababyeyi. Niba nkeneye kuvugana numwarimu runaka - njya ku ishuri. Amafaranga ndasobanura kurikarita. Kuri icyo gihe cyose, ntabwo nigeze numva ko nkumbuye ikintu cyingenzi. Muri icyo gihe, twakagombye kwitonderwa, ntabwo nanze kuvugana nabandi babyeyi na gato. Jye n'umugabo wanjye dusuye ibitaramo kandi "kwinezeza bitangira", ku kazi ku mashuri, tujya mu ngendo nziza. Amateraniro y'ababyeyi, ndizera, ararimbutse kandi mugihe cya vuba hazashira na gato, cyangwa ngo ajye kumurongo kumurongo.