Umubeshyi w'indwara Ingingo izafasha guhangana nubwoko bwa psychologiya kubantu nkabo neza.
Impamvu nyamukuru zitera ibinyoma:
- Gutinya igihano (kandi abanyabinyoma patologiya burigihe bafite ikintu cyo gutinya, kuko ubuzima bwabo ari urukurikirane rwibitekerezo!). Baryamye mu rukiko, muri Polisi, abatangabuhamya batabishaka ibikorwa byabo bidatuye. Kandi akenshi bifasha "gusohoka mu mazi." Abantu b'ubwoko buri gihe bakora bayobowe na moteri y'imbere, ntabwo ari ibintu byo hanze.
- Kwihorera (inzira yo gukuraho umwanzi, kubivuga): Gusebanya akenshi byumvikana kumunwa wabo.
- Inyungu (ubukungu n'imibereho). Inyungu zawe kuri bo ziri hejuru ya byose.
- Ibyiyumvo byumuntu ku giti cye binyuze mu kurema ishusho yibinyoma (ibuka ibyo amashusho yaremye kandi kuri Kisos VorobyAninov Ostap Bender).
- Kuzigama amabanga. Kumenyekanisha amayobera bibangamiye igihano, agasuzuguro gashya, "igihombo cyo mu maso".
- Ikinyoma "Ku nyungu" - Umubyeyi ntabwo yiteguye gufata ukuri, guhura "imbonankubone." Ariko abanyabinyoma ba patologiya ntibakora bababarirwa, ahubwo ni amahirwe yo gukoresha undi muntu kubwimpamvu zabo.
Umubeshyi wa patologiya ubanza birasa nkaho bishimishije, byubwenge, ubucukuzi bwamabuye. Umuntu wabo wukuri afungura umwanya gusa, hanyuma itumanaho ryumuntu rirambuye.
Umubeshyi wo gukunda patlogiya burigihe:
- Kuryama ufite intego yihariye, ntabwo "kubwubuhanzi", amayeri na pragmatic;
- Inkuru zimpimbano zishobora kwihanganira amakuru mashya ntarangiza, nibabonaga ko abumva "arimbuka";
- Akenshi nabo ubwabo bizera ibintu byose byaje (byemejwe bitavuga kubwibishaka, hafi bikorwa);
- Bararakaye kandi batoboye iyo bakekwaho uburiganya;
- Ntuzigere uhinduka kandi ntukumve nabi.
Imyitwarire nkiyi yumuntu iterwa nibintu bitandukanye hamwe nibidukikije, ariko ibi byateganijwe kuri buririhariye.
Mu mpamvu zisanzwe:
- Kwerekana cyangwa imiterere yimiterere yimiterere.
- Impinduka za sileptique mumico.
- Inzoga n'ibiyobyabwenge.
- Ingaruka z'imvune za cran akiri muto.
- Inyigisho mumuryango, aho ikinyoma gifatwa nkiburyo busanzwe bwo kwirwanaho.
- Kwiyubaha gake, ariko hariho hypercoftpensirwa.
Niba ukeka ko ubeshya buri gihe, nyamuneka menya neza:
1. Inkuru za Liaz ntizitangaje rwose. Umuntu udafite inzu yihariye kandi akorana numutwaro mububiko buvuga uburyo Gwyneth Palt yabaye, kandi yananiwe kwanga ... cyangwa agisanzwe ava muri Dema ya Leta ya Duma, hanyuma ahita akwirakwiza neza Yishyuye abakene "...
2. Hariho icyifuzo cyo gukurura ibitekerezo. Umuvandimwe yakuwe mu ruhu, agerageza kwerekana umwihariko we.
3. Aho kumenya ubushobozi bwe cyangwa kuvugisha ukuri, bagiye mu bikorwa, abantu nk'abo batwara ubuntu, gusa ngo barebe "Intwari z'uwo munsi."
4. Kwerekana uwahohotewe. Kugira ngo asubize impuhwe no gushyigikira abandi, yinubira ibyago. Indwara ziteye ubwoba, urupfu rw'abakunzi, ibyago bivugwa ko yababaye, "ariko aratoroka."
5. Ijambo ryanyuma rigomba kuba inyuma yaryo. Hangijwe n'umubeshyi wo gukundana - Ntabwo nitaye kubyo wakubita umutwe kurukuta. Bizatanga ibitekerezo bisekeje kugeza igihe uzarambirwa. Ariko burigihe biva mubiganiro byatsinze.
6. Azi uburyo bwo gukuraho umutwe. Niba umubeshyi yumva ko "hafi gutsindwa," ako kanya atanga agahinda kandi ahindura ibisobanuro byavuzwe. Mufate "ku rurimi" ntacyo rumaze: Ahita azatangaza ko woherejwe cyangwa utabyumva.
7. Ubuzima bwe buratangaje kandi bwuzuye ibyago. Ahinduranya, bishoboka, kugerageza gusa nkinyangamugayo, ariko igihe kigeze, urwego rwabateze amatwi bubi bararyoshye. Kandi ntawundi ushaka kwishingikiriza.
Ibisohoka umwe - reka kuvugana no kwambuka umubeshyi wa patologiya mubuzima bwawe. Ntazaba atandukanye.
Uyu munsi tugenda mu nyanja y'ibinyoma, aho ibirwa by'ukuri bikabitswe mu buryo bw'igitangaza, bidukiza. Ntugwize ikinyoma, uhagarare ukuri kw'ingano, wishyireho umucyo w'ibyiza n'abantu. Reka kuba amahirwe yawe - Vugana ukuri.
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