Abantu babwira annecdote kubyerekeye umuhungu Lovoch, mubisanzwe ntibatekereza na gato kubyo ukunda kurera umwana nkuyu.
Nigute - guhora urinda, mumukurikire buri segonda buri segonda yawe, utinya kuruhuka no gutwikira amaso yawe? Ndabizi. Ndi nyina w'ababyeyi. Umwana wanjye ni ikimenyetso cyimiterere izwi cyane yurwenya, Runior kuva "mwana ukomeye", Kevin kuva "inzu imwe". Bose gusa ni ibihimbano, kandi nasha yanjye nukuri.
Kuva kuri marayika kugirango ahane
Soma kandi: igikinisho cy'umwana, gifite akaga gutakaza: inkuru ya myomiya imwe
Mu ntangiriro, nta kintu na kimwe cyashushanyaga ko umwana nk'uwo yakura natwe. Kuva mu bitaro by'abasarure, nazanye crumb cumb, wahise yorora imisaya kandi yabonye ukuguru kw'amaguru n'amaguru. Umuryango wose n'inshuti bari hafi gupfa - umwana nkaho yavuye kurupapuro rwikinyamakuru. Iyo ntaribabariye muri cocktal ya hormonal, nari kwibuka ko cnema y'isi yahise atuburira: niko uruhiro rusa na marayika, niko bishimishije hamwe na we azabaho.
Sasha yakuze hypervillery. Yinjiye mu mezi 5, ajya ku ya 8 hano sinfite amahoro kuva icyo gihe. Igihe gito kirangira - umunwa we urafunzwe. Umuhungu igihe cyose ikintu ntiwigeze gitekereza.
Mu mizo ya mbere, ntabwo twitaye cyane kuri antics ye Hooligan - gukura. Ariko ku cyiciro cy'urutare, yahinduye ibintu byose mu nzu. Iyo nagiye, nahise mbona ko ntahantu hatagerwaho. Hararuha kugera. Ariko umwana wamayeri arashobora gukemura ibibazo bisekeje mumasegonda. Ntabwo byari bishimishije kwicara kurubuga, ntabwo yashishikajwe n'ibikinisho bye. Uyu mwana yimukiye wenyine yiruka, aguye mu rukuta, kudashyira imigereka ndahunga. Mu gitondo, nk'imyitozo yoroshye, byashobokaga guhindura icyumba cyose no gutanga ibihingwa byo mu nzu biva mu nkono.
Ariko, izi yari indabyo. Inturi zagaragaye icyarimwe hamwe no gusabana.
Uburyo Twahagaritse guhamagara
Tumaze kuza gusura kandi, mugihe nari mfite isabune yintoki, Sasha yasutse ibikubiye mu iduka ryinjangwe mu gasanduku ka Crook, yagenewe ibintu byukwezi kumwe.
Ndabaza: Inama 3 zituruka mumitekerereze, uburyo bwo gucunga ibitekerezo byumwana muto
Mu nzu y'inshuti, yakuyeho ibikoresho byambere byubufasha bihishe maze asuka icupa rya Greenki, imbwa yubwoko bwa karungu hamwe na tapi yera yuzuye mucyumba cyo kubaho.
Kera rimwe, yashakaga mu musarani n'aho kumbwira, abona icyuma mu cyumba cyo kuraramo kandi cyandika aho. Muri tank aho amazi yasutswe ngo anywe. Ndetse byari kuva mu biganza bye, ariko umukunzi wanjye yahisemo gutesha agaciro ibinure kumeza y'ibirori. Impumuro irwanya Ammonia yamenetse mucyumba.
- ibyo ni ibiki? - Uwagororotse yaratangaye.
- Kandi uyu ni njye! - Gondo ati Sasha.
Ibindi ntabwo twahamagariwe aho.
Abandi ba nyirubwite nabo bari bafite imbwa ikwirakwizwa. Umuhungu wacu yazamuye abamarayika, kandi bose hamwe, bakinnye cyane inyamaswa mubimenyetso bidafite ishingiro. Byaranze icyitegererezo kizima cya Avant-Garde. Ba nyir'ubwite kubwimpamvu runaka ntabwo bishimiye.
Umuntu uturutse mu banditsi ba kijyambere besetse ko umwana we yandikiye pisine n'imipira muri Ikea. Sasha rero, nta kintu na kimwe ku buryo nk'iki gitekerezo cyiza ntabwo kibizi, cyishimye cyaragaragaye. Ukuri ntabwo ari mu iduka, ariko mumyidagaduro y'abana mu gihe cyo kwizihiza isabukuru y'umusabukuru wa Mwana w'inshuti. Muri pisine n'imipira muri ako kanya, abana icumi bari bicaye.
Nashakaga kugwa mu isi
Ariko byari bibi igihe yarebaga animiamona muyindi minsi mikuru kandi asobanure cyane ibintu byose byagaragaye. Byumvikanye gutya:- Mama, kuki nyirasenge nta ipantaro? Nta mafaranga afite? Reka tumuhe amafaranga ku ipantaro! Cyangwa umuhe ibyawe, ufite byinshi!
Nagerageje kugwa mu isi, ariko nticyagenze neza. Ibyiyumvo byanjye byagabanije bitandukanye umukinnyi waje mu biruhuko nta mujyi w'imbere.
Ubutaha Sasha Tikhonechko yafunguye impano zose z'umukobwa muto w'amavuko kandi muri bamwe muri bo bashyira amazu yasutse mu nkono.
- Impano zirashimishije kubona impano. "
Ku mavuko y'abana, twaduhagaritse gutumira.
Ishema N'isoni rya Witargarden
Reba kandi: "Tuzagira ikirere! Nshobora kurya, kandi nawe ubwawe? " - Ukuntu Mama yashakaga umwe, akabona bibiri
Mwigisha yaramfashije muri diplomasicran ati: "Urabona." - Sasha ni umuhungu wubwenge cyane. Ahanini ari imbere y'abandi bana. Ariko, nkaho softer kuyishyira, ibitekerezo bye ... Ntabwo tuzi icyo azaza mubitekerezo bye. Gusa yicaye kandi ashushanya muri alubumu, hanyuma nyuma ya kabiri asanzwe ashushanya urukuta. Kandi vugana na nyogokuru, uwabivuze-Umugore wa Obstetrician-Umugore. Reka bikene ubwire abuzukuru kubyerekeye akazi ke. Hanyuma asaba ko akina "kubyara" ababwira ibisobanuro byose muriki gikorwa. Abandi babyeyi ntibishimye cyane.
Mubisanzwe njya mu ishuri ry'incuke kandi mfate cyane umwana wanjye. Bitabaye ibyo, asimbuka mu gisumba cyangwa ahita yirukana ibuye mumodoka yegereye. Nzi neza uko umunsi wapfuye, ndabaza icyo yayoboraga igihe yabwiraga itsinda aho abana bakuwe muri. SASHA asobanura ko we ubwe atazi igitekerezo kiza kuri we. Ariko iyo aje, ntatekereza igihe kirekire. Ako kanya amoko.
Gusinzira nyuma ya sasita birarambiranye, nuko ashima inyuguti kurukuta mbere yumusasu. Ibiryo muri GROPERGARTN ntabwo biryoshye, ariko birashimishije kuyikinisha. Hanyuma utere mubaturanyi - kandi birashimishije.
Guta hit munsi yuruzitiro mugihe urugendo rwa SASHA narwo rushimangira ko rugenda. Mankid burimunsi icyumweru cyose. Ndetse yasohoza guhunga, niba atari maso yuhira, wabonye akabibwira abarinzi indwara yubusitani.
Ariko ibishushanyo bya sasha burigihe byerekana ibyiza. Isohoza imirimo yose. Kuri Matines no kuririmba, n'imbyino, hanyuma usome ibisigo.
Umwarimu yemeye ko ati: "Rimwe na rimwe nshaka ko uyimurira mu bundi busitani," wanze umwana. - Ariko ni umugwaneza kandi afite impano. Abana nkabo bibuka imyaka nyuma yo kurekurwa.
Sasha - iterabwoba ku mutungo
Mu myaka yambere yubuzima bwe, Sasha yamennye munzu byose kugirango bishoboka. Imitsi yanjye yarakomeretse cyane.
- Birakenewe, mbega umwana uremereye! - Yakozwe na bakuru bombi. - Nta na kimwe cyacu cyaba ari cyo!
Ntibashakaga rwose kumujyana ngo bamusure. Nagerageje inshuro ebyiri, ariko urubanza rwasojwe na antidepressints no gusana. Kuva icyo gihe, twahisemo ko bazakunda kure.
Ku isabukuru, umuhungu we yamuhaye ibikinisho gusa. Bose yasebye imyenda ntoya mugihe gito abashyitsi bicaye kumeza. Umuntu wese hari ukuntu yarakaye, kandi nishimiye byimazeyo. Umwana yari ahugiye mu gice cyisaha kandi abantu bose bashoboraga kurya. Ndetse njye nanjye! Ibiruhuko byiza byagaragaye.
Na Sasha, ntibishoboka kurangara n'ibiryo byawe n'isuku yawe. Njye, ndetse no mu bugingo, ubusanzwe nkora kandi ndamusaba kumpa ijwi. Kandi icyayi gishyushye cyanyweye bwa nyuma hashize igihe kinini. Niba ibinyobwa, hanyuma bikonje gusa - ntuzigere umenya iyo umuntu ayinyerera kumeza.
Igihe kimwe, igihe umuhungu yari akiri muto, nagize akanya ko gutumira umukobwa bakundana. Igihe namusangaga, yakoresheje porcelain idasanzwe yerekana porcite nk'inkono, nakuye muri nyogokuru kandi nkomeza ibihe bidasanzwe. Birashoboka ko Saasha yahisemo ko ari isaha yinyenyeri.
Umuhungu wawe afite ubuzima bwiza rwose.
"Umwana wa hyperactive" avuga ku muhungu wacu bose bamenyereye.
- Ahari mubyukuri ni ikintu kibi kuri we? - Natekereje.
Na Sasha bayoboye abaganga. Hanyuma hanyuma kuri psychologue. Hanyuma rero kubantu bose ba psychotherapiste. Byaragaragaye ko uhereye kubuvuzi bwo kubona umuhungu wacu ari muzima rwose. Abahanga mu by'imitekerereze nabo ntibabonye gutandukana. Ariko ubusa, yatangiye gutanga inama umugezi, ubuvuzi bwubuhanzi, Talentherapy ... Twagiye ahantu hose, nakunze umwana ahantu hose. Ntiyakumva atuje.
- Gusa yazamutse cyane, ati: "Umuntu uva mu bahagarariye umuryango w'umuryango wateguye" gusuzuma ".
Nababajwe cyane. Nakoze byose kugirango mvuge ko SASHA, nkuko ukeneye kwitwara. Niba atekereza kumunota umwe, ndetse yitwaye neza. Ikibazo nuko atekereza kubitekerezo bye gake cyane. Ariko abigaragambyaga ako kanya.
Igihe kimwe namusomye Igitabo cya Astrid Lindgren kubyerekeye umuhungu umwe Mumuke Mumudugudu wa Lenneberg. Igihe yakoraga ikintu, yoherejwe ku giti cy'ibiti, ahagarika abagabo basekeje kuva ku giti. Nahisemo gufata ibintu. Natangiye gutera Sasha gushushanya nyuma ya buri skoda.Ububiko bufite ibishushanyo mu gice cyumwaka byuzuye inzu yacu. Natangiye gufotora sistpies no gukora nabo ibitabo. Umwaka umwe, bari bahuze amasaha menshi. Kandi Sasha yajyanywe mu ishuri ry'ubuhanzi nta suzuma. Muri iryo tsinda, ni we wenyine w'iki gihe.
Kumwana wese uteye ubwoba, kandi kuri njye - umuntu wahinduye ubuzima bwanjye
Rimwe na rimwe, ndababajwe cyane nuko umuhungu wanjye ameze. Ntabwo yishimiye gusurwa no ku kibuga. Na nyirakuru bagerageza kuguma kure. Kandi abanebwe gusa ntibagaragaje kwisuzumisha bikomeye. Kuri bose, ni ikibazo. Kandi turi ababyeyi bababaye yiki kibazo nyine.
Gusa sinkeka ko ubuzima nta mwana wanjye. Ibyo aribyo. Sasha ni icyemezo gikomeye, gishize, gifite ubwenge n'umurimo. Ntakintu kidashoboka kuri we. Akora buri segonda yose mubuzima bwe. Ababyeyi batuje kandi badashyidikanyi ntibashoboraga kubona uyu muhungu. Ariko hano ni byose byacu.Kubwibyo, birateye isoni iyo umuntu ashyize diaxnose wumuhungu wanjye yimuka. Yavukiye mu muryango wacu, kandi amureba neza.