Byagenda bite se niba umwana yateguye akazu k'ububiko: Uburyo bwo kuyirinda

Ni kangahe ushobora guhura

: Umwana aryamye hasi mu iduka ryiwe, akomanga ibirenge kandi akusakuza mu muhogo, kandi mama yakuyeho amaso kandi agerageza gukuramo umwana mu cyumba. Ariko ni iki cyo gukora abana bafite abana bahora bareka ibikinisho, kandi niba batabonye ubushake, tegura ibyihuta?

Ibisanzwe

Ni kangahe wasezeranije kutazafata uruhinja ruto mu iduka, ariko ntuzamutererana murugo mugihe ukeneye kugirango ugure ikintu? Kandi dore umugambi umwe.

1. Muje jya mu iduka, unyure ku bubiko hamwe n'ibikinisho bafite ibyiringiro ko umuhungu cyangwa umukobwa batazabona ibikinisho byiza, nkaho yashyize ahagaragara kugirango abana batangira kubashyiraho.
2. Umwana atangira kugukurura ukuboko ku bikinisho: "Gura imashini yandika, neza, neza, BuyiiIIIIIIII!"
3. Utangiye kwanga: "Ntabwo nshobora kugura imashini yandika, mfite amafaranga make. N'icyumweru gishize naguze ibikinisho byinshi, ntibishoboka kubigura igihe cyose. "
4. Kroku asuka amarira, avuza induru, arashobora kugwa hasi agakomeza hysteria yabo.
5. Ku mukino wanyuma, ukurura umwana wavuzaguriza kugirango usohoke, uramutakaze cyangwa ugure ibyo ashaka.
6. Umwana asobanukirwa vuba ko bashobora kugera induru n'amarira, kandi ubutaha bifashishwa kimwe.

Reba nanone: Ijoro ryijoro mumwana: Niki gishobora gutera nuburyo bwo gutuza umwana

Nigute ababyeyi bawe bagomba kwitwara?

Niba urambiwe hysteries zitagira iherezo ryumwana mububiko, ugomba gufata ingamba. Ni ikihe cyemezo Mama ugezweho ashobora gufata?

1. Sinzigera nfata umwana mu iduka. Nibyiza kuguma nta mata numugati ugereranije nigihe cyose ufite isoni. Cyangwa ubutaha tujya kuri hypermarket, ahari abana umukino. Mwana (umukobwa) azakina aho, kandi nzakomeza gukora ibyo byashoboye byose nta marira na hysterics.
2. Reka gutaka, kuryama hasi, uko ashaka. Nta bareba, nta gitekerezo. Vuba aha azarambirwa, azazamuka ajyane aho asohoka.
3. Ndasezeranye kugura igikinisho ashaka iyo mfite amafaranga. Kandi gusa niba hari imyitwarire myiza.
4. Nzabaza nyogokuru cyangwa nyirasenge kujyana numwana wo guhaha. Ahari nanjye gusa nakwitwara gutya?
5. Hamwe nabanyamahanga sinzatuka, ariko murugo nzategura "parsing yindege".
6. Nzajya mububiko gusa numugabo wanjye. Munsi yacyo, umuhungu (umukobwa) ntazakomeza kwitwara muri ubu buryo.
7. Nzatanga gukina umukino aho umwana azambera, nanjye ndi. Mugihe umwana azahitamo amata na sosiso, nzategura ibikinisho hafi. Nibikunde kuriwe, uko bimeze nkubuza umuntu utavuza.
8. Murugo, gukina na cashier igikinisho, reka tugerageze kubyara icyitegererezo cyuburyo bwabaguzi, hanyuma bigakora imyanzuro uburyo bwo kwitwara neza ahantu rusange.

Dukemura ibibazo

Abana, mubyukuri, barabyumva kandi bakamenya ibirenze ibyo dusa nkibyo. Batuzi, ababyeyi, kubaruta twe ubwacu, kugirango twongere aho dusa nabo byoroshye. Kandi rimwe na rimwe birasa nkaho utarera abana, kandi bakora uburere bwawe. Tekereza rero kuri buri kibazo, kimwe nicyo icyemezo cyawe gishobora kuvamo kubijyanye na hysteria yabana.

1. Ntibishoboka kubaho udafite ibicuruzwa, kandi bigomba kugurwa mububiko. Nibyo, urashobora gutumiza kubyara, ariko ntabwo buri gihe aribwo buryo bwiza bwo kuzuza firigo. Kandi, ntabwo ari muri hypermarket hariho icyumba cyimikino, kandi ntabwo ari ukuri umwana wawe azashaka kuguma aho. Mama utakaje umukara ati: "Sinzongera kujya mu iduka, ntirizi ko imvugo nk'iyi ivugwa mu kanya h'amarangamutima mabi. Birashoboka cyane ko Mama afite isoni, gutabara, uburakari muriki gihe umwana agendera hasi agakubita muri hysterics. Iyo mama atangiye kwibuka ibyabereye mububiko, ndetse birabura cyane kandi gusubiramo gusubiramo ibintu nkibi. Umwana kurwego rwinyamanswa yumva ko ababyeyi batinya ikintu, kandi ibi birakomeza kwiyongera kukibazo. Mugihe ushobora guhangana n'ubwoba bwawe, urashobora guhindura imyitwarire yumwana.
2. Bamwe mu baganga b'abanyarwandakazi b'abana baragira inama yo kutita ku gutaka kw'abana mu iduka. Ariko uzumva umeze ute mugihe unyuze kubantu bazatangira gukurura umwana cyangwa mumbabarire? Ibyo ari byo byose hazabaho abareba bazakurura imyitwarire idahagije yo kumenagura. Kandi arabikeneye.
3. Impaka hamwe numwana ni ikibazo cyo gutakaza nkana. Imyitwarire myiza ntigomba kuba imiterere umwana azakira igikinisho cyifuzwa. Ababyeyi bamwe mbere y'ibiruhuko, urugero, umwaka mushya, batangira gukoresha abana bati: "Niba utumva, Santa Claus ntazakuzanira impano." Ariko ni bibi, kuko umwana agomba kubona impano ye kubyo aribyo byose, hatitawe ku myitwarire. Kuri ruswa, guhahirana, gushiramo, gusebanya - ibi byose ntabwo aribyo bijyanye numuryango muto.
4. Ubushakashatsi ku bana ntibukwiye kuba ukuri. Nibyiza, reka tuvuge ko yohereje nyirakuru numuhungu wanjye mububiko, ngaho yitwaye neza, kandi ni iki cyakora ubu? Hamagara nyirakuru igihe cyose amazu yarangire n'amata, kandi ugomba kujya mububiko? Nibyiza gutangira gusesengura imyitwarire yawe. Kuki Kroch yitwara cyane kuburyo, hamwe nabandi bantu ahinduka umwana mwiza kandi wumvira?
5. Ababyeyi birashoboka ko bazi ko ari ngombwa guhana umwana muri iki gihe yitwara nabi. Ariko ntuzatigita gutukana cyangwa, cyane cyane, gukubita uruhinja ukunda abo hanze? Muri rusange, ntibishoboka gukoresha imbaraga z'umubiri mu ngamba z'uburezi, bitabaye ibyo, uzangiza umubano n'umwana ubuziraherezo. Azareka kukwizera, arafunga kandi ntazongera kuza kuri wewe hamwe n'ibibazo bye.
6. Ntabwo buri gihe bishoboka kugura numugabo wanjye. Ariko, niba umwana yitwaye hamwe na papa atuje kandi ntareka ibikinisho, kugeza amahirwe yo kuzana numuryango wose mububiko. Saba umwana kwerekana papa, nkuko ukomeza gukonja hamwe nibikinisho mugihe bitahari.
7. Umukino muguhana inshingano, birashoboka ko bishimishije, ariko ntabwo ahantu rusange. Urashobora kwiyumvisha uko bizareba kuruhande: umugore ukuze arataka kandi aryamye hasi, kandi umwana muto agenda akoresheje igare ahitamo ibicuruzwa? Muri ibi bihe, abanyamahanga barashobora no gutera abapolisi cyangwa abahagarariye abarindwa.
8. Kina murugo mububiko nigitekerezo cyiza. Imikino Yerekana-Imikino Yigisha Abana Kwitwara mubihe bimwe. Kandi urashobora kandi gufata amashusho yisaha ya hysterical yumwana no mu kirere cyoroheje cyo kurebana nawe, kuko bisa nabi.

Reba kandi: Hysteries z'abana: Inzira rusange yo guhagarara kumunota we

Inzira yo gusohoka

None, ubusanzwe abana bakoresha mugihe bategura amahano mububiko?

1. Mama afite isoni ("birashoboka ko ndi umubyeyi mubi, kubera ko umwana wanjye ava ku mayeri imbere y'abanyamahanga").
2. Mama arateye ubwoba ("Ni iki kizantekereza? Nigute wavamo ibintu?").
3. Mama yumva atishoboye (ati: "Ntacyo nshobora gukora kugirango wirinde iyi myitwarire y'umwana wanjye bwite").

Ababyeyi bakeneye kwiga guhangana n'amarangamutima yabo, hanyuma bagahitamo ikibazo n '"guhaha". Gerageza kugumya mumaboko yawe, nubwo akenshi ari mubi, mugihe umwana agendera hasi arataka, nkaho yakubiswe. Ntukishinje imyitwarire yumuhungu cyangwa umukobwa. Ibyiza mu kirere cyoroheje, vugana n'umwana, reba videwo urimo ukuraho mugihe cya hysteria no kwemera uko ukemura imbaraga.