Alfonso ni, mbere ya byose, manipulator itoroshye, akenshi ifite amakuru meza yo gukina, parasite nziza cyane, ibyangiritse bitabazwa na kodegisi.
Inkomoko ya "Prostit yigitsina y'abagabo" (Alphonse "igurisha", kandi ntabwo ikoresha igikundiro cyayo cyo kureshya) akeneye gushakisha mu bwana. Akenshi ni "Umuhungu wa Mamienekin", "umuhungu mwiza", aho badasabye ikintu icyo ari cyo cyose, yazungurutse "ibibi" byose by'iyi si nini.
Mu mibare myinshi mu muryango, nta se, nyirakuru, nyina, nyirakuru, nyirasenge, nyirayo ni inshuti ya Mama yazengurukaga mu muhungu wangiritse. Yakuze afite infantile, umunebwe kandi atabishaka. Muri icyo gihe, umuhungu nk'uwo, kubera kwitegereza kw'abana, yabonetse neza kubera imyitwarire y'abagore - ibyo bakunda, n'ibyo badafite, yumvise ibiganiro byabo byimbitse.
Amaze gukura, yatangiye gushakisha mu bandi bagore kwerekana ubwitonzi bwe, ariko nyina utaryarya, burigihe amukuramo ingorane zose z'abana, yishyuye ibihimbano byose. Umudamu nk'uwo agomba kuba umukire kandi aratsinda kugirango ubashe kwihisha neza inyuma ya "nyina w'ababyeyi" kandi ukoreshe, utatekereje, amafaranga ye.
Igikorwa nyamukuru cya alfons - kugirango ubone umugore ukize, ukareshya kandi, niba urubanza rumeze neza, kubana nawe mugihe gito, ndumiwe neza.
Imyitwarire ya Alfons Asun Kuri UBits Curtiwain Nshuti:
- Reba imwe, imyenda myiza, umusatsi wimyambarire, uburyohe buhebuje, umubiri wogoshe.
- Iragerageza kumera nkigitekerezo cyimibonano mpuzabitsina, uburyo, ukunda gutanga ibitekerezo, hysterious (akenshi byemewe nibitinda kubahagarariye icyerekezo cya oszyan).
- Kunywa challier, kumwenyura ntabwo biva mumaso. Niba umugore anywa itabi, burigihe azazana urumuri mugihe, kiva muri tagisi hamwe na mugenzi wawe bifasha kumuryango wicyumba cyabadamu ufite uburakari cyangwa ibitutsi.
- Yafunguwe mu itumanaho, ariko ntiyigera avuga ibyawe, avuga gusa ko yahuye n'ikinamico y'umuntu ku giti cye kandi atakibwira abagore, ariko yahuye n'ubwiza kandi bushimishije bwa mbere.
- Ushishikajwe no gusobanura, ashishikajwe no kumenyana, bimubaza ku kazi, imiterere y'imari, ibidukikije.
- Niba nsobanukiwe ko umudamu adakize mubukungu, noneho munsi yicyatsi ko ubu aribwo inama ikomeye cyane igomba kubaho, izagerageza kwegeranya. Mureke umushahara we! Uhite uyikuramo igitabo cya terefone, uduce ahantu hose.
- Niba "gufata amanga" byafashwe, ushikamye, ariko mu rugero, ureba reaction y'umugore kuri buri kimenyetso.
- Igihe igitabo cyari kimaze kugoreka, hari ibiganiro ako kanya kubyo amafaranga akenewe, abahawe inguzanyo barakanda, "Mama arahaguruka, amazu yonyine arashobora kwambura. Urebye umugore mumaso yamaso: Sinashoboraga kumuguriza? Bita amafaranga menshi. Birashobora gupfukama, gusomana amaboko, reka amarira.
- Ntuzigere ugaragaza ibyangombwa bye - uzwi cyane kuri ibi bitera ibi.
- Ibindi ni ukuryama, birabeshya ko neubotogenic, ihimba intangiriro y'ubumaji ("Amafoto akuraho imbaraga zabo".).
Umugore mu rukundo, cyane cyane uko imiterere, ashima izina rye, niba uburiganya, butajya kuri polisi. Ntabwo buriwese azahindura ubugingo bwe mubantu, avuge ukuntu byahuye nubupfapfa bwa manipulation ya marike.
Ni ugukumira muri uru rubanza? Nibyo. Ugomba gukora ibi bikurikira:
- Wige ibintu byose bijyanye nakazi gashya (ushikamye, umwanya, umushahara, imyifatire kuri we mumakipe).
- Wange kwishyura fagitire. Niba umwe mu bari baziranye bitwaye atita cyane, yishyuye muri resitora, kandi iyo umubano uri hafi, mu buryo butunguranye byagaragaye ko agomba gutanga impamvu yo kuganira cyane.
- Niba byaragaragaye ko Macho ari umushomeri - Ubwa mbere arahabwa akazi, hanyuma umubano wurukundo urakomeje.
- Ntutangire umuryango n'inshuti. Guhora usaba ko abamenyereye bibaho.
- Tangira ikiganiro kijyanye numwana (nubwo utagutegariye nonaha). Birahuye neza - iyi niyo mpamvu yo kuba maso.
Nigute wakuraho alfons:
- Funga "Crane ya Crane". Biragoye kandi bidashidikanywaho.
- Kuvuga ko ibintu byose bigukikije ntabwo ari ibyawe. Uyu mutungo ni bene wanyu.
- Kurongora icyifuzo cye, mbwira icyo ushaka gufata umwanzuro. Hariho umunyamategeko mwiza uwizeye.
- Ihitamo ryiza kandi rishimishije - Gabanya gitunguranye ko ufite ibibazo byamafaranga, none uzabaho kumafaranga ye. Biva mu kazi mu myumvire ikandamijwe. Musabe umwenda umubare wibura na zeru eshanu, avuga ko ushaka gukemura ibibazo byawe. Uzarebe uko kuri we n'umuhanda uzakwirakwira.
Mugihe kimwe birakenewe kugirango ukureho ibyiyumvo byoroheje (niba bikiri bishya kandi bakababazwa). Muri iki kibazo, umufasha mwiza ni ubwibone. Kandi yego, ntukeneye kwicuza. Byari isomo ryiza kandi ryingirakamaro mubuzima.
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