Urupfu rwamatungo ukunda buri gihe ni ikintu kiremereye kandi kibabaje kubagize umuryango bose, cyane cyane niba inyamaswa yabanaga nawe umwaka urenga.
Ku bana, uburambe nk'ubwo bushobora kubabara gusa, ahubwo bufite akamaro, ikintu nyamukuru hano - uburenganzira bwo kumusanga.
Abana benshi bahura na mbere urupfu mugihe injangwe yabo ipfa, imbwa cyangwa hamster - mbere yibyo, igitekerezo cyurupfu kimenyereye gusa, rimwe na rimwe - ziva mubitabo namakarito. Akenshi, ababyeyi bagerageza kwirinda ibiganiro byerekeranye nurupfu, kwizera ko ibiganiro bitari ngombwa kubyerekeye ingingo zubuzima bishobora gutera ubwoba cyangwa kubabaza abana.
Ariko, siko bimeze - ku ngingo y'urupfu, birakenewe kwegera kumugaragaro kandi utuje, ndetse no ku zindi ngingo zigoye nk'amafaranga cyangwa igitsina - Ukundi mudahuje abantu batazigirana Bizaba.
Ese ukuntu abana bato babona urupfu?Ukurikije imyaka, abana barashobora gusobanukirwa ukundi urupfu aricyo kandi uko bigenda kumatungo yabo iyo apfuye. Kurugero rero, abana bafite imyaka itatu cyangwa itanu bakunze kubona urupfu nkikintu cyigihe gito kandi gihinduka. Bashobora gutekereza ko imbwa ukunda izashobora gusubira mubuzima niba uyijyana kwa muganga cyangwa kumuha imiti iboneye.
Nanone, abana muriki myaka barashobora kwizera ko bafitanye isano nurupfu rwinyamanswa - urugero, kuko barota rwihishwa injangwe ishaje, cyangwa kubera ko yitondaga imbwa makaronin yavuye mumasahani ye Iyo ntawe wabonye.
Abana kuva kumyaka itandatu kugeza ku munani, nkuko bisanzwe, basanzwe bumva urupfu, ariko biracyarubanwa ko batekereza ko bishobora kubaho kumuntu bazi. Abana kuri iki gihe barabyumva mugihe umuntu apfuye mubitabo cyangwa firime, ariko icyarimwe ntibazisora ibyabaye nukuri. Muri icyo gihe, muri iki gihe, ubusanzwe abana bavuka ibirenze ibibazo byose byerekeranye n'urupfu - bibaza uko bibaye, kandi aho abantu n'inyamaswa bipfuye nyuma y'urupfu.
Ku myaka 9-11, abana bamenye ko urupfu rudasubirwaho gusa, ahubwo ruzashoboka kandi ko bidatinze cyangwa nyuma, hari bose - n'ababyeyi babo, na bo ubwabo. Ariko, ndetse no muri iki gihe, abana bamwe barashobora kwizera ko ibikorwa byabo bishobora kugira ingaruka ku rupfu rwamatungo.
Abana bamwe baje gusobanukirwa igitekerezo cyurupfu no kubyara hashize kurusha abandi - biterwa nubunararibonye bwabo, uhereye kubyo bazi ku rupfu, kandi bahuye na we mubitabo cyangwa mu makarito.
Nigute wafasha umwana kwihanganira urupfu rwamatungo?Vuga Ukuri
Twumva ko inkuru y'urupfu rw'amatungo - iyi atariyo makuru wifuza kubwira umwana wawe, ariko birakenewe kubikora.
Amasomo numwana kubyerekeye ibyabaye cyangwa gusimbuza amatungo ya nyakwigendera kumurongo mushya (mubisanzwe ukora hamwe na hamsters cyangwa parrots), uzamubuza urwego rwicyizere muri wewe (niba rimwe na rimwe bigaragarira ) Kandi utinde gusa byanze bikunze - ufite byose kimwe bidakora iteka kugirango uhishe umwana icyo umuntu azabona umunsi umwe.
Komeza ibintu
Ntabwo ari ngombwa gusenyuka kumwana amakuru yose yisaha yanyuma yubuzima bwamatungo, ariko kandi budasobanutse neza nibyiza kandi byiza kwirinda.
Kwiga neza no gusobanukirwa: "Kubwamahirwe, imbwa yacu yarapfuye. Yari afite umutima urwaye, maze muri iki gitondo bihagarara kurwana "cyangwa" Mbabarira cyane, ariko injangwe yacu yakomanze mu modoka, nta kindi natwe. " Bibaye ngombwa, subiza ibibazo byumwana - utuje, birashoboka kandi ukurikije imyaka.
Kwanga euphemis
Gerageza kudakoresha interuro ninteruro nk '"imbwa yakubiswe", "twohereje injangwe mu isambu" cyangwa "hamster twinjije ikikije umukororombya." Abana barashobora kumva ibigereranirizo byawe uko byakabaye, kandi barashobora kubatera ubwoba cyangwa kuyobya. Hamagara amazina yawe kandi urebe neza ko umwana akwumva.
Reka umwana agaragaze ibyiyumvo bye
Amaze kumenya urupfu rw'amatungo, umwana arashobora kumva akababaro, kwifuza, kwiheba ndetse n'uburakari. Muganire ku byamubayeho hamwe n'umwana, byemeza ko amarangamutima asanzwe ari ibisanzwe, kandi arashobora kubagaragariza inzira yemewe.
Ariko, ntutangazwe numwana wawe atazerekana amarangamutima amwe nkawe, cyangwa akakira urupfu rwinyamanswa ituje cyangwa utitayeho - abana bato, bamenyereye neza igitekerezo cyurupfu, birashobora kugorana kubimenya Ni iki kiri inyuma y'imvugo "injangwe yacu yarapfuye."
Ntugahishe amarangamutima yawe
Erekana umwana kurugero rwawe akababaro kandi kubura amatungo nibisanzwe. Nibyo, ntabwo ari ngombwa kurira cyangwa gutakaza rwose ubushobozi (niba nshaka kubikora, nibyiza kubikora mugihe umwana atakubonye), ariko urashobora kukubwira ko nawe bibabaje, cyangwa biranara hamwe n'umwana wawe.
Witondere amatungo
Niba itungo ryawe ritapfuye, ariko, nk'urugero, ugiye gusinzira kubera indwara idakira cyangwa imiterere mibi, guha umwana amahirwe yo kumusezera. Mumutumire kubwira amatungo meza yo gusezera, kumuhobera, gukubita, kujya ku rugendo rwa nyuma hamwe.
Kubika kwibuka
Tanga umwana gukora ikintu kimufasha kwibuka itungo rya nyakwigendera. Irashobora kuba alubumu hamwe namafoto, gufata, gushushanya cyangwa urwibutso ruto hamwe nibikinisho ukunda nibintu byinyamanswa. Inzira yo gukora ikintu kitazibagirana ubwabwo ni umuhango mwiza wo gusezera hamwe ninyamanswa kandi ukarinda kwibuka kuri we.
Ntuhute gutangiza itungo rishya
Mbere yo gufata inyamaswa nshya inzu, reba igihe gihagije, mugihe ufite agahinda kandi kwifuza amatungo ya nyakwigendera ntaziyandikisha (icyuna buri muryango kigena kugiti cye).
Urupfu rw'amatungo ahora rutoroshye ndetse ruhungabana. Ariko, niba ushoboye gukurikiza ibyifuzo byatanzwe, urashobora kubitunga muburambe bwiza kandi bwiza kumwana, bizamufasha cyane mugihe kizaza.
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