Nigute wabikora kugirango umwana atarahiye matel?
Yashubije hano ku bafatabuguzi b'imyidagaduro mu kigega. Insanganyamatsiko ni materi y'abana. Tumaze kumenya ibitekerezo, abantu bose bateze amatwi ibiganiro, bakajya mubibazo bifatika, hanyuma ibibazo bitangira, imirimo hamwe nacyo kandi muri rusange abana ntibagiye kwiyemera nkuko byanditswe mu gitabo. Natekereje, natekereje kandi mpitamo gukusanya iki cyiciro mumwanya wihariye.
1. Nigute ushobora gutuma umwana utarahiye, niba papa arahiye?
Birasa nkaho ari kimwe n '"umugabo wanjye ahora avomera umwana ufite amazi abira, uburyo bwo gutesha gutwika?" Birashoboka igihe kirekire kandi gihagaze neza hamwe na cream ihenze, birumvikana, ariko ibisebe bishya bizagaragara. Ihitamo ryoroshye cyane risa no gukuraho icyateye itera ubwoba - guhagarika gusuka amazi abira kumwana. Kubwibyo, tuganira ku kibazo na papa, bizana ibitekerezo, turimo gushaka ibisubizo. Tablet yubumaji, ifasha ingorane ababyeyi kuba abana badatiriwe, ntamahirwe, oya.
2. Byagenda bite se niba umwana yize Mata kuva kuri Mama? Mama yishimye ...
Reka tube inyangamugayo wenyine, mbere ya byose. Niba mama rimwe, ku bw'amahirwe, yagabanutse mu mwana, ubwe yagize ubwoba kandi ntakindi, kandi umwana ntashobora guhita ahita ahinduka indamunirt. Niba ibi "byishimye" byabaye, turashobora kuvugana n'umwana, tuvuga ko "yego, ibintu byamaze kuba," ubungubu ntangaruraga kandi bidashimishije, "kandi sobanura gahunda z'ejo hazaza -" Nzakora ibishoboka byose kuri byinshi, kuko mu muryango wacu ntibyemewe. " Niba mumiryango itari isanzwe, hanyuma mumuryango umwana ntazamuzanira. Muri sosiyete - wenda, ariko cyane cyane kubabyeyi bashiraho amategeko no gufata urufatiro, impinduramatwara ikiri nto cyane.
3. Ese ibitekerezo byabana budasanzwe? Ni ibihe bihe bidakora ibi?
Nubwo twumva ko bisa nkaho twe abantu bakuru, bigomba kugira ingaruka ku bakiri bato, igisubizo kimwe, amategeko, ntabwo mfite amategeko. Niba ugarutse kumuhanda wijimye nijoro no ku bwinjiriro, itsinda ry'ingimbi ryatsinze byeri kandi zifite akamaro, noneho kubabwira Aya-yai bihenze cyane. Niba uzengurutse umujyi no kugenda basore bagenda, niba wumvise matel imwe, niba udafite umwana, birashoboka rwose kurengana amatwi - amaherezo, ntuzafatana nabantu kandi ntuzafata oza indimi zawe. Ariko, ku kibuga, ni abahungu bahanagura cyane cyane abahungu na dedams ishobora gutangwa. Icyubahiro. Kuva kumwanya ukuze. Ntunemere kandi ntukigishe, ahubwo wibutse amategeko. Ati: "Urubyiruko, uri ku kibuga kizengurutse abana benshi, shaka ikindi gihe n'ahandi hantu hashyirwaho itumanaho riteye isoni. Noneho ni ngombwa guhindura amagambo yawe. " Mubyambayeho, mubyambaye ingimbi, igice cyamagambo ntigisobanukirwa, ariko ishingiro rifatwa kandi rihindura vuba umurongo wimyitwarire cyangwa ahantu.
4. Nigute ushobora kuba niba inshuti yumugabo we idashyize isoni mubitekerezo byabana, ntishobora kunanira?
Ntishobora gukumirwa - ibi nigihe bisi hamwe na shobuja cyangwa bikaba ari ngombwa gukora ipantaro. Ndakeka ko inshuti yumugabo we ihanganye nibibazo byoroshye, bivuze ko ari byiza, ntabwo atekereza ko ari ngombwa guhungabana. Hanyuma ikibazo cyimipaka yawe nimbibi zurugo rwawe. Turashobora kuvuga amategeko kandi dutegereje ko bizihiza. Emera ko niba umuntu atuje kandi akajugunya amasogisi ya Famply kumeza yo kurya, tuzabona imbaraga zo kumukora. Niba kandi atekereza ko ari ibisanzwe kuri Kakan hagati yicyumba kuri sofa yacu yaka, muri rusange ndimo kumara. Rwose, turashobora kandi gukorana nabanga nabana bacu, kandi duhura ninshuti nkizo mu butaka butagira aho tubogamiye nta bana. Imyizerere yabo yose "yewe neza, ntacyo yumva muri bitatu, ntabwo yumva kuri batanu, abaho kuri batanu, nibazirikane, hanyuma basobanure hamwe nabarezi mu busitani n'abarimu ku ishuri. Urugo rwawe ni amategeko yawe.
5. Nigute dushobora kugeza kumwana ko materi atari meza?
Bitinde bitebuke, imyaka izaza mugihe umwana atazabaza igitekerezo cyawe, ari byiza, kandi ibitari byo, bizakomeza, Vaska bizagira inama. Vaska afite imizigo ikomeye yubuzima muri imyaka 16 nkimyaka 16, kandi ababyeyi ntacyo bafite muri Realt tugezweho. Kandi ibi nibisanzwe, bityo kamere yaratekerejwe. Mugihe iki gihe cyicyubahiro kitaje, turashobora kugerageza kunyerera choi ubundi buryo - isosiyete izaba nziza. Kurugero, muri sosiyete ya sporsing cool - kwimuka mumuhanda wirabura, kandi ntukimenyereye kumeza. Ariko! Tuzategura ubundi buryo, ariko umwana arashobora kandi gufata, akareka ibyabo, nta saha ntarengwa no gutungana. Kubwibyo, humeka kandi utegereze igihe bimuwe. Amaherezo, ntabwo nabonye abantu bakuru bafite beto kuri iyi mpamvu - niba bazi.
6. Abana babajije impamvu materi.
Mama yasobanuye ko bitwa. Abana bari bafite ibibazo - kuki bitari mumagambo? Kuki aba bantu bahimbye?
Nabisobanura ukundi, kuko materi ntabwo buri gihe yerekeye guhamagara. Iyo tubwiye anecdote, ntabwo tugerageza kubabaza umuntu. Iyo inyundo yikubita urutoki, natwe, ntabwo ari igice cy'icyuma cyangwa gukemuke ku giti cye. Mat ahubwo ni meza yerekana amarangamutima yabantu. Hariho abantu batazi uko bakaba badashobora kuvuga ngo "Nabababaye", "bishimishije", "bati:" Ndatinya cyane. " Ntibabigishije abo, bityo bakoresha icyo bashoboye. Ufite amahitamo, umwana, kandi ndashaka rwose kwiga amahitamo akwiye.
7. Mat arashobora gusobanurwa binyuze mumatako gusa. Kandi ntabwo nambaye munsi y'abana. Nigute?
Ntabwo nemera. Muraho, umwana yaje iwanyu aravuga ati: "Noneho, na mama, namenye ijambo rishya Maternaya hano, kandi ntabwo babizi. Ijambo ritangira kuri Buku x. Nibyiza rwose, ntukeka ko ibyo yize aho? Kandi umaze, uramutse ukekaga, urashobora gusobanura neza ko bishoboka cyane kubijyanye nubutaka bwimibonano mpuzabitsina, bukaba bwitwa imboga. Muri rusange, amagambo yo kugena uyu mubiri ni menshi: imboro, amagambo y'abana b'abana "pisyun" nibindi. Na tafnoe, gusenyuka - nibyo.
8. None se ni gute noneho gusobanurira ijambo umwana mu ibaruwa B?
Reba, umwana, iri jambo riteye isoni rimaze gusobanura bitatu.
Iya mbere ni ubutemba, ikoreshwa nk'ijambo "umuvumo".
Iya kabiri nizo mvugo yamarangamutima meza, bikunze kubabara cyangwa kurakara.
Iya gatatu ni umugore ufite ibibazo byinshi byimibonano mpuzabitsina, imibonano mpuzabitsina ntabyiyumvo, icyubahiro, urukundo, rimwe na rimwe kumafaranga.
Muri rusange, gukoresha mu bwisanzure hamwe n'umwana ku ngingo ya Mata, uzaba ubanza ugomba kubanza kumenya imibonano mpuzabitsina, muganire ku gitsina, imibonano mpuzabitsina, n'ibindi, nk'ibihurizwa n'imibonano mpuzabitsina bidasanzwe. Kuberako azazana amagambo atandukanye.
9. Niba kandi ijambo ryubaka risobanutse neza?
Hamwe na Consoles na Exelees, ibyo utazakeka mu ibaruwa ya mbere?
Muri uru rubanza, nasabye umwana kumbwira mubitekerezo byiri jambo. Birumvikana ko ari igitero kiva mubitonda byumwanya, kandi twembi twumva ko ibibera ari ibintu bidasanzwe. Ariko muri rusange, nta kintu na kimwe mbona giteye ubwoba mu bihe: Umwana ntiyitonze aba munsi y'ababyeyi, ahubwo yaje i Amerika gusa, ahubwo yaje i Amerika gusa, kuko Encyclopedia, yaje guhingwa kandi kwagura Yego (Yego Yego, Iragura kandi, kandi ntabwo yiga geografiya namateka yubuhanzi bwa kera bwubugereki). Turaganira tutabaje, tuzasesengura kandi dusubika nkibidakenewe. Ariko inyungu zirenze izakuraho ijambo runaka kandi hamwe na Mata rwose. Ndashaka gushyira ikindi kintu kimwe kuri konte, ariko ibibazo byarangiye. Andika, kandi nzasubiza uko bishoboka.
Mu gitekerezo cya mbere, mwohererezanya inyandiko yanjye yambere ku nsanganyamatsiko ya matel y'abana - shingiro, kuvugira, igitekerezo giteganijwe cyane ku buryo budasanzwe. Ndagira inama abantu bose gusoma, kuri njye mbona ari ingirakamaro.