Icyemezo cyingenzi mubuzima bwumusore: Guhitamo umwuga. Ababyeyi barashobora kwemeza iterambere nubushobozi nubushobozi bakiri bato. Ariko, benshi batangira gusunika umwana hakiri kare mu cyerekezo kimwe.
Nyirakuru avuga ko nyirakuru iyo amaze kuba umukinnyi mu mwaka, yicaye ku mavi.
Ababyeyi Kati bemeza ko umukobwa wabo azakora umwuga w'itangazamakuru, kuko "ari amatsiko." Se wa Andrei yamaze kubona umudipolomate ukomeye mumwana we w'imyaka itanu. Na nyina wa Lena arota ko umukobwa we azaba umukinnyi uzwi cyane w'ikinamico, kubera ko umukobwa akunda kuzunguruka imbere yindorerwamo kandi asoma ibisigo.
Ikigaragara ni uko buri mwana afite byibuze - ubwenge kandi bufite impano. Kubwibyo, mugihe abana bakina muri sandbox, ababyeyi babo bavuga ku nyungu n'ibibi by'ishuri ryose bigera kuri we.
Kuki utekereza ku mwuga ufite pellery
Mwisi ya none biragoye gukora neza, ntabwo bitangaje kuba ababyeyi, batangiye gutekereza ku mwuga w'abana babo. Bamwe muribo bahora bashakisha, kugirango bamenye kandi bateze imbere impano zabakomokaho.
Aba babyeyi bashobora kwibagirwa ikintu cyingenzi mubuzima hamwe nabana: ibitateganijwe no guteza imbere iterambere. Kuberako mugihe cyubwangavu, umwana arashaka kwisuzuma hamwe nubushobozi bwayo adahisemo. Imiterere minini yimiterere ikura igomba gushishikarizwa.
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Niba umwana azerekana impano ye mumuziki cyangwa umuzingi wa tekiniki, mubikorwa rusange, ubucuruzi cyangwa imyitozo ngororamubiri, bizakirwa muri kaminuza - icyemezo kizaboneka uko byagenda kose. Byaba ari bibi kugerageza gusunika umwana mu cyerekezo kimwe ukiri muto. Kuberako bivuze ko izamburwa amahirwe yo kugerageza mu buryo butandukanye no guteza imbere umwihariko.
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Umwana akeneye gukangurira kwerekana impano zabo. Kubwibyo, ibyifuzo bigomba kuba bitandukanye bishoboka: roho, umubiri nubwenge bifuza ko bagira icyo bakora. Uyu munsi hari amahirwe menshi, duhereye ku gice cy'imikino ngo mu masomo ya muzika, kuva muri kaminuza y'abana "kugeza ku myigire y'ingoro ndangamurage. Umwana hamwe nabandi bana barashobora kugerageza ubushobozi bwabo muburyo bwimikino.
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Ariko, ni ngombwa kuyirinda kurenza urugero. Kuberako, usibye akazi, buri mwana akenera umwanya wo kutazimira murutonde rwinshi rwimanza. Ugomba kwidagadura gukina cyangwa kwicara gusa no gutekereza ku isi y'ubumaji. Ibitekerezo no guhanga birashobora gutera imbere gusa iyo umwana afite amahirwe yo kuruhuka. Bifata igihe - n'umwanya wo kuruhuka, bidashoboka kubantu bakuru kandi nta kwivanga muburyo bwamasomo.
Kandi akeneye ababyeyi babishishikariza. Kunegura burundu no kwitotomba biganisha ku kwiheba. Ku rundi ruhande no gutanga ibitekerezo byiza, ku rundi ruhande, guha abantu icyizere gikenewe kugira ngo wegere isi ufite icyizere: Ndanyishimiye imico yanjye, imiryango yose irandanguye, nshobora guhindura ikintu kandi nshobora guhindura ikintu. Urufatiro rwiza rwo mumitekerereze rutanga ibimenyetso byiza kugirango dukomeze kubaho ubuzima bwuzuye (bwumwuga).
Iyo icyemezo gifashwe: guhera umwuga
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Ntamuntu uzahitamo akazi ko, kubyerekeranye, ntazaba ashimishije cyangwa inyungu. Mubikorwa byabo, abantu bahaza ibyo bakeneye: bashaka kwerekana ibyo baremwe, bashaka kugira uruhare, gutsinda icyubahiro kandi bagashaka abandi kandi, birumvikana ko kwitanga no kumuryango wabo. Kandi umuntu akurura imyuga, abibona, "bikwiranye".
Ibyiza bigizwe na motif nyinshi. Akenshi hariho irindi ngaruka zo hanze: igitekerezo cyabandi kubyerekeye umwanya runaka. Urubanza nk'urwo rw'abantu batatu mu bihe byinshi bigira ingaruka ku gisubizo. Ifatwa neza kuruta imyumvire nubushobozi bwayo. Ibi birashoboka birasobanura impamvu urubyiruko rwifuza kubona uburezi ruhitamo guhitamo imyuga "gakondo".
Ariko ibibi biragaragara: Ku ruhande rumwe, bimwe muribi ni icyerekezo gitanga amahirwe make yo kuzamura isi igezweho. Ku rundi ruhande, icyifuzo cy'iyi myuga ari kinini, kandi hari imyanya mike.
Kubwibyo, birakwiye kubona igitekerezo cyimyuga ibaho nicyo ibyiringiro bikomeye by'ejo hazaza. Ababyeyi barashobora gufasha muri aba bana. Niba uretse imyumvire yawe bwite, urashobora gukusanya amakuru yingirakamaro kubyerekeye icyerekezo nyacyo.
Imiryango y'akazi nayo itanga amakuru menshi kuri enterineti. Byanze agaciro gakwiye gusura ibikorwa byakazi kandi umenye gahunda yubuyobozi bwimyuga bafite. Binyuze mu biganiro n'ibizamini ku bushobozi, birashoboka gukora umwirondoro wimyuga izamuka ko ari umusore.
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Imico iyo mintu nkubushobozi bwo gukorera mumakipe, moteri no mubikorwa, ni ngombwa kuruta ubumenyi bwa tekiniki hamwe nagereranijwe. Igikorwa cya kabiri cyababyeyi ni ugufasha abana babo kumenya neza imbaraga zabo.
Impamvu abantu bose bavuga kubyerekeye indimi zamahanga
Uyu munsi ntakindi kintu cyingenzi kuruta uburambe bunini. Umusore wumusore ureba isi, amahirwe akomeye afite. Gutunga byoroshye indimi z'amahanga bifungura imiryango imyuga myinshi. Urubyiruko rugomba gushobora kumara umwanya mumahanga kwiga ururimi mubidukikije. Nibyiza, iyo ababyeyi bashobora gufasha muribi no gusesengura gahunda zose zishobora gutangwa kubana. Abenshi muribo ni ubucuruzi. Ariko niba ubishaka, urashobora kubona abafatanya nuru rurimi kuri enterineti no kwitoza na gato murugo.Nigute wabona uburambe udakora
Niba hari amahirwe nkaya, ugomba rwose guha ingimbi kugerageza ukuboko kwawe mumibereho itandukanye. Birashoboka ko ushobora gukoresha aho ukorera. Kuzana abana mubikorwa byawe bwite, bitanga ubufasha mugihe cyoroshye. Shakisha imishinga itanga imyitozo yishuri kugirango yinjize. Mbere yuko umwana yiga uko akazi kagenda, nibyiza.
Kubwibyo, ababyeyi ntibagomba kwirengagiza amahirwe isi ya none itanga. Abana basanzwe kwishuri barashobora kwishora mu gufotora no gutunganya, kwandika na moderi. Hamwe niterambere rya guhagarika, benshi biga byinshi kandi wandike inyandiko. Rimwe na rimwe, umuntu mukuru asa nkaho arenze, ariko nibyiza mugihe umwana agerageje hamwe naya mabwiriza. Azabaho mu isi y'imyuga mishya.
Ni iki kindi ababyeyi bashobora gukora
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Mugihe uhisemo umwuga, urubyiruko rwishingikirije gushigikira no gufasha umuryango wabo. Benshi muribo bashaka ubufasha kubabyeyi babo niba bumva ko bari mu ndunduro, mubisanzwe bakeneye ubufasha bwibintu. Gusa igice gito cyingimbi gishobora kwakira amakuru no gukora wigenga.
Mbere ya byose, umwana agomba kumva neza inyungu ze, imbaraga nimpano. Birumvikana ko akenshi abantu bakuru batabiziho, kuko urubyiruko rumaze kuba mu isi yabo kandi ntigabanywaho nabyo nibyifuzo byabo.
Kubwibyo, umurimo wingenzi w'ababyeyi uhora ushakisha amahirwe yo kuganira numwana wawe no kumwumva witonze. Hamwe na hamwe, imbaraga nintege nke birashobora kuganirwaho nkubuntu no kutabogama. Niba umusore akomeza kumva ababyeyi be ati: "Uyu si akazi kawe," ati: "Ntushobora kubikora," azabura icyifuzo cyo gukora no gushaka intsinzi. Umuryango ugomba gushishikariza, ntunenga. Noneho urubyiruko ruzashobora kubimenya.