Kuki numvaga mbere?
Kuba abana bamwe bumva cyane, uyumunsi bavuga byinshi. Kuba iki atari ikibazo, ntabwo ari ikibi, ntabwo ari amakosa yababyeyi, ahubwo ni ikintu kiranga umwana bagomba kwiga kubaho. Ntibyoroshye, kandi kandi ibintu byacu bwite bihindura. Umunywanyi wa Psychologue na Mama Leli Tarasevich afite ingingo zose zingingo kuriyi ngingo. Uyu munsi dusubiramo ingingo kuva kururu rubura, muri make Leilia asobanura uburyo bwo guhangana niba dukurikiza ubwoko bwabantu benshi.
Igihe namenyaga ko umuhungu wanjye yumva cyane, igihe kinini ababazwa nibitekerezo, kuki numvaga mbere? Sinigeze numva, ntabwo byaramuwe, ngerageza gushyira igitutu ... Kuki ntafite ibyo mbona ko afite? N'ubundi kandi, hagomba kubaho genetike, amacunga hari ubwoko bwose, amacunga ... ariko oya. Turatandukanye, kandi birashoboka ko dushimira Imana.
Mu ngingo zikurikira, tuzavuga kubyo ibyiza hamwe nibyago bifite ibyago bifite ababyeyi bumva cyane, kandi bakaba byoroshye. Nyizera, muri buri kintu hariho ibyiza. Ndakugira inama yo gusoma kubo hamwe nabandi kugirango babone itandukaniro ryurukundo rwumwana wawe.
Gutangira, ndasaba guhitamo inkambi yo kwinjira. Rero, ikizamini cyumwanditsi umwe Elaine Airon kubantu bakuru. Niba byibuze yego gato, noneho dushyira wongeyeho. Kandi gusa niba atari ukuri, shyiramo.
- Ndabona ibintu bigoye cyane mubihe byanjye. - Imyitwarire yabandi bantu kunkora. - Numva neza ububabare. - Nyuma yumunsi utoroshye, nkeneye kuryama muburiri, mucyumba cyijimye, aho nshobora kuba njyenyine kandi nsubiza imbaraga. - Ntabwo numva cyane kafeyine. - Nihuse ipine amatara yaka, impumuro nziza, imyenda idasanzwe cyangwa amajwi aranguruye. - Mfite ubuzima bwimbitse kandi bwuzuye. - Ndumva ntayoroheye muburyo bunoze. - Nkunda cyane ubuhanzi, mumuziki wihariye. - Ndi umuntu witonze. - Biroroshye kuntera ubwoba. - Mfite impungenge niba nkeneye gukora byinshi mugihe gito. - Iyo abantu batamerewe kumubiri, mubisanzwe nzi icyo gukora kugirango bagabanye ikibazo cyabo (urugero, guhindura amatara cyangwa guhindura). - Ndarakaye mugihe abantu bagerageje kunimanira ibintu byinshi kuri njye icyarimwe. - Ndagerageza rwose kwirinda amakosa kandi nta kintu na kimwe. - Ndagerageza rwose kwirinda firime zubugome na gahunda za tereviziyo. - Ntabwo ndumiwe neza mugihe hari ibintu byinshi. - Ndababajwe no guhindura ubuzima. - Ndabona kandi nishimira impumuro nziza kandi yoroheje, uburyohe, bwumvikana, ibintu byubuhanzi. - Mubyo nashyira imbere ni imitunganyirize y'ubuzima, yirinda gucika intege no kwitwaza. -Iyo ngomba gukora ikintu, kandi umuntu arandeba, ndi ubwoba bwinshi kandi mpangayikishijwe nuko nkora nabi kurenza uko byagenda kubindi. "Nkiri umwana, ababyeyi banjye ba mwarimu batekerezaga ko niyumvamo cyangwa kwiyoroshya."
Niba wasubije "Yego" 12 cyangwa inshuro nyinshi, tuvuga abantu bumva cyane.
Niba ari bike, noneho kuri njye, kuri njye, gukundwa kwumva, 8.
Nibyiza, batsinze bangahe?