Ndashaka gushiraho ubwumvikane numugabo wanjye ...
Inkomoko: Umubyeyi wuyu munsi, Umwanditsi Katherine Flemming
Ati: "Ndarambiwe cyane, nda ndushye cyane, mfata ameza yigikoni kandi nitonze kwicara. Nari nkomeje kubabaza nyuma y'ibice bya Cestarean, umwana ushonje yavugije induru aho, kandi numvaga mfite hangover.
Umugabo aramusubiza ati: "Nanjye narambiwe."
Aya magambo ahita anzana wenyine.
Numvaga uko najugunywe mu bushyuhe, maze yicara iruhande rwanjye ku meza kandi asetsa utuje (ngomba kuvuga ko yiteguye). Nahagurutse, ntabasha gusubiza (urwasaya rwanjye ruva muri voltage).
Ararushye? Njye hari ukuntu ntabona ko igituza cye cyabyimbye n'amata akonje. Ntabwo nabonye ahindura igitambaro nyuma yicyiciro cyihutirwa cya Cesarwan mubiruhuko hagati yo kubungabunga urugo. Kandi ibi byose - icyarimwe kwita ku buryo uruskitavu ari muzima kandi rufite ubuzima bwiza. Nigute ashobora kumva ananiwe? Jyewe, nabonye premium yumuntu unaniwe cyane munzu !!!
Nakomeje uburakari, mfata kuri we, naho amabuye y'agaciro, kimwe n'intwaro, ibyo nakoreshwaga mu buryo busanzwe mu ntonga. Nahise ndamutanyanya mu nzira yo gusezerera, ninde n'igikorwa kigomba gukora mu rugo, kumugaragaza ko ndarushye cyane, kuko nagize uruhare runini.
Kuva ubu, nahise ntangira gusakuza n'umugabo wanjye.
Hahirwa: "Yoo, umwana, bizaba byiza cyane!" Moluba yahinduwe mu isanzure ry'ijoro igihe nashoboraga gusinzira amasaha abiri akurikiranwa, kandi byarababaje rwose kuri sisitemu yacu. Twari ababyeyi bahendutse abakiri bato batunganiye bumvise ko rimwe na rimwe bazatanga bluff, kandi ntibashobora kwihanganira na gato. Kandi kubwimpamvu idasobanutse, numvaga ngomba gutangira konti - uzabona ingingo nyinshi. Igihe cyose nagereranije no mu mutwe - Gukaraba, gukaraba amasahani, kugaburira ibipapuro, gusesengura imyenda, gusura kwa muganga, kuvugurura ibyambere Aid. Numvaga ko narimo gukora umukoro wawe hafi ya yose no kwita ku mwana, nubwo ntazi impamvu byatunguwe. Ibi byabujijwe rwose inshuti zose.
Igihe gito kirashize, byari bisanzwe ko nsinziriye kandi twatangiye gushyikirana bisanzwe kandi tugahuza n'inshingano nshya nk'umunyamuryango wa Brigade y'Umusarura (I) na Tornado nto.
Kugeza rero kugeza umwana wa kabiri agaragaye, mu buryo butunguranye, hari impu zikubye kabiri, imidugararo n'umunwa bakeneye kugaburirwa. Kandi ijoro rimwe nageze aho ribi. Ibi byabaye imbeho ishize, mbere yuko bucya, umukobwa apfuye. Nagerageje kwihanganira, kunyerera, kunyerera no gutemberana, icyarimwe yohereza ibimenyetso bya Telepathic mucyumba gikurikira, aho umugabo wanjye yasinziriye neza. Nari nkeneye rag, indobo hamwe nimpuhwe nyinshi.
Ariko atwika amahoro gusa mu buriri bwe.
Igihe nabwiraga mu gitondo ku byerekeye uko byagenze, bibabaza impamvu atigeze amfasha, aramusubiza ati: "Ntimubajije."
Umujinya utuje wuzuye.
Igihe nahamagaye Lizaro, Umuvuzi n'uwabakobwa, yanyemeje ko yababaye igihe wabyaraga umwana (cyangwa babiri) - ibi ni ibisanzwe: "Izi ni ibintu bitangaje kubabyeyi. Abana bakeneye imbaraga nyinshi kandi witondere, kandi ufite umwanya muto wo gusinzira, guhuza igitsina no hagati. "
Igihe namubwiraga kuri urwisipi, yashubije ko ari ibisanzwe ko nababaye, nubwo nari nzi ko umugabo wanjye adashobora gusoma ibitekerezo byanjye. Ati: "Kandi, ni ngombwa gusobanukirwa ibyo witeze kugira ngo tutigirire nabi".
Gukumira. Nahisemo gukora byose mbere kugirango birinde ibibazo: Kurugero, ku cyumweru nteka firime kugirango nta karwayi kari mucyumweru. Ntekereza ko guhangayika bidakomeye kundusha. Ariko kubijyanye no kubwira umugabo we ibyo yiteze kandi wirinde gutongana, nhitamo guceceka. Mfite kumva ko nyuma yimyaka 18 kubana, agomba kumenya neza ibyo nshaka no kumutegereza. Kandi rimwe na rimwe byayoboraga rwose.
Kandi, nibazaga niba hari uburyo bwo kuvugana na we kubyo ntegereje ku buryo bidasa n'amabwiriza umunyamuryango muto? Byaragaragaye ko ubu buryo - ni ngombwa kuvuga kubyo ukeneye, kandi ntunezereke. Aho kuvuga imvugo ngo "Ntumfasha," Nibyiza kuvuga ngo "Mfite ibintu byinshi, ushobora guha umwana icupa?"
Kandi mubyukuri, nari nzi ko igihe cyose nsabye kandi nsaba ubufasha, yishimiye gufasha kandi ntazigera yanga kubikora. Kandi ahora anshimishije. Ariko rimwe na rimwe numva nishimye cyane kuburyo ubwonko bwanjye butoneye gusa kandi twibagiwe amagambo yose meza.
Ndashaka ko tubonana numugabo wacu kugirango tuvuge iyi myitwarire yimyitwarire kubana bawe (kandi birumvikana gushimangira ishyingiranwa ryacu). Umuvuzi yangiriye inama yo gukoresha amarangamutima - Tekinike y'ababyeyi ifasha abana kumenya ibyiyumvo byabo. Birasekeje ko akenshi tubona impuhwe n'impuhwe bijyanye n'abana, ariko twibagirwe rwose ibyiyumvo by'abafatanyabikorwa bacu. Imyitozo igizwe nintambwe eshatu: kwigaragaza byihuse kwita kumuntu uhura namarangamutima cyangwa ibyiyumvo, izina ryiyi myumvire no kugena ibyo yateje isura ye.
Noneho, iyo numvise ko umugabo ananiwe (ntatinya kubivuga mu ijwi riranguruye), nihatira kwemera ko ashobora kunanirwa. Ndimo gukora kugirango berekane impuhwe mugihe avuga ibintu bishobora kumuha: ububabare bwigihe cyose kumaguru, ububabare bukaze, kandi birumvikana ko bikamenya ubufasha bunini hamwe nabana.
Ni ngombwa kwibuka ko iyi myaka ngufi ari nkigihe gito cyigihe gito muri gahunda ikomeye yibintu. Kandi nzi neza ko muri iki gihe, mugihe tugomba guhaza ibyo abantu bacu bato, beza, mugihe dufite umwanya muto kandi tuzihangana, tuzashimangira isano iri hagati yacu nubushobozi bwacu bwo kwitegereza.
Abana bacu bazakura vuba kuruta uko tuzatanga raporo yacu. Kandi nyuma nzareba muriyi myaka, yuzuye amajoro adasinziriye hamwe nimpapuro zanduye, binyuze mubirahure. Kandi ninde, ndizera ko nzakomeza kwicara iruhande rwanjye kumeza yigikoni, utandukanijwe nimyaka yo mu gasozi gusa?
Umugabo nkunda. Kandi nzi neza ko mugihe ananiwe nibindi ...