Ni iki kitubuza kubaho mu bwisanzure kandi wishimye? Guhagarika spontaney yacu? Kugabanya ubwisanzure bwo guhitamo? Turakomeza ikiganiro kijyanye no gusobanukirwa imiterere niburyo bwo kurengera muburyo bwa GEstalt.
Twiyemeje muburyo butandukanye bwo hagati muburyo butandukanye. Ariko ikibanza, kiduha amahirwe yo kwimenyekanisha kuri wewe inyungu zacu hano kandi ubu ni urwego rwibyishimo byacu. Ibyishimo nintangiriro yo guhura, amahirwe yinama. Hamwe n'ibyishimo byawe, duhindukira muburyo butandukanye - bitewe nuburyo twigishijwe kumusanganira, kandi bitewe nibyo ubwoba bwacu hamwe na alams dufite uyu munsi.
Amaganya nicyo cyingenzi cyo kugereranya. Dufate ko ndi wenyine kandi nshaka guhura numugabo. Mfite umunezero uzamuka. Ariko mfite ubwoba - mu buryo butunguranye, nk'urugero, nzakwanga cyangwa mparenganyire?
Ndashobora kwemerera exmetation yanjye guhindukira no, gukoresha imbaraga, shakisha inzira zihagije zo gusohoza icyifuzo cyayo. Kandi ndashobora cyane guhagurukira kuguma mu rugendo rwanjye kugirango duhaze inyungu zawe. Reka turebe ibihe byiciro byo guhuza uburyo bwo guhagarika ubwinshi dukoresha.
Tangira. Hariho ibyiyumvo. Igihe cyose iyi ... nta shusho. Birasa nkaho nifuza guhura numuntu ... ariko - ushaka guhungabanya cyane! Nibyiza! Kandi nongeye guhuza umurima. Ihuriro ryamfashije kuguma ryihishe mu murima, nta gusobanura ndetse no ku mpamvu nyine yo kwishima ...
Rimwe na rimwe, ubwo buryo bwo kungeza cyane. Kurugero, mugihe murwego rwibidukikije hano none icyifuzo cyanjye ntigikwiye rwose. Ariko niba nkomeza kubikora twishimye mubihe bikomeye kubwanjye, kandi nibwo buryo bwonyine bwo kubyitwaramo, ndahagaritse mbere mu kubona uburambe ...
Niba iki cyiciro cyaciwe neza, kandi icyifuzo cyanjye - urugero, kumenyera umugabo - byarasobanutse neza kuri njye, nshobora kongera guhangayikishwa cyane no guteza imbere uko ibintu bimeze. Kandi ndashobora kwihagarika kuba aho kuba icyifuzo cyanjye cyo gutangira gukora icyifuzo cyundi.
Na none, hari ibihe byinshi aho gutamba icyifuzo cyawe kirakwiriye kandi kizaba igisubizo cyiza. Niba mfite amahirwe yo kwihitiramo - kujya gushaka icyifuzo cyanjye cyangwa wemere icyifuzo cyindi - byose ok. Ariko niba mubihe bikomeye kuri wewe, burigihe mpangayinga amaganya kuko nsimbuza ibyifuzo byanjye kubyo abantu bakeneye - nkomeje guhagarikwa kandi sinshobora kubaho mu bwisanzure ... Ubu buryo bwitwa intangiriro.
Kurugero, tujya muri disikuru hamwe numukobwa wumukobwa, ndabona umusore, naramukunze, kandi umukunzi wanjye arambwira ati: "Fu, ni ikihe kibi! Ni iki wasanze kirimo? Watsinze, reba - uyu niwo mugabo mwiza cyane! " Nibyiza, kandi numvira njya kurundi ruhande - kure yanjye yanjye ... cyangwa nzamubwira nti: "Yego, ibyo, ariko nkunda!" - Noneho iyi ninkuru itandukanye rwose ...
Cyangwa ngiye muri cafe, mama arambwira ati: "Syibiri nibyiza murugo, ntakintu nakimwe cyo kugoreka indogobe kubantu, igitabo cyasomye!" Nshobora kugabanya Mama - Nyuma ya byose, burigihe ndamutega amatwi, kandi ndashobora kuvuga nti: "Mama, namaze kubona umukobwa ukuze, kandi nanjye ndabita agaciro icyo gukora ubu. Urakoze kubitaho, ariko nzahangana, Mama. "
Dufata ko iki cyiciro cyarashize, kandi ndi kuri disco cyangwa muri cafe. Kandi nakunze uyu musore. Ibyishimo byiyongera, kandi ndatera ubwoba cyane ... Ndumva ari impuruza ikomeye. Mugihe kimwe, nsanzwe ndi kumupaka wo guhura. Rero, amarangamutima asanzwe agaragara muri njye. Kandi hano, kugirango ukureho umunezero mwinshi kandi cyane ... gutuza, nshobora gutangira gutegura amarangamutima yanjye ukunda ...
Kurugero, uburinzi nkunda mubihe nabagabo - gerageza kubyirengagiza. Ndamureba ntekereza: "Mbega ubwoko bukonje bukonje!" Cyangwa ndakaye ko ari indwara - reba kurundi ruhande. Kandi ndumva ari mbi nkuko ari mubi ... mubisanzwe, aya mayeri yose nkora atabishaka. Byiringiro byuzuye ko aribyo rwose ntekereza munsi yabyo.
Turategura hafi buri gihe. Ubu buryo bukomeje kugira ubuzima bwiza kugeza bumwe mu buryo bumwe bushoboka bukomeje kuba umwe mu matora ashoboka. Niba natsimbaraye muri projection yanjye, nkisazi mubuki - byose, isano nukuri irahagarikwa, kandi ihuze nubufasha burahagarikwa ...
Dufate ko byatsinzwe kuri iki cyiciro ... arandeba, aramwenyura. Dutangira ikiganiro. Ndashaka cyane kumubwira. Cyangwa ndashaka kumutontomera. Ariko biteye ubwoba! Nakora iki? Ntangiye ibiganiro byimbere muri njye ... Kandi nicaye - ndakonjaga ivi. Nicyo nshaka kumutera gukora ubwanjye. Kuberako ndahungabanye cyane ... kandi mpita iyi mpuruza hamwe na retroxia - nuburyo bwitwa.
Nibyiza, barabyinaga, baramperekeje ... arashaka, reka tuvuge, Gusomana neza ... Ndashaka kandi gusomana - ariko ni gute uteye ubwoba kandi uhangayitse kandi uhangayitse! Ndi aho kuruhuka no kwishimira ko umuntu anshimishije nanjye ku muhengeri umwe, ndagwa mu maganya - kandi ngerageza kugenzura byose: amaboko ye ari he? Birasa nkaho hakiri kare! Kandi azatekereza iki kuri njye? Kandi azabaza terefone yanjye cyangwa sibyo?
Hano hari byinshi birenzeho guhura no kugerageza kubiteganya - kugenzura-kugenzura kwigana. Iyo, aho gufungura imipaka yawe ukabona ibyo nshaka, twibaza, slammer no kunyerera ...
Muri iyi shusho ngufi, nagerageje gusobanura ibitekerezo bigoye bya psychologiya kururimi rwumuntu. Nkurikije uko nabicunga - Kumukemura ...
Umwanditsi - Irina Lopatukhina
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