Abahanga bafashe ubushakashatsi bubiri
Inzobere muri kaminuza ya Pennsylvania yakoze ubushakashatsi bushya, bwerekanye ko abana bitangiye kandi bagakomeza kuba ababyeyi batabara cyane mu gukemura ibibazo. Ibisubizo by'ubushakashatsi byasohotse mu kinyamakuru cyo guteza imbere abana.
Ababyeyi bahora bashaka gufasha abana babo - barasaba, amabwiriza, batanga amabwiriza yo gukora neza. Ariko rimwe na rimwe, kwivanga bitera abana kwiyegurira gukemura imirimo igoye, intiti zabonetse.
Abahanga bakora ubushakashatsi bubiri. Muri imwe muri bo, imyaka ine n'imyaka itanu na 30 yagabanijwemo amatsinda kandi abereka uburyo bwo gukemura puzzle puzzle. Noneho abana basabwe gukemura icyo gikorwa bonyine. Mu itsinda rimwe, abantu bakuru bafashaga ko abana gukusanya ibitangaje amaboko, no mu rundi - amagambo yasobanuriye abana, uburyo bwiza bwo gukora.
Iyo urangije ubushakashatsi, abana bose bahawe agasanduku kafite isuku, kashyizweho kashe kuri kole. Ntibyashobokaga gufungura. Abana bakuze bafashijwe na puzzle, bagaragaje kwihangana buke no kwihangana kuruta abaperereza mu rindi tsinda.
Mu kigeragezo cya kabiri, abana bafite imyaka ingana boherejwe mu itsinda aho abantu bakuru bafashe icyemezo cyo kwiyegurira. Mu irindi tsinda, abantu bakuru hamwe nabana byakemuye inshingano. Abanditsi b'Ubushakashatsi bagaragaje uburyo abana byihuse batakaza inyungu mu nshingano z'abakuze bafata iyambere mu ntoki.
Twasanze abo bana ababyeyi bakunze kwivanga muburyo bwa puzzle ntibanangiye. Ubushakashatsi bwa kabiri bwerekanye ko niba umuntu mukuru atwaye umurimo uteganijwe kuri we, kumwana ukurikira wishyikirije vuba - ugereranije nabana babonye abana bakuru kugirango bakemure ikibazo.
Yabwiye igipimo cy'ababyeyi Dr. Ubumenyi bwa psychologiya Julia Leonard.
Abahanga baza ku mwanzuro w'uko niba abantu bakuru batabangamiye gahunda yo kwiga, abana batezimbere kwihangana.
Imyanzuro y'abahanga mu by'inzobere za Pennsylvani, yemeye kandi uwashinze gahunda yo kurera gahunda yo kurera Robin Klovits:
Abana bafite icyifuzo cyumvikana cyo gutsinda mubikorwa no gukemura uburyo ibintu byose bitunganijwe. Ariko kandi bafite icyifuzo cyumvikana cyo gushimisha ababyeyi babo.
Kubwibyo, iyo ababyeyi babangamiye, umwana yakiriye ikimenyetso cyerekana ko ibisubizo ari ngombwa kuruta inzira - bifite akamaro kugirango irangize umurimo, kandi ntabwo yiga ikintu mubikorwa.
Mukzles yongeyeho ati: "Iyo abana bumva ko igisubizo cyanyuma ari ngombwa kuruta inzira, noneho bafite imbaraga nke zo gushaka ikintu wenyine."
Robin Klovitz agira inama ababyeyi kugirango yigaragarire ubwayo, akaba ari ngombwa muriki gihe - ibisubizo byiza cyangwa inzira yo kwiga, kandi niba ukunda guha umwana wawe umudendezo mwinshi wo kwiga no gukemura imirimo wowe ubwawe. Niba udashobora kwivanga mubikorwa, hanyuma usingize kandi ushyigikire umwana - ibi kandi ni byo kwitabira ibibazo bye.
Nanone, umuhanga mu by'imitekerereze yatangajwe ku bundi bwakiriwe - mbere y'ikintu cyo kubwira umwana, kubara kugeza 10 aribaza niba yamuhaye umwanya muto? Niba wizeye ko umukobwa wawe cyangwa umuhungu wawe atari imbaraga, ndabubaha nshize amanga. Abana bose bakeneye inkunga.
