Abaturanyi bo mu gihugu, no ku rubuga no ku rubuga, mu muturanyi, mu muhanda ... Abaturanyi mu buzima baraduherekeza, bari hafi. Tubana naba bantu, amakimbirane n'ibyanjye, tujya impaka ku kintu gito, dufashanya, gutema. Hariho ibihe bitandukanye, ibintu byose ni nkibisanzwe.
Inshuti n'abana bacu barimo kugenda hamwe kuruzi, bagendera kumagare, bakina umukino umwe kuri interineti, rimwe na rimwe gutongana, rimwe na rimwe bakundana kandi barongora. Noneho abaturanyi baraba amasaha. Igishimishije, muri kimwe mu bihugu by'Uburayi hari ndetse n'ikiruhuko "cy'abaturanyi". Ntekereza ko ibyo aribyo, nibareke baneshe kumeza rusange, bazavugana n'ingingo zisanzwe, kunywa ikirahuri cya divayi, muririmbe indirimbo ya roho.
Ariko mubuzima hari ibihe bitandukanye. Turashobora kurakara numuturanyi wo kuvunika gato hagati yibibanza cyangwa byashizwe hafi cyane shrub, kurega ko umuturanyi nimugoroba ikintu giteze amatwi. Umuturanyi yarenze ku mahoro cyangwa gushyira imodoka hafi y'umuryango wawe. Kwibukwa?
Twari dufite urubanza. Ntabwo twigeze dufunga umuryango mu nzu. Muririmbe, kare mu gitondo, n'uwo mwashakanye mu cyumba cyo kuraramo hazaba umuturanyi: "Hari imigabane ya mm 50?" Nibyiza, kubera ibi kugirango ubabaze numuturanyi? Yabajije, ndahaguruka ndasangira. Ntamuntu wapfuye, ntakintu cyabaye, abantu bose ni bazima kandi bafite ubuzima bwiza. Nibyo, kuva icyo gihe uwo mwashakanye yatangiye gufunga umuryango ijoro ryose, kandi nabwiye iyi nkuru kukazi nka anecdote nshya.
Noneho, mugihe cyiterambere ryihuse muri societe, rimwe na rimwe ibibazo byacu bimenyerewe nibindi bibazo, ariko ibi biracyari kandi tubana nayo. Ugomba kwiga kubaho neza, kubaha igitekerezo cyumuturanyi, ugomba gushobora kugwa bito, ugomba gushobora kumva witonze ikindi gitekerezo. Reka umuturanyi arengere kurwego muri societe, ariko we n'umuryango we nabo bashakisha umwanya munsi yizuba. Igomba kumvikana, ugomba kubyemeranya nibi, ugomba kwihanganira.
Tekereza uko ibintu bimeze kuri mugenzi wawe uri umuntu wa hafi. Ntabwo bikiri kuri we kwiringira, ntamuntu numwe wasangira ingorane zanjye nta muntu wo gusaba amafaranga mugihe kitoroshye. Mu gushimira, uyu muntu arashobora kugutera ikibazo cyibitambo ijana. Bibaho kenshi. Urashobora kandi kugira ibibazo, kandi mbere ya byose umuturanyi azaza gutabara. Mumwanya utoroshye, duhora dushimisha abaturanyi. Kavukire n'abavandimwe barashobora kubaho kure, kandi umuturanyi ahora ahari.
Imanza z'amakimbirane ziri kumwe n'umuturanyi, bari mu muryango wawe. Umuntu ntabwo akunda amatsiko yabaturanyi, ibindi biganiro inyuma, icya gatatu - Imyidagaduro ya nijoro cyangwa amatungo yabo. Mubihe byose, ugomba kwishyira mubera umuturanyi, wumve ikibazo, rimwe na rimwe uvuga gusa. Ntugomba na rimwe gushyira mu bikorwa umubano nabaturanyi, ntibizigera biganisha kubisubizo byiza.
Nkuko Mikhail Zadornov yabivuze neza kandi neza: "Kudaharanira ni urwobo, ubundi ayikoresha nk'imwobo." Gusa binyuze mu bwumvikane, binyuze mu kwemererwa gato, amakimbirane arashobora gukemurwa binyuze mu ntoki z'ibishwe n'inyungu zabo. Umuturanyi azize rwose ibikorwa byawe kandi ubutaha uzaguha inzira.
Rimwe na rimwe, umuturanyi arakaze, yishimye cyane, ikinyabupfura. Vuga kumvugo ya Tone, reka twumve ko utavuguruza amakimbirane, kandi urubanza ntiruzigera. Rimwe na rimwe, urashobora kongera ijwi, waburiye rwose: "Nta gihano kizabaho!" Yasobanuye imyifatire yawe kandi yongera kuvuga atuje, igicapo kiva muri ibi kitoroherwa kandi biteye isoni.
Buri gihe ujye wibuka:
- Abantu bose baratandukanye, ibitekerezo byacu kubyerekeranye neza nibitandukanye - ukunda umwe, umuturanyi aratandukanye, shaka ubwumvikane;
- Buri gihe urakaza neza umuturanyi;
- Shishikariza ubucuti bw'abana bawe, wigishe umuco wabo w'imyitwarire;
- Komeza ubwinjiriro bwawe kandi butumire;
- Vugana, fasha umuturanyi wawe, komeza kumunota utoroshye;
- n'inzira zose zigenda ziva mu makimbirane avuka;
- Buri gihe shiraho gusa ibyiza.
Guswera! Vuba aha yahuye n'umuturanyi wacyo mu mbuga nkoranyambaga. Biragaragara ko turi mumatsinda amwe. Nanjye sinari nzi ko umuturanyi wanjye afite ibyo akunda nkanjye. Yabwiwe - Nibyo, ibintu byose mubyukuri.
Basore reka tube inshuti!
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