Kwegera umwana ni inzira igoye, igihe cyuzuye ibyiringiro kandi ihindura rwose uburyo busanzwe bwubuzima. Umuntu wo muri Unigieli afata umuryango uhuza imisatsi yose yamaraso, kandi umuntu akoresha imyaka, agerageza kubaka intambwe ku yindi, ariko ntabona ingingo mu guhura.
Twebwe muri ADME.ru byemejwe ko abantu bahitamo kurera batagomba gutunga umutima munini gusa, ahubwo bafite ubutwari no kwihangana. Noneho hariho amahirwe ko umwana wundi uzahinduka abavandimwe.
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Ababyeyi bakiriye musaza wanjye. Abavandimwe bose n'abaziranye bari bafite icyizere ko batazashobora guhinga umuntu usanzwe ko nta kintu cyiza kizarekurwa. Kubera uko ba jangi. Kubera iyo mpamvu, murumuna wanjye yarangije amashuri afite umudari wa zahabu, na kaminuza ifite impamyabumenyi itukura. Uyu niwe muntu wenyine uzahora anshyigikira kandi akatitaye ku mibereho akomeje kubagwa kandi abikuye ku mutima. Ndashima rwose kandi nubaha umuvandimwe wanjye kavukire. Gennes ni imwe, kandi urukundo nuburere ni ikibazo gitandukanye rwose. © Kurenga / VK
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Umujyanama wanjye n'inshuti yanjye icyarimwe yahisemo kurera umwana. Yakusanyije inyandiko ibihumbi. Nari murutonde rwamuwe, kuko yafashe umuhungu "ikibazo". Abantu bose bavuze ko bizamugora: baravuga bati: "Umwana ni muto, intege nke kandi bigaragara ko azakomeza iterambere ryo mu mutwe. Uyu muhungu afite imyaka 14, abana na nyina i Montenegro, yitangiza ibihembo mumarushanwa ya siporo, yakira impamyabumenyi kubushakashatsi bwiza kwishuri. Nkuko yabivuze, "Nabonye ko adafite urukundo." © Timofey Hooks / facebook
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Twagize imyaka 8 tutabya tumenya ko biteguye kurerwa. Twifuzaga abahungu babiri imyaka 2-3. Kubwimpamvu runaka, nahise mpamya umwana wimyaka 6, yabwiye bike kubijyanye nigihe cye cyibindi. Twifuzaga kureka, kuko nicyo cyumvise cyari giteye ubwoba. Ariko igihe umugabo wanjye twabonaga ifoto, yitegereza aho tuherereye. Nta bwiza ku ifoto - uruhara rukabije ikintu hamwe no kumwenyura. Ariko twahise tutinya, cyangwa imiterere ye cyangwa ibibazo byashize nibizaza. Habayeho kumva neza ko yacu.
Byari bigoye cyane ku isegonda. Batanze umuhungu w'imyaka 1.5, nta kibazo rwose, mu nama - nziza, ariko si ibyacu. Yoo, ibyabaye hano! "Nturi mu iduka guhitamo!" - Ubu ni bwo buryo bworoshye twumvise. Ariko twari tumaze kumenya ibi bintu, tumaze kwibasirwa numukuru hamwe numukuru, ariko ibyiyumvo byerekana "kwacu" ntibyarashize kandi bikadukomeza kandi byadukomeje kandi byadukomeye kandi byadukomeje kandi byadukomeje kandi byadukomeje kandi byadukomeje kandi byadukomeje kandi byadukomeje kandi byadukomeje kandi byadukomeje kandi byadukomeje kandi byadukomeje kandi byadukomeje kandi byadukomeje kandi byadukomeje kandi byadukomeje kandi byadukomeye kandi byadukomeje kandi byadukomeje kandi byadukomeje kandi byadukomeje kandi byadukomeje kandi byadukomeje kandi byadukomeje kandi byadukomeje kandi byadukomeje kandi byadukomeze kandi byadukomeze. Babyanze, batanga undi, ariko ntibongeye. Hariho ultimatum: haba uyu cyangwa umuntu uwo ari we wese. Twari duhangayitse cyane, ariko twaranze. Aba abanzi b'abaturage. Niba atari gutsinda ku mukuru, inzugi z'umurinzi izafungwa iteka. Hanyuma igitangaza kiraba. Nabonye ifoto mu itsinda ryabakorerabushake, umutima umaze gukonjeshwa. Yerekanye umugabo we, kandi ako kanya: "Uyu ni yacu!" Twashushanyijeho amezi atandatu, ariko twagize amahirwe. Umubyeyi wacu yagize imyaka 10. Nababaye, hari ibibazo byari byiteguye kugabanya amaboko yawe, ariko ntibyari bike - kuko aba ni abana bacu. 100%. © Mari.ar / Pikabu
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Umuryango wacu hashize imyaka 8 yemeye umuhungu wimyaka 4. Ababyeyi bakoresheje amafaranga yose bakoporora imodoka kugirango bakore impapuro, fata, imyambarire, inkombe. Mama yagiye murugo avuye kukazi kugirango amufashe kumenyera kumiterere mishya. Dushyira imbaraga zawe zose nubugingo. Noneho ubu nta cyifuzo cyo kumukunda kandi ushaka kumwakira. Yiba mu rugo, ku ishuri mu nshuti, ashuka mu kinini kandi gito, yiga kuri babiri. Umunebwe na Narcissiste, kandi ntabwo yinjiye mu myaka y'inzibacyuho. Nta n'umwe mu babyeyi be kandi wemera ko abantu bose bamutegekwa. Imyaka 8 imitsi no kurahira. © Kurenga / VK
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Twaguye mu mukobwa waguye afite imyaka 8, twari tumaze kugira umuhungu w'imyaka 13. Ntabwo nashoboraga kubyara abana, ariko nashakaga rwose. Ariko mu kigo cy'imfubyi, twabonye uyu mukobwa mwiza umuryango wapfuye mu mpanuka ikomeye. Ubu amaze imyaka 19, ariko ntiyigeze anyita mama. Byose ni byiza, ariko kugeza ubu hari kumva tudusura, atari murugo. Umubano we wose natwe urasa nkugushimira. Ariko ndashaka ko yumva kavukire, yari azi ko ari inzu ye. Amagambo yavugije induru imyaka 11 arashize, azunguruka mumutwe mugihe cyo gutongana kwambere ko asanzwe afite ababyeyi kandi ntituzongera kubaho abandi. Ariko turamukunda cyane. © Kurenga / VK
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Babiri mu bana bacu barezwe abavandimwe. Nabeshya niba mvuze ko njye n'umugore wanjye tutigeze dutekereza, twemerwa neza dujyana abana mu kigo cy'imfubyi. Ariko ntitwigeze tubirinda rwose. Ubwa mbere, abasore bari bigoye kumenyera. Ariko noneho bamenye ko abakunda mubyukuri, baratuza. Birumvikana ko abana bamurerera bazahora bumva ububabare runaka. Barashobora kwibuka amateka yabo, mugihe badashoboye kugaruka kuri yo no kuyikuraho rwose. Kandi iki nikintu gikomeye gifitanye isano no kurera. Ariko hari abana badafite ibibazo? Birumvikana ko atari byo. Ntabwo rero ndicuza ko kurera. Njye, mu buryo bunyuranye, ndashimira cyane abana banjye, kugira ngo ntabisobanure n'amagambo! © William Spencer / cora
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UKWIZERA GUSOBANURE UFITE UMUKOBWA W'UMUNSI 5 Uhereye kuri DOMPHAGE DASHA. Ibintu byose byari byiza kugeza ibyo kumyaka 14 ntabwo byafunguye ukuri, umwe "utatitaye". Umukobwa yateye igisenge: ashinja nyina wakiriye mubyaha byose bipfa, yatangiye guhunga inzu, kuvugana na sosiyete mbi. Ndetse yahindukiriye televiziyo izwi cyane afite icyifuzo cyo gushaka nyina kavukire. Kubera iyo mpamvu, byagaragaye ko batabona nyina gusa, ahubwo yanabonye murumuna we - ikirere, undi muryango waremewe. Umubyeyi w'ababyeyi, umugore waguye, mu nama ntiyaretse ngo naha no ku muryango. Mushikiwabo ku kutishimira kwe, yasubije umuryango asubije rwose ko afite ababyeyi - abarezwe. DEYA ntiyigeze ababarira umubyeyi we kavukire wamujugunye cyangwa umurezi, imyaka myinshi ahishe ukuri kukuri kurera.
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Umuturanyi yataye umwana wenyine mu mpanuka y'imodoka, igihe yari afite imyaka 17. Nyuma yigihe gito, igihe yari afite imyaka 50, yafashe Greta w'imyaka 6 ukomoka mu kindi gihugu. Umukobwa yari afite ibibazo bimwe byimyitwarire yaje guhinduka mumitekerereze. Umuturanyi yamutwaye mu baganga, yagerageje ibiyobyabwenge, ariko biba impfabusa. Ubwa mbere, Greta yatorotse mu nzu imyaka 14. Nyuma y'amezi abiri, guhunga inshuro nyinshi. Umukobwa yasobanuye ko yagerageje gusubira mu muryango, wibye umubyeyi we wamureze. Igihe Gret yari afite imyaka 16, yabuze umwaka urenga. Asanga igihe umuturanyi yahamagarirwaga mu bitaro byo muri leta 5 avuye mu nzu, ati Greta yibaruka agasiga uyu mukino, asiga umwana aho ngaho na nyina mugenzi we. Noneho, mu myaka 67, umwana yaguye kumuturanyi. Greta yagaragaye rimwe mu mwaka asaba amafaranga yahawe na nyina, ayicamanya gufata umwana. Nyuma yimyaka ibiri yasize undi mwana mubindi bitaro. Noneho umuturanyi asanzwe afite muri 80, kandi azana "abuzukuru" bafite amarangamutima. © jaimysterir / Reddit
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Umukunzi mwiza wapfuye muri iyo mpanuka, umuhungu muto yagumye. Nabyemeje. Umugabo wanjye kuva mu bakurambere ba mbere - abakobwa ba Twin, nyina yambuwe uburenganzira bw'ababyeyi. Babayeho bose hamwe n'umuryango wa gicuti, kandi sinatekereza no ku kuba Razchu "abana" abana, mu gihe ababyeyi banjye batangiye kwihanganira ubwonko bwanjye. "Kuki urwanya abandi bana? Kuki ukurura iyi orav wenyine? Amaherezo, amaherezo, umwana we, amaraso ye! " Abana mu minsi mikuru rusange bararagabaga ibisafuga ko ari Prodigyushi n'umutwaro kuri njye. Apoguhemu yabaye ati: "Ntabwo ari uko, twabyariye, kugira ngo mutarure ubwoko bwacu!" Biragoye kubungabunga umubano byose, ntushobora kwihanganira byinshi. Abasore barazamutse, bakuze. Nari nkeneye guterwa impyiko. Abana bose birutse kugira ngo batangire ibizamini, nubwo ntababajije kandi nticecetse ku cya nyuma, ariko umugabo wanjye yarabwiwe. Kubera iyo mpamvu, umwe mu bakobwa yampaye impyiko. Gusa nyuma yuko ababyeyi banjye bayahamagaye umwuzukuru we basaba imbabazi. © Kurenga / VK
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Mushikiwabo hamwe numugabo wanjye ntamwambi. Twahisemo gufata umukobwa mu kigo cy'imfubyi, gituje kandi gitsinda. Igihe nyirabukwe yamubonye, avuza induru ati: "Urakoze! Imyaka irangiye ntabwo nzaba abuzukuru kavukire, nabandi bantu bakuze! Ntibisobanutse ko iyi mfubyi yari mu muryango. " Batuje mama, banditse byose kugirango bahangayike. Byatwaye imyaka 5, kandi nyirabukwe ntiyashoboye kwemera umwuzukuru wakira. Ndetse impano z'ibiruhuko ku mutima zigura abana b'umukobwa w'imfura, abuzukuru bavuna. Kugirango tutazongera kurera umukobwa, kandi ntibyinshi mu guhimbaza, mushikiwabo kuganira na nyirabukwe yagombaga guca ibishoboka byose.
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Nibanze umukobwa afite imyaka 4. Ubu afite 33, 2 amashuri makuru. Umukobwa mwiza! Igihe kimwe namubaza nti: "Urumva undi muntu uzi ko wakiriwe?" Yishuye ati: "Oya! Nahoraga nishimiye ko nkwiriye umuryango kandi ko wampinduraga. " Nyuma, umuhungu wanjye yaravutse, none mfite abana babiri beza. © Erika Cirole / YouTube
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Igihe umuhungu yakira yari afite imyaka 14, twatonganye, kandi sinibuka kubera iki. Bukwi na bukwi, ntabwo twari umuryango kuri we kandi ko byaba byiza tutigeze tuyakurikiza. Byarakomeretse, ndateranira hamwe na Mwuka, aramusubiza ati: "Yego, ndabizi." Igitangaje, kubwimpamvu runaka byanyoroheye kuko umuhungu yaje kubivuga n'ijwi rirenga. Kuri uwo mugoroba, yagiye mu rugo arara inshuti. Birumvikana ko umugabo n'umugabo wanjye n'umuhungu muto bahangayitse cyane. Bidatinze nyuma yo gusubira mu rugo, yasabye imbabazi ku myitwarire ye no kuba yaratorotse. Hanyuma amaso ye ahita yuzura amarira ambwira ko mubyukuri azababaza gusa ko ajurikirwa kandi ko benshi muri bo bifuza kuba amaraso kavukire kuri twe. Yatoboye umutima wanjye kuruta aya magambo ye atongana. Namubwiye ko mbyumva kimwe. Twicaye dutandukanye kandi twitegereje. Bidatinze, nubwo bidahita, imibanire yacu yarateye imbere. © Ruth Alborough / TORA
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Umukobwa wanjye muto muto yaje iwacu kubana afite imyaka 10. Ahubwo, uyu ni umukobwa wanjye wo hagati yamuyoboye ijoro ryose, rimara imyaka 13. Ku myaka yacyo, umukobwa yanyuze muri byinshi. Hamwe no kugaragara kwe, nasanze bwa mbere ko ngomba gukunda umuntu udategereje igisubizo. Ko adashobora na rimwe kudukunda mu gusubiza. Ko ntashobora na rimwe kuba abizerwa nk'umuryango. Ariko umukobwa wakira gusa yamfashije kumenya koko. Nyamuneka ntunshimire, nkunda abana babyaye hamwe na firime zose zubugingo kandi nabaha ubuzima kuri bo, ariko nkunda umukobwa wakira, wenda cyane. Yahinduye ubuzima kandi atwigisha kuba afunguye kandi inyangamugayo. Uyu munsi, abana banjye bose bane bafite urugwiro kandi bahuze, nk'agatsiko. Turi umuryango we, kandi ni uwacu. © Renee Lacoste ndende / cora
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Nahisemo kwandika inkuru y'inshuti yanjye Roman, wabaye se ukirana mu mwaka wa 95 wa kure. Umushoferi woroshye, uwo bashakanye Tatiana, mwana wanjye. Umugore yagiye mu bitaro kugirango abone umukobwa wo kubyara. Ngaho, bamwe mu basore banze kwanga umwana. Umuhungu yibarutse kubabaza, kurakara, n'umugore wa Roma wa mbere aramugamura. Umwana yagombaga gutora umwana mu nzu, ariko kubera ko yari uruhinja, nk'uko uwo mwashakanye yaramusize, avuga ko bazajyana nyuma y'iminsi 3. Habayeho isoko, uruzi rugenda, ubwato ntibwashinze, Ishicer, nta mihanda igana mu mudugudu. Roman yazanye abasore murugo kandi ntiyatekereje ko ubuziraherezo. Natekereje ko umuhanda uzabika ugatwara umwana muto munzu. Bageze kuri uwo muhungu, ararwara, ahitamo kutamukoraho. Tatyana yamaze kuvuga ko atazaha umuntu uwo ari we wese. Mumwita - Mwana. Yatanze icyifuzo cyo kurerwa, bafite umuryango mwiza, kandi inyuma yabo. Vuba aha, igitabo cyavuze ko Stasu (umuhungu yahamagariwe), igihe cyari kimaze imyaka igera kuri 8, "icyiza, cyukuri" umuturanyi we yabwiye byose. Umusore yarafunzwe bwa mbere, abaza ababyeyi ati: Ntibahakana, batangarije ukuri. Umuhungu yacecetse igihe kinini, hanyuma aravuga ati: "Noneho, ubu ndumva impamvu mwese mutanduye, kandi ndi umwijima."
Umuroma hamwe na Tatiana muri novosibirk yimura umuryango wose. Noneho abana bamaze gukura, mukuru yagiye i Moscou, arashyingiraho ajya i Krasnodar. Ababyeyi ntibibagirwa, andika, sura gusura. Ariko ababyeyi ba SAS baragumye, babana batandukanye, ariko mu bwinjiriro buturanye. Yashyingiwe, akora, nk'igitabo, umushoferi. Umuromani ubwe yagize ati: "Ndashimira iherezo n'umugore wanjye, ko mfite Umwana nkuyu. Nkuko ntekereza ko byaba ari kumwe na we niba Tanya atamubonye mu bitaro by'ababyeyi. " Ku munsi w'ejo namenye ko Stas yari afite umukobwa wavutse, Tanya yahamagaye, mu rwego rwo guha icyubahiro mama. © Sibirskix / Pikabu
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