Iyo jye n'umugabo wanjye tugiye kuba ababyeyi ku nshuro ya kabiri, twari tuzi neza ko nsanzwe nzi byose kandi niteguye kuri bose. Bane babibanye bane, ni iki gishobora gutungurwa n'umwana wa kabiri - n'umuhungu? Byaragaragaye, byinshi. Byongeye kandi, gushyikirana n'inshuti byagaragaye - atari byo twasenyutse gusa ibijyanye no guhanura abana.
Ati: "Hamwe n'umwana wa kabiri nshobora gutunganya ibintu byose neza," Natekereje igihe ntwite. - ntakintu gishya kidateganijwe.
Ubugingo bwari imyizerere igoye ko nkuko umubyeyi yanshizeho umuhungu mukuru. Ntabwo niteguye kuvuvu no guhinduka. Ariko, buri mwana ukurikira mubintu bihinduka rwose bagize umuryango we.
Byarushijeho kugorana, kandi byoroshye
Twari tubizi: Byaba birushijeho kurambirwa. Bizaba byibura cyane. Ariko ntibari bazi ko bizahenze cyane - burigihe bizeraga ko bihagije kugura umwana mukuru, hanyuma ubikoreshe hamwe nibi bikurikira.
Iya kabiri ntabwo yanyuze mubintu byambere. Mubyukuri, imyenda yose yari igikwiye kugura. Kandi nagumanye ibyumba byose byumwana w'imfura. Ariko, itandukaniro ryibihe byagize ingaruka. Umukuru yavutse mu cyi, igihe cy'itumba gito - bityo nticyashobokaga guhuza imyenda.- Bimeze gute - nta kintu na kimwe ari hafi? - Umugabo yaratangaye. - Kandi ni ukubera iki twabitse ibi byose byinangiye?
Ndacecetse. Umuntu yakuyeho ububiko nkuko byagaragaye, kimwe cya kabiri cya garage, gifite uburenganzira bwo kurakara. Byari ngombwa kugurisha ibintu byose, kandi amafaranga kuri konti ifunze - ubu bari kugura byose kuri buri mwana wa kabiri.
Ariko mubibazo byo murugo, mugihe, byabaye byoroshye cyane. Abana bakiri kare batangiye gukina. Muburyo bumwe, ndetse mfite ubuntu kuruta ubwitonzi bwambere bwo kwita kubana.
Reba kandi: kumva ko wicira urubanza nuburyo bwo kubyitwaramo: inkuru yumubyeyi umwe
"Twatunguwe, hamwe n'abana babiri, rimwe na rimwe byoroshye (umukobwa we afite imyaka 6 n'umuhungu ufite imyaka 2). - Bakina byinshi hamwe, rimwe na rimwe no mugihe kirekire. Kandi abakuru bahise babaho umufasha utabishaka. Hamwe numwana wa kabiri nanjye ubwanjye ndaruhutse cyane. Kandi kwishimira umunezero mwinshi. Yari afite ishyari, ariko mugihe gito cyane. Afite kwihangana bihagije kugirango yerekane murumuna we isi akakubwira byose bimwerekeye. Ntabwo narose kuri ibyo.
"Nibyiza" byahindutse kimwe ku "bidashoboka"
Soma kandi: konsa na mama bigoye - Amateka ya Mama
Hamwe numwana wambere nateje imbere kureratu. Kurugero, kugaburirwa kubisabwa amasaha. Byari byiza - Ndi icyarimwe uruhukira iruhande rw'umwana. Iyo abana ari babiri, iyo gahunda ntabwo ikora. Byibuze gukenera guhaguruka no guteka kurya mukuru. Tutibagiwe nuko ahora yitondera.
Ariko inzira yo konsa kwari ugushima byoroshye. Umubiri birashoboka ko wibutse uko bikorwa. Mukuru I hafi ibyumweru bibiri nyuma yo kubyara imvange hanyuma ahora yibwiraga ko atari icyaha. Kuva mu icupa, ku bw'amahirwe, yashoboye kwanga. Kandi uwa kabiri ntabwo yari akenewe na gato. Nubwo nari nzi neza ko nazongera kunyura ifu yose ya GW.
Ariko, nzi abagore benshi bari kumwe nabana ba kabiri bahatiwe guhindukirira imvange. Nibyibura gusa nijoro umugabo ashobora kwihagararaho.
Izina rya Catherine riti: "Muri rusange numva umuhemu." Yabujijwe igihe aboneka amezi ane, ntibyashobokaga kugaburira amabere. Byahinduwe mu biryo by'ubukorikori. Iya kabiri yari ifite ibibazo byo gusaba kubera umuswa wururimi. Mugihe ufunzwe neza - mukuru azahindura inzu. Ntushobora rero kugaburira igihe kirekire.
Birabujijwe kubabaza
Ahari umuntu ashobora gushakisha ubuhanga kuki nyina atigeze ababaza? Birumvikana ko izuru ritemba rishobora kubaho cyangwa igitekerezo cya migraine. Ariko umubyeyi akingiwe indwara zidashimishije rwose, nkibicurane.
Reba kandi: Nigute Nabaye Abana - Amateka Mama, wibagiwe ibye
Mama Svetlana yatangarije ati: "Mfite abana bane, kandi sinigeze ndwara" uburenganzira "igihe kirekire: kuryama no gukomera." - Mubimenyetso byambere, burigihe nemera ikintu ku mbuto kugirango indwara izihutira. Niba bidafasha, abambuzi baremereye Medico-Ubuntu bijya kurugamba. Mu myaka mike ishize narwaye cyane. Ariko no mugihe cyo kwiyongera, byari ngombwa guhaguruka, gutegura, kwishyura umwanya kubana. Yagaruye vuba aha.
Ntekereza ko hari ikintu gihari. Nanjye ubwanjye mfite abavandimwe na bashiki bacu babiri, kandi mama atigeze arwara. Noneho ndumva impamvu. Mama ni urugero kandi ninkigo zabo.
Ingingo y'ingenzi: ishyari
Umuntu wese burigihe yerekana ko umwana azaba umwanzi wumwana mukuru. Twari twiteguye gutongana guhoraho turadutegereje kandi hafi kurwana urukundo, ibitekerezo no guhimbaza. Ariko, nkuko byagaragaye, muriki kibazo biterwa gusa n'ababyeyi. Gushiraho umubano hagati y'abana, ni ngombwa cyane kwitondera umwana wambere, cyane cyane muminsi yambere. Nibyo twakoze kubwibi:
- Abavandimwe n'abavandimwe mugihe bazaza gusura itegeko ryubupfura, bazane impano, numuhungu w'imfura. Ntoya aracyariho, ariko uwambere ntabwo yumvaga yambuwe. Amaherezo, abana bose b'igikinisho bakinnye hamwe.
- Yemereye imEmeza muri make ngo yongere kuba uruhinja: kubana b'imyaka ine, ibisanzwe nyuma yo kugaragara k'umukinnyi "umunywanyi" washakaga icupa, bwonsa na Auto. Interuro nka "Urasanzwe rwose" ufite ingaruka zinyuranye. Abashakanye bari bafite iminsi ibiri yo gutakaza inyungu mubintu bya murumuna muto.
Ndabaza: Umubyimba mwinshi ku isi, umwana yashoboye gutakaza imirongo 108: uko yabaye ubu
- ibitekerezo byinshi - imfura. Nyuma y'umwana amaze kuvuka, umuhungu we yari ngombwa ko ahora yumva ko akunzwe. Twagerageje gutunganya ibintu byose kugirango adafite kumva ko yasimbuwe.
- Ba abafatanyabikorwa. Nabwiye umuhungu wanjye nk'uko nabyigeze gushaka ko barumuna banjye bavutse. Twasetse hamwe uko nasabye igare kandi nkana no guhana abana. Ariko rero twagize inshuti kandi tugakundana. Kandi umuhungu wa nyirarume nawe akunda kandi ntazibwira ko ubuzima butabatiza. Papa nawe yahujwe kandi, yasangiye ibyo yibuka igihe mushiki we yagaragaye. Yararize abaza impamvu mama atabyaye ifarashi. Ariko nyuma nakunze umwana kandi buri gihe ndabirwanaho. Umwana akimara kumenya ko ibyiyumvo bye ari ibisanzwe, byabaye byoroshye kubyihanganira.
Ibyishimo kuri bose
Gushiraho nyirakuru ku ruhare rwa Nanny? Saba umuturanyi gukura kuva mu ishuri ry'incuke? Kubwimpamvu runaka, nahoraga mfite ibibazo. Byasaga nkaho abana banjye bakora ku mitsi, kandi icyifuzo cyanjye cyo kugufasha kizoba. Ariko kwari kumwe numwana wa kabiri, nahise mbona ko nkunda abana banjye. Niki gihagije cyo kubaza - no gufasha kugaragara.
Urugero, igihe kimwe nahamagaye muka murumuna wanjye, abo tutigeze tugirana umubano mwiza, kandi twinubira ko narushye. Yageze mu isaha akina n'abakuru mugihe nakoraga umwana.
Umukazana we wemerwe ati: "Nkunda abana." - Mugihe ntamuntu, dyunchalchi. Kandi amaguru yawe! Urakoze kuba yaratumiwe.
Byari ukuri kumenya icyo gihe. Ko n'umugabo wanjye kandi ntabwo twenyine ni bo bonyine ku rugamba, kandi abahungu bacu ntabwo bose baremye. Nibyo, biruka kandi urusaku. Ariko haracyariho abashaka kumarana nabo no kudufasha. Ntabwo nizeraga umuntu uwo ari we wese kubera ibibazo bya mama. Biragaragara - kubusa. Abana ntabwo ari umutwaro, abana - umunezero kumuryango wose.