Abana bose bakomeretse bo mwisi bari bafite ibiranga ...
Umwanditsi w'abana, Umwanditsi w'ibitabo byinshi ku bana mu bwoko bw'umuhungu utari Fiksh, buri mwana witwa Masha Rupasova yasohotse mu gitabo cyerekana igitabo "Umubiri Wibuke ibintu byose" byugakomeretsa abana, ubwonko n'iherezo ryabantu. Iyi nyandiko nto nimpamvu nziza yo gutekereza ku kuba ubwana butaguma mu bihe byashize. Dutwara ibibazo byabana nibikomere mubuzima bwabo bwose.
Kimwe mu bitabo nasomye ubu byitwa "umubiri wibuka ibintu byose," Iki ni igitabo cy'ihungabana rya psychologiya rihindura umubiri n'ubwonko. Nari nzi neza kurugero rwawe bwite, ariko burigihe nibyiza kumenya ko utari ku-ku kandi ntacyo yatekereje kuri wewe ikintu cyose.
Igitabo cyanditse Bessel Van der I, muganga wiga gukomeretsa hamwe na nyuma yo guhaguruka kumyaka mirongo itatu. Yakoraga nk'itsinda ry'igihugu ku ndunduro y'abana. Mu rwego rw'iri tsinda, abana ibihumbi 20 bo muri Amerika bavuwe. Byongeye kandi, abaganga bari bafite amakuru yubushakashatsi kubana bagera ku bihumbi ijana kwisi.
Abitabiriye iryo tsinda bashakaga kwandikisha isuzuma rishya risobanura ibimenyetso by'indwara biturutse ku bijyanye no gufata abana ubugome kandi biteye agaciro. Isuzuma ryumvikanye nkimvururu zihahamuka (imvururu ziterambere).
Van Der CHAPLE yanditse ko abana bose bakomeretse bo mwisi bari bafite ibintu bisanzwe:
1) Amabwiriza akomeye y'amarangamutima;
2) Ibibazo byo kwitondera no kwibanda;
3) Ingorane zo kuzenguruka hamwe nabandi.
Ati: "Imyumvire n'ibyiyumvo by'Aba bahungu bitwikiriye bikabije kugeza ku rindi - umuriro w'uburakari n'ubwoba byasimbuwe no gukuraho, kutitabira no gusebanya. Igihe bahangayikishijwe n'imibabaro myinshi), ntibashobora gutuza, cyangwa ngo basobanure ibyiyumvo byabo. "
Imvune yashizweho kandi itangirira abana ba hormone mubana, yamaze imyaka mirongo. Van der chaple yanditse kubyerekeye abarwayi bakuru: akenshi abavuzi, abaganga ba neurologiya nabaganga b'imitiba bafata ibyabaye kuri aba bantu mu myaka myinshi ishize.
Kandi asobanura uburyo iyi mashini ikora:
"Kubaho na gahunda y'ibinyabuzima binangiye umubiri hamwe na hormone yo kumufasha guhangana n'ibibazo nyabyo cyangwa ibitotsi, kubabara umutwe mu mubiri, kongera ibitekerezo byo gukoraho cyangwa amajwi. Kwishimira cyane cyangwa isoni birababuza kwibandaho no kwibandaho. "
"Kubera ko bamara imbaraga ze zose kugira ngo bakomeze kwifata, mubisanzwe biragoye ku buryo bidafite umubano utaziguye wo kubaho (urugero, ubushakashatsi bwishuri), kandi bwiyongereye butuma baganisha ku kuba bahoraga barangara. "
Ku bana bakomeretse:
"Kubera ko bakunze kwirengagizwa cyangwa ngo bajugunye mu bandi bantu kandi basaba kwitonda - nubwo abo ari abantu bamwe bafitanye ubugome."
Ati: "Kubera kwigaragaza buri gihe ku bijyanye na bo, ihohoterwa rishingiye ku mubiri cyangwa ibitsina cyangwa ubundi bwoko bwo kuzenguruka bibi, byanze bikunze batangira gutekereza ko bidashoboka kandi bidafite agaciro. Urwango ubwabo ni uryarya rwose. Ni ko bikwiye ko batizera umuntu? "
"Hanyuma, kumva usuzuguye hamwe no kwisuzumisha cyane mu muyaga ukabije ku buryo butagereranywa buganisha ku byo bibagora kubona inshuti."