Ndi umugabo wandika abavuga ibijyanye nibiryo, kandi umugabo wanjye ntabyitayeho ...
Inkomoko: Mama.ly (Umugiraneza Mathews Mathews)
Nyina w'abana bane ba Charti yavuze uburyo yahanganye n'ubunararibonye ku biryo, kandi icyarimwe amenya ko abana be batatinya kugerageza amasahani mashya, hitamo ibiryo byiza, wirinde amakimbirane ahoraho kumeza. Twimurye inkuru ye.
"Mama, ntukidukunda?", Umukobwa w'imyaka icyenda arankunda? " "Mbere, uradubujije amafunguro menshi yangiza. Ariko iminsi mikuru yose twariye kuki, ibiryoshye nibindi byiza, ariko ntimwarakaye na gato."
Natekereje nti: "Iyi ni yego."
Ugomba kumenya ikintu kumuryango. Ndi umugabo wandika abavuga ibiryo, kandi umugabo wanjye ntabwo yitaye kuriyi ngingo yose. Akunda chip, n'ibiryo byihuse no gufata ibiryo akenshi akunda amasahani yateguwe vuba.
Ni uw'ubwoko bw '"ibinure bitanu", tekiniki araroroshye, ariko ntabwo afite imitsi n'ibindi bimenyetso byumubiri muzima, byemezwa na siporo n'imirire myiza. Ibi byose ntabwo ndimo kuvuga ko ntatinyuka, kandi bigaragara uwaguze iyi kuki zose, ibiryo byiza nibindi byabana bacu bifite ibimera mugihe cyibiruhuko.
Niwe uha abana ibyo byose bibi. Kandi tekereza ninde kuberako ubabaye?
Bidasanzwe, ntabwo ari njye.
Ariko ntabwo buri gihe byari bimeze.
Dufite abana bane: 6, 8, 9 na 11. Nabaye nyina utinze, mbere yuko ugira umwanya wo gukora umwuga no guteza imbere imico y'ubuyobozi n'imico idakora. Hamwe n'ibi byose, nahise bihutira gukemura ibibazo ibiryo bishobora kurema abana bacu.
Hano hari urutonde rugufi rwibintu byanjye byo kurya:
- Abana bakiri bato ntibazamura ibiro bihagije.
- Hafi abana bazagira ibiro byinshi cyangwa umubyibuho ukabije.
- Diyabete.
- Ibiryo n'ibiryo bidahwitse.
- Allergie y'ibiryo.
- imbaraga nyinshi.
- imbaraga nke cyane.
- Kwamagana nabandi bantu.
- Ibibazo n'umutima mugihe kizaza kubera ingeso mbi zibiribwa.
Kandi icy'ingenzi, divayi izaba nde? Tuba mu kinyejana cya 21, bisobanura, uko byagenda kose, nzaryozwa. Muri societe yacu, ibibazo byose byavutse mubana banjye nibiryo - bizahora bifatwa ko nshobora kubikosora cyangwa kwirinda, ariko ntibyabikoze.
Byari byiza cyane. Nahoraga ntekereza ibiryo. Uzunguza umwana ufite ikiganza kimwe, undi muri iki gihe arashaka ibitekerezo bishya byamasahani meza. Kugerageza ko ibiryo byose ari ibidukikije, kama, bizima kandi icyarimwe. Nta ngaruka, wemeza byibuze byibuze.
Insanganyamatsiko y'ibiryo yayoboye amakimbirane mu mibanire n'umugabo we. Nyuma ya byose, mugihe nagerageje kugaburira ibicuruzwa byose byingirakamaro, yishimiye kugura ibiryo. Hanyuma nahisemo guhindura uko mbibona. Anasobanurira abana be.
Nkunda guteka no kugaburira umuryango wanjye ifunguro ryunguka umubiri, ariko mugihe kimwe kiraryoshye. Nzi neza ko ibiryo byose, ndi kumwe nurukundo kandi nkabitaho birategura, bikubiyemo ishingiro ryingeso nziza mumirire. Ibiryo nkibi ntabwo ari ibicuruzwa bifite intungamubiri gusa, ahubwo ni ibihembo, impano, kwibuka.
Niba kandi nkorera amagi mashya mugitondo cya mugitondo, noneho reka nyuma ya saa sita, bazanywa igikombe kinini cya shokora ishyushye. Niba saa sita, barya karoti ya crispy, ntabwo natekereje ko bashimishijwe bombo. Buri munsi dutwara amagare. Dufite imbwa tugenda, trampoline, aho dusimbuka, hamwe namashyaka aho tubyina. Imibiri yacu ibaho ubuzima bukora, kandi karori ntoyo ntizagirira nabi.
Impamvu y'ubwoba bwanjye ni ubwana bwanjye. Nkiri muto, nari mpindutse cyane kuruta abana banjye. Sinigeze ndya urusenda, amafi, ibihumyo, igitunguru ndetse na rusange kimwe cya kabiri cy'ibyo mama yitegura. Oya, oya, salmon na we, kandi ko amafi meza, arimo gutegura nyogokuru kuri grill yo kurya ku muryango. Ahubwo, nabonye imbwa ishyushye, byaba byiza hamwe na chip.
Kimwe n'abana benshi bo muri 70 na 80, sinasize ubuzima bwateganijwe cyane, kandi nagamira. Kandi sinanyemereye kubibagirwa. Ntabwo narabanenzwe cyane, ariko bavuga ku buremere bwanjye. Urugero, sogokuru, aho kuba indamutso, yashoboraga kuvuga ati: "Urakize."
Birumvikana ko nanze ibi byose, kandi ku bana banjye nashakaga ibyiza.
Natetse ibikombe bizima, isupu yo gutetse hamwe "yihishe", yabahaye imbuto ku giryo. Twariye cuisine yo muri Tayilande, Curry na Kebab. Twagerageje ibintu byinshi. Abana baracyakundaga ibiryohereye, ariko na bo bari kumwe nanjye mu ikipe imwe. Kandi birenze ibyo rimwe na rimwe bisa nkaho ari njye.
Mperutse kubona umwanya wo guteka ifunguro rya sasita maze babaha kugura burger. Tekereza uwasabye ibiryo byingirakamaro? Nuburyo abana. Naguze inkoko n'inkoko. Igihe cyakijijwe, amafaranga kandi wabonye ifunguro ryiza rya sasita.
N'inzira mbikora:
- Ntabwo nzabanenga kubera guhitamo ibiryo.
- Ntabwo mpanganya nibiryo nibindi byiza.
- Ndabafasha gufata icyemezo gikwiye.
Buri mugoroba dusangira hamwe. Ariko ndagerageza kutayihindura ikibazo. Ubwa mbere, burigihe hariho umugati nimbuto bishya, ngira ngo itigera ibabaza. Icya kabiri, mbashyiramo amafunguro atari yo kugirango baburanishe. Mubisanzwe, ibiyiko bibiri. Noneho nabo basaba kongera ibyo bakunda. Bafite umudendezo wo gufata icyemezo, kandi igitutu kirazimira. Ku mafunguro, ntabwo tuvuga utisibwe cyangwa utagezeho, wariye byinshi cyangwa bike, ariko tugabanya ibyabaye kumunsi, byasimbutse.
Kandi namenyesheje sisitemu "igikumwe - igikumwe hasi" kugirango wige rimwe na rimwe kugirango umenye igitekerezo cyabantu bawe bwite. Twabujijwe n'amagambo nka "mubi", ariko ibitekerezo byubaka birakirwa kuryohe cyangwa imiterere yisahani.
Mbere, nahangayikishijwe cyane n'abana bose kugirango bagerageze ibiryo byose, none byaretse kuba ishingiro ryanjye. Ahari ibi ni ukubera ko babaye bakuru kandi byoroshye gushyikirana nabo. Ahari kuberako nashoboye kuzamura ubuhanga muri bo. Ahari kuberako nize kutamenya ko umuntu adashaka kunshaka ko ari igitutsi ku giti cye ...
Birumvikana ko ibintu byose bitumvikana. Kandi haracyari ibiryo abana banze kugerageza. Kandi birashoboka cyane, bizahora. Ariko ntacyo bitwaye. Ikintu nyamukuru nuko ubu badatinya amasahani yabo, bumva ko ibiryo ari umunezero n'amahoro mumuryango. Kandi ko nubwo isahani imwe itabikunze, noneho hazabaho hazabaho, kandi birashoboka ko izaryoherwa.
Uyu munsi saa sita, bariye isupu yinyanya, aho nongeyeho ibishyimbo kugirango byoroshye imyenda kandi nka poroteyine. Hanyuma "byateguwe" ibisuguti byingirakamaro biruka mumuhanda. Inzira nziza yo kumara umunsi - ituze kandi nta mihangayiko. Kuri twese.