Igihe umuhungu yarongoraga, benshi mu babyeyi be bishimiye ibyabaye - ubu umusore ukuze mu kuboko umutekano w'umugore ukiri muto, urashobora guhoza vuba birashoboka. Kandi dore ubukwe inyuma, abakiri bato bavuye mu rugendo rwubukwe hamwe nicyumweru gisanzwe cyumuryango watangiye, akenshi bigora niba ibisekuruza bibiri babana.
Birashimishije: interuro 6 z'ababyeyi zituma umwana atsindwaKandi vuba cyane biragaragaza ko umubano hagati yumukazana na nyirabukwe ntibongeraho. Kenshi na kenshi, impamvu iri mumugabo muto wa mama udashaka cyangwa izi uburyo bwo kubona ururimi rusanzwe hamwe nundi mugore, ukiri muto murugo. Impamvu irashobora kuba ishyari ryababuze, udakunda guterwa nimyitwarire yumukazana.
Ariko bigomba kubaho, ugomba rero gushakisha inzira yo guhuza umubano. Abahanga mu by'imitekerereze yo muri psychologue batanga amakosa 6 nyamukuru muri nyirabukwe, birinda umuntu ashobora kuba hamwe numugore wumuhungu we mubantu b'ikirenga.
Umpamagare gusa "Mama"
Mbere, hatitawe ku isano iri hagati y'ababyeyi banjye, aba nyuma bahatiwe kwitwa umubyeyi we. Noneho bibaho gake kandi ntibibisaba, mubyukuri, umukobwa wundi. Benshi muri iki gihe babuzaga amarangamutima kandi ntibakunze kuvugwa nabantu ba hafi.
Wibagirwe guhamagara, inama zingirakamaro n'umutekano
Akenshi, nyirabukwe icyaha afite amabwiriza arenze urugero, nkuko umugore ukiri muto agomba kwita kumuhungu we, guhamagara nta mpamvu akenewe, kugenzura aho umugore akora. Birababaje cyane kandi birashobora no kuganisha ku ntera nyazo. Imyitwarire nkiyi ya nyina isimbuye umuhungu we, yerekana ko ari umuntu udashyira mu mabwiriza, akeneye Nannik, ayisuzugura mumaso ye.
Byongeye kandi, nyirabukwe ntiyumva ko icyifuzo cyabo cyo gutanga inama, gufasha mubuzima bwa buri munsi, imbibi zishyira mu gaciro kandi zikaba igenzura rya buri ntambwe yumugore ukiri muto. Amaherezo, ibitekerezo birahunga kure cyane, kandi umugabo we ari inyuma ye.
Kwigaragaza kw'ishyari ryabagabo
Ababyeyi benshi bemeza ko ishyari ari kwigaragaza urukundo. Mubyukuri, iki nikimenyetso cyerekana Egoism. Iyo nyirabukwe imbere y'umuranye ni mu buhanga, biganisha ku kurwanya negatifu ku ruhande rwe. Mama agomba kugira ngo yiyemeze mu bukwe ubukwe bwagendeye umuhungu we ko yishimiye ko umwuka w'urukundo kandi ubyemera.
Kunegura burundu
Ntabwo nkunda umuntu iyo uhora unengwa mugihe amakosa yo gufata mubikorwa bye. Kureba nyirabuja ukiri muto, nyirabukwe ahoratontomera, yerekana isura ye yose ko ibyo adakora byose uko bikwiye. Kubera iyo mpamvu, ibitekerezo bitangira kwanga nyina wumugabo we akagerageza kuvugana nawe.Amakimbirane kubutaka bwo kurera abuzukuru
Ba nyirakuru, nyirabukwe acishijwe imbere n'umukazana w'ubuzima, ariko atangira gutera uburambe mu kwita cyane n'uburere bw'abana. Cyangwa muri rusange biba kuri ennivance yuzuye, noneho nyirakuru nkunda nyogokuru, hamwe namakimbirane ya mama ukomeye, amaherezo, guhinduka kugenzurwa.
Ndetse no gukunda abagome abuzukuru, ntibashobora kwemererwa gukomeza ibyifuzo byabo.