Umwana abaza inyamaswa: Niki gukora?

Benshi bizera ko guhohoterwa abana bijyanye ninyamaswa bitemewe. Birumvikana ko kugirango urebe iyi ndondo ntabwo ishimishije kubantu bose. Niki cyateje imyifatire y'abana amatungo - amatsiko asanzwe kandi

Kugerageza cyangwa ubugome, gukura kuva mu bwana?

Gushinyagurira kwashinyagurirwa nkabandi baturage bakuru n'abana ntabwo aribisanzwe. Kubwibyo, ababyeyi ntibagomba kwirengagizwa niki kibazo, kandi bagomba gusa gufasha umwana wawe guhangana nayo.

Bitera gufata nabi abana kuri "bavandimwe bato"

1. Kuri buri mwana, abakuze ni ubutware bukomeye, kandi niba bemeye kuba urugomo, noneho abana bazabigana kwigana. Ahari umwana ku bw'impanuka yabaye igitambo cyangwa umutangabuhamya kugira ngo adufate nabi. Gufata inyamaswa nkibi ni ikimenyetso cyeruye imbere yubugizi bwa nabi buzengurutse umwana.
2. Amatsiko. Nk'ubutegetsi, abana nk'abo bafite ibibazo kuri psyche.
3. Kwigaragaza k'ubugome ku nyamaswa ku gahato k'urungano.
4. Kurambirwa, kwiheba, kubura ibyo ukunda.
5. Igikoresho gishingiye ku gihisho, I.e., muri ubu buryo, umwana aragerageza guteza ububabare bw'umuco kuri nyir'inyamaswa. Nanone: niba wemerera umwana gusinzira hamwe na pet cyangwa biteje akaga

Ni izihe ngamba zifata

Kurandura iki kibazo, birakenewe kumenya ubwoko bwa "ubugome" bivuga umwana.

Imyaka 1-6

Nk'itegeko, abana bafite imyaka nkabo ntibabageze bamenya ko atari abantu gusa, ahubwo banagira ububabare. Ntibumva ko inyamanswa atari igikinisho, kuko nta burambe bafite bwo kubitaho.

Imyaka 6-12

Umwana usanzwe yumva ko bidashoboka gusebya inyamaswa. Ariko, birashoboka cyane ko hari ibibazo bikomeye byiterambere rya psychologiya.

Muri ibi bihe, nta nzobere zidakora. Akenshi, imvururu zo mumitekerereze iratera imbere kurwanya inyuma yibibazo murugo. Kubwibyo, birakenewe kwegera igisubizo cyo gukemura ikibazo ku buryo bwuzuye, gukurura ababyeyi.

Kurenga 12

Muri uru rubanza, uruhare rw'umwana mu yandi matsinda (ubugizi bwa nabi, ibiyobyabwenge) biragaragara. Birashoboka ko atazi kwifata, kandi ashaka gutegeka umuntu cyangwa gushinga kugenzura ikindi kindi.

Mu bihe nk'ibi, ubufasha bw'umwuga nabwo buzakenera. Byongeye kandi, mugukemura ikibazo, ni ngombwa gukurura umwana gusa, ahubwo no kubabyeyi be, abarimu, inshuti nziza.

Bikwiye gusobanuka ko gukunda abana ku nyamaswa bifatwa kuva mumyaka ya mbere. Noneho, gerageza ubasobanurire ko bakeneye kubafata babitayeho kandi bakitondera, mwitege neza ubuzima bwabo, ubafashe kandi ubarinde.

Niba inyamanswa yabaga munzu yawe, yigisha umwana wanjye yitonze kugirango amuvunishe, ntabwo ari ugupfunyika kandi ntamukubita, kandi yitonze yitonze, kandi yitonze ayikunda.

Urebye, urashobora gukoresha urugero rwawe. Sobanura ko inyamaswa ifite ubwoba ari akaga kuri we, kandi irashobora kumutera ububabare. Bwira umwana, ni ubuhe buryo bwumubiri winyamaswa (urusaku, umurizo muremure cyangwa gutontoma kuva kwishima) baravuga.

Nibyiza cyane bizaba hamwe numwana hamwe numwana no kureba inyamaswa, haba mubidukikije no muri pariki.

Gerageza kubwira umwana kenshi kubyerekeye ubuzima bwinyamaswa, aho utuye, ingeso. Reba kuri documentaire. Ibi byose bizagufasha gukura eapinant, nziza kandi yita kubantu.