"Mfite imyaka 17, yatangiye guhura n'umusore. Igihe nikigera cyo gukora imibonano mpuzabitsina bwa mbere, naratwitse mpumura ibyifuzo bidafite ishingiro. Nta na kimwe muri bibiri cyari gifite uburambe - igitsina nticyakoze. Ahubwo, yahinduye urugomo rukabije. " Kuva icyo gihe, intwari "nta maso" biroroshye kuvuga "oya" kuruta kubyemera.
- Noneho ndaturika ndiruka. Ku nshuro ya mbere ntabwo yakoze? Noneho iki! Umuntu wese afite uburambe butatsinzwe. Ariko twakomeje guhura tugerageza.
"Kugerageza" - kuko umusore yagize ikibazo. Kumyaka 2.5, byakomeje kubabazwa, umukobwa yagize ikibazo.
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- Natekereje ko ari muri njye: ntabwo ari byiza bihagije, byiza, ukundwa. Ariko ibyo byose sinashakaga kubibona. Natashye, ntontomera kandi dusangira inyuma yinyuma. Nka, byose ni byiza. Ntabwo twaganiriye cyane.
Noneho ibitsina bigerageza guhinduka "akazi". Natekereje igihe cyose: Nigute wakemura ikibazo cyumusore? Byari biteye ishozi. Natangiye gutinya ubucuti no kubahiriza urwitwazo. Kubera iyo mpamvu, twatandukanye. Kandi narimo kwiheba imyaka 4.
Kuva kunanirwa kwambere, hashize imyaka 10. Ntabwo nshobora gutangira umubano, kumenya ko bose biganisha ku mibonano mpuzabitsina. Mfite ubwoba bwo kumva ko gutenguha, agasuzuguro.
Nagiye muri psychologue. Byaragaragaye, iki ntabwo ari ikibazo gusa - cyahinduye ubuzima bwanjye bwose. Kuraho ibigo byerekeranye numubiri wawe, nakinnye mumashusho menshi ya N-ifoto. Ntabwo ibintu byose biratunganye, ariko ndi buzz, icyo ndi mwiza.
Tutinyaga ko ntinya imibonano mpuzabitsina, ntabwo nkurikiza ko ntabishaka, sinumva ibyifuzo cyangwa umunezero. Ndakeka kandi ko iyo ntwaye imibonano mpuzabitsina buri munsi, ndashaka. Ariko mugihe ndi kwikinisha.
Ntabwo mfite ubwoba bwumugabo wambaye ubusa - Mfite ubwoba ko ibintu byose bizongera gusubiramo.
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