Ngakhale kuyesa kangapo kuti mubwezeretse mabotolo okongola (ndipo atengedwa kumapeto kwa mapangidwe a umunthu), magawo ena sanasinthe. Chifukwa amafana ndi moyo pawokha. Chifukwa chake kwa mkazi ndi wokhazikika pamizere yofewa, yozungulira yozungulira, tsitsi lakuda, nkhope. Ndipo kwa bambo pafupifupi - kukula pamwamba pa minofu, minofu yambiri, maliseche ndi okwanira.
Koma kodi mlenje anali ndani, woteteza wa mtima wake ndi banja lake, ngati kukula kumeneku sikunamufikire kwa mabwatolo atayikiridwa kale? Amphaka ocheperako, kuti asunthe chilombo ku HAS, kukula kwake ndi lalifupi kuposa kwa anthu enawo, chifukwa chake ndizovuta kuthamanga, ndikumverera "zazifupi.
Kuyambira pamenepo, zochepa zasintha. Funsani funso lililonse kuti: "Wosankha anu ayenera kudziwa zambiri zanji?" - Ndipo imva pakati pa zinthu zina zofunika kwambiri. Nthawi zambiri, "amuna ang'ono" sangathe kupeza mnzake kwa nthawi yayitali, omwe amakwiya komanso kukhazikika panyumba iliyonse, chizolowezi cholankhula ndi mayiyo kuti chikhale gawo , pa Tiptoe, etc..).
Osati kokha azimayi samawona mwa iwo ogwira ntchito mgodi ndi oteteza, komanso osawazindikira ngati ana. Ndipo idatopa kwambiri kukopeka ndi chiwerewere. Inde, ndipo atsikana amakono owerengedwa bwino amadziwa bwino kuti muukwati wokhala ndi mzimu wokhala ndi mzimu wotsika ndi mwayi waukulu kubereka ana omwe ali ndi vuto lomwelo.
Ambiri mwa oimira othamanga otsika othamanga amadziona kuti ndi "anthu a kalasi yachiwiri" ndi benchi kusukulu. Ndipo mapangidwe ake ena monga munthu amatengera mwachindunji pamtunda wakunyumba, kuchokera ku zomwe akumva kupita ku zolakwa zomwe zilipo. Wina amasuntha mogwirizana ndi "kholo la" kholo "za" Mwana - lomwe likumva mawu akuti "mwana, ndipo amamva nthabwala za izi (motero anthu osazindikira). China, chosafuna kupirira manyazi, kusangalatsa "surson yovuta" (mtundu wa nkhanu zamphongo zotsika mtengo kumbuyo kwa kukula kochepa). Munthu amayang'ana kutsimikizira kwa aliyense kuti, ngakhale anali wokwera komanso kufooka, amatha kupambana kwambiri. Wina amagulitsa pamalo a micro (m'banjamo, bwalo, mudziwo), koma mayina a winawake, kwa zaka zambiri kwamuyaya amagwera pa nkhani.
Kuphatikiza pa Napoleon (1.62 metres), kutalika kochepa kunali ndi a. V. S. T. Chaplin, ine. dziko lapansi.
Timasirira ochita ziweto monga a Al Pacino, Dustin Hoffman, Tom Cruir, Andrei Snylov, Evgeny Stychkin, Gela Mesa. Pazifukwa zina, ndikuyang'ana pa iwo, owonerera achangu sazindikira kuti mafano akukula ochepa. Kumanja! Timayerekezera kuti ndife odziwika kuti, kukongola ndi mphamvu ya talente, chithumwa, osawola pazinthu zina payekhapayekha.
Kodi ndi mitsinje iti yomwe imataya "napoleon", ngati sakuthandizidwa ndi maluso, zothandizira, chikhumbo chotopetsa chofuna kukhala munthu chofunikira, wapadera, wodziwika, wowoneka padziko lonse lapansi?
1. Kudzidalira kwambiri. Umunthu wowonjezereka ukusonyeza kudzikuza kwake, ndiye kuti ali ndi manyazi. Ndi manyazi izi ndi mantha (monga mwamantha) - pompititsa patsogolo pake. Ndikofunikira kuti mukhale otseguka kwambiri kwa anthu, ochezeka, osavuta kuyankhulana. Khoma la kudzipatulira, lomangidwa ndi munthu wachichepere pofuna kubisalira kumbuyo kwake kwa mabodza ndi kusokonezeka, amazichotsa anthu opambana kwambiri kuchokera kwa iye.
2. Mkhalidwe wovuta kwa anthu. Nthawi yomweyo, kulephera kulikonse kumagwirizanitsidwa ndi kukula kwawo pang'ono, kukhulupirira kuti ena amangobwera kumaso kwaonyamula ake sadziwika kwambiri. Chifukwa chake, anthu ang'onoang'ono amachotsa chifukwa cha zomwe akuchita. Inde, nthawi yomweyo, palibe zopindulitsa zimatha kukhala zolankhula.
3. Kukakamizidwa. Nthawi zambiri, zonyamula zovutazo ndizovuta kwambiri, sizingopirira mavuto komanso zokumana nazo, ndichifukwa chake kukhumudwa kumangokumana ndi mavuto nthawi zonse. Komanso ndikufuna kuwonetsa dziko lomwe silikhala lofooka kwambiri, monga likuwonekera poyang'ana koyamba, kusankha mtundu wamakhalidwe akakhala "chitetezo chabwino kwambiri ndikuwukira."
4. Phokoso kwa amuna apamwamba kwambiri. Ngakhale itakhala mfumu yaying'ono ndi pafupi - wogulitsa anthu. Nthawi zambiri zimadziwika kuti "kufupika" m'mizinda ya utsogoleri kunachepetsa kukula kwa ogwira ntchito kwambiri, kupeza zifukwa zambiri zowakana.
5. Kudzitsimikizira motsutsana ndi anthu ofooka, odalira anthu, zoopsa kwa ana ndi nyama, zisanzo zambiri ngati zomwe zimachitika chifukwa cha kukula kochepa). Monga momwe mawuwo amanenera, "mal klop, inde."
Munthu wina wofatsa apeza njira yandale, bizinesi, luso, utumiki wachipembedzo. Koma izi sizipatsidwa kwa aliyense.
Kodi mungatani ngati muli ndi vuto lanu?
- Dzitengereni nokha (kutalika kwanu, mawonekedwe anu, mawonekedwe amthupi, mtundu wina ndi zachilengedwe). Zindikirani kuti izi zimaperekedwa ndipo sizibwereranso patsamba lino.
- Palibe chifukwa chodzimva ngati "munthu wamng'ono." Mawuwa sakukukula, koma za kudzikhutitsidwa, kuchuluka kwa umunthu. "Munthu wachichepere" - chidole m'manja mwa wopusa. Koma sizokhudza inu!
- Sankhani atsikana omwe siofunika. Ndi ochepa.
- Lekani kuda nkhawa zomwe akuganiza za inu. Ngati ena a iwo oyamba - kukula kwa anthu, ndiye mavuto awo.
Kukula pang'ono kumatha kukhala chilimbikitso chachikulu cha kupambana kwakukulu. Kumbukirani izi.
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